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Posted: 14 years ago
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"Its very tough to face a broken marriage at the wedding altar with no concrete reason even if the girl is educated."

Who makes it tough? The girl left at the alter does not make it tough, neither does her loved ones. Who does? Society!!! With their ignorance and judgements, society makes it so hard for a woman that she has to take stupid drastic actions to justify her worth. That's a bunch of BS!!! This is exactly why Arushi should not have married Shakti. MKAP was delivering a positive message to young women until the marriage of Arushi. Now, most educated small town girls will have the same mentality that Arushi had.......get married to an already married scumbag or you're not worth anything!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: NZkiwi

Everyone is criticizing Arushi for her decision.But I think from her point of view she is justified.Just think of her position- her marriage to someone whom she loved has been ruined without any convincing proofs.No proper reasons. Many people will say marriage in not the end of life..There are so many other things to look forward in life.But ask a young girl brought up in small town.Its very tough to face a broken marriage at the wedding altar with no concrete reason even if the girl is educated.Relations,friends and neighbours are not exactly supportive or helpful.

There is gossip,comments and snide remarks which can play havoc with a young girl's mental state.
Its very easy to get on a high moral pedestal and say idealistic things but on practical level in real life people have to make weird compromises.
Getting back to Arushi she is a life saving and revenge mode.
She is marrying Shakti even though she hated him as she does not want to face the hurt of being rejected
Right now she hates Pratigya's guts as she ruined her marriage ,, she wants revenge at any cost
Finally her parents failed to save her marriage which leaves her with nothing but a bleak future..
In this whole scenario in my opinion main culprits are Prof Saxena and Pratigya because of their rigid and unpractical stands
In this situation Prof Saxena as a responsible father should have had a meeting with Aman 's Father and voiced his concerns.He should have also talked with Aman and tried to find out the true facts and not brushed everything under the carpet.All sensible parents do that for their daughter's marriage specially if its an arranged marriage.
Then Pratigya acts in most impractical ways.Her Intentions might be good but her method of actions are really most unrealistic.If she knew that Aman was a culprit there are many ways to expose him.It should have been done in a delicate tactful way not in the blunt accusing way she goes around.This is something which should never have been done in this melodramatic way in front of everyone making a spectacle of her sister's life.
There is a way to handle things in life in a sensible way.
I really dont like the way Pratigya behaves in a superior way without any consideration for any repercussuions or effects of her so called righteous actions

NZkiwi - nice post. I understand your POV.
I can understand that Aarushi is angry with her sister for ruining her marriage but what I do not understand is her insistance at marrying shakti of all people. Aarushi knows what kind of man shakti is plus the fact that he is already married so going ahead with the marriage is plain irrational in my opinion. That's suicide really.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I can understand your POV though according to me Arushi's actions can never be justified, I can agree with the fact that prats could have chosen to take Aman's wife to her house instead of creating a scene but who was the cause of all of this drama her family as well as Arushi who needed proof from the daughter they had raised in order to believe her word against a man they hardly knew !!!

As for Arushi taking drastic measures to keep her self respect in tact I must say this is nonsense yes society makes life difficult for women who have been deserted at the alter but seriously I want to know what kind of respect she has gained by getting married to a man who is practically an animal as well as already married. You would think she had enough sense to at least think about Kesar who she had personally lived with, if not that what about her parents her behavior and reaction to this situation is not justifiable and will never be she is simply a selfish brat who is blinded by revenge and in turn has ruined her own life because personally what is the worst she can do to prats the Tachurs hate her as it is and Krishna will never be able to live without her !!!
Edited by Binny1247 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shruthiR

You have a different take on things as in from Arushi's POV but I disagree since an insolent,selfish,shameless female like her can never ever be justified!😡 In the name of taking revenge she didn't even take her parent's feelings into consideration and went ahead and married a guy who is already married and not once did she think about poor Kesar di.She's just a shameless 🤬 who only thinks about herself and no one else,not even her parents!😡


Is there any way to double like this opinion?? 😆 Well said Shruthi! Hats off, humaare dil ki baat boldi aaj tumne! 👏
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Posted: 14 years ago
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You cant justify arushi in any way

1st she shud not have agreed to marry Aaman in first place when her di thought he was not him. As she is supposed to have enough confidence on her di than on a person whom she knew merily for four days

2nd I do agree people do take wrong decisions out shock as a girl of her standards may fear rejections but
1.she shd never have marrried a person whom she had herself slapped with her chappals and rejected for good reasons (yeh to thuk kar chatne wali bat ho gaye) .
2.she shdnt have dared to marry shakti when her father warned her that she would die for her family if she married him
Edited by anonymous4444 - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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arushi cant be justified...

yes her marriage was broken and since she is from a small town it will be hard on her reputation but shes a modern woman, she could have got educated and started her own life and easily get a good guy for herself...
another thing is by marrying shakti, who is married already, she has become his illegal wife who does not have a status of her own, that is more demeaning in society and once she gets out of this mess (which hopefully she will, atleast for our sake) it will be even worse for her reputation... much much worse than being stranded on the mandap when her marriage got broken...
shes already done it for herself infront of society by doing this shameless, selfish act...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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u know how even in real life kids copy their elders. prats n adarsh both married for the wrong reasons. they set an example for arushi that it's ok to marry for revenge.
also arushi ain't some selfless li'l kind hearted woman. she has always been selfish, y shud she change all of a sudden n start thinking about kesar. when she said yes to shakti ,she was thinking only of herself n getting even . y shud she listen to prats?
pratty on the other hand has been voicing her opinion over the way kesar is treated ad nauseam . she didn't want shakti to bring home wifey no.2. no matter wat. it's been 2 days on the show i think, when will she recover from her bout of amnesia/temporary insanity n make that "aapko jail ho sakti hai" line a reality?
aah well.............it's a tv show, those who create them prolly write these stories in their sleep. the results r mind boggling.😲

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