Arushi is Justified

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Everyone is criticizing Arushi for her decision.But I think from her point of view she is justified.Just think of her position- her marriage to someone whom she loved has been ruined without any convincing proofs.No proper reasons. Many people will say marriage in not the end of life..There are so many other things to look forward in life.But ask a young girl brought up in small town.Its very tough to face a broken marriage at the wedding altar with no concrete reason even if the girl is educated.Relations,friends and neighbours are not exactly supportive or helpful.
There is gossip,comments and snide remarks which can play havoc with a young girl's mental state.
Its very easy to get on a high moral pedestal and say idealistic things but on practical level in real life people have to make weird compromises.
Getting back to Arushi she is a life saving and revenge mode.
She is marrying Shakti even though she hated him as she does not want to face the hurt of being rejected
Right now she hates Pratigya's guts as she ruined her marriage ,, she wants revenge at any cost
Finally her parents failed to save her marriage which leaves her with nothing but a bleak future..
In this whole scenario in my opinion main culprits are Prof Saxena and Pratigya because of their rigid and unpractical stands
In this situation Prof Saxena as a responsible father should have had a meeting with Aman 's Father and voiced his concerns.He should have also talked with Aman and tried to find out the true facts and not brushed everything under the carpet.All sensible parents do that for their daughter's marriage specially if its an arranged marriage.
Then Pratigya acts in most impractical ways.Her Intentions might be good but her method of actions are really most unrealistic.If she knew that Aman was a culprit there are many ways to expose him.It should have been done in a delicate tactful way not in the blunt accusing way she goes around.This is something which should never have been done in this melodramatic way in front of everyone making a spectacle of her sister's life.
There is a way to handle things in life in a sensible way.
I really dont like the way Pratigya behaves in a superior way without any consideration for any repercussuions or effects of her so called righteous actions
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I agree that P an Shyamu methods are silly but as for the rest of it ......................WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAT?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: NZkiwi

Everyone is criticizing Arushi for her decision.But I think from her point of view she is justified.Just think of her position- her marriage to someone whom she loved has been ruined without any convincing proofs.No proper reasons. Many people will say marriage in not the end of life..There are so many other things to look forward in life.But ask a young girl brought up in small town.Its very tough to face a broken marriage at the wedding altar with no concrete reason even if the girl is educated.Relations,friend and neighbours are not exactly supportive or helpful.

There is gossip,comments and snide remarks which can play havoc with a young girl's mental state.
Its very easy to get on a high moral pedestal and say idealistic things but on practical level in real life people have to make weird compromises.
Getting back to Arushi she is a life saving and revenge mode.
She is marrying Shakti even though she hated him as she does not want to face the hurt of being rejected
Right now she hates Pratigya's guts as she ruined her marriage ,, she wants revenge at any cost
Finally her parents failed to save her marriage which leaves her with nothing but a bleak future..
In this whole scenario in my opinion main culprits are Prof Saxena and Pratigya because of their rigid and unpractical stands
In this situation Prof Saxena as a responsible father should have had a meeting with Aman 's Father and voices his concerns.He should also have talked with Aman and tried to find out the true fact and not brushed everything under the carpet.All sensible parents do that for their daughter's marriage specially if its an arranged marriage.
Then Pratigya acts in most impractical ways.Her Intentions might be good but her method of actions are really most unrealistic.If she knew that Aman was a culprit there are many way to expose him.It should have been done in a delicate tactful way not in the blunt accusing way she goes around.This is something which should never have been done in this melodramatic way in front of everyone making a spectacle of her sister's life.👏
There is a way to handle things in life in a sensible way.
I really dont like the way Pratigya behaves in a superior way without any consideration for any repercussuions or effects of her so called righteous actions

All that you have said above reallistically is correct. The reason why many people will not agree is because of our dislike for the character and we are not interested in her taking up valuable screen time. But yes without being biased you can see why she did what she did even if it was selfish. Howeven in the list of blames - also arushi's name should be added. As pratz tried to explain to her earlier but she didn't listen.
@bold - i fully agree. when kriya found annu they should have taken her straight to the sax's rather than stalking the wedding behind cars. so they could have been more tactfu - hence the outcome of alterior actions.
Edited by carisma2 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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You have a different take on things as in from Arushi's POV but I disagree since an insolent,selfish,shameless female like her can never ever be justified!😡 In the name of taking revenge she didn't even take her parent's feelings into consideration and went ahead and married a guy who is already married and not once did she think about poor Kesar di.She's just a shameless 🤬 who only thinks about herself and no one else,not even her parents!😡
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Nice post NZKiwi. An opposing view adds to the discussion.

Pratigya could have handled exposing Aman in more discreet manner, but where is the drama in that? That would be just like real life.

At end of the day, this is still only a soap opera. We can read all we want in this show, and write pages and pages of analysis about plot, character, motivations etc. BUT it is still a nighttime soap opera and to move forward it needs drama and conflicts. That is what we are getting.
BTW where in NZ are you from? I am from Wellington, now living in the US
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am from Auckland.
I am not saying that what Arushi did was correct
But in shock anyone can do anything drastic or alarming..
You cant blame them..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: NZkiwi

I am from Auckland.

I am not saying that what Arushi did was correct
But in shock anyone can do anything drastic or alarming..
You cant blame them..

Yes they can but not something as horrid as this.A girl whose got some shame intact would never go ahead and marry a guy whose already married and hurt other's around her if not put herself into a whole lot of trouble.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I am from Auckland.
I am not saying that what Arushi did was correct
But in shock anyone can do anything drastic or alarming..
You cant blame them..

Why could not she think of suicide? Then things would not have been so alarming or drastic for us poor folks🤢

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shy2729

oh shy u r too good.mindblowing sense of humour 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Posted: 14 years ago
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i ve got a mixed opinion in this ...

i agree dat arushi in her own way is correct in doing all these thngs ... i DO NOT support her marriage wd shakti coz as shruthi said inspite of known he s married ... n da condition of poor kesar .. she went ahaed maaryn him .... forget abt revenge .. atleast she mite hv thought one as a HUMAN dat she s destroyn sum1 else s married lyf
but arushi s anger wd pratigya ... her dislike towards her is COMPLETELY JUSTIFIED!!! ... obviously she had soooooooo many dreams of her marriage ... nd she loved aman a lot ... she still dusnt know the truth n definitely she will hv no interest in evn looking at prats forget abt listening to her side of story .... again there she is wrong in completely ignoring pratigya n turning a deaf ear towards her ... coz all know how pratigya is n she can never stand up for lie... she shd hv trust n complete faith in her sister ... arghhhhhhhhhhh i hv no clue whether arushi is ryt or rong .... all i can say is dat i DONT CARE for either of them ... i just watch to c my BABA (lolzzzzzzzzzzz)

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