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The Witch

@carisma2

Stunner

+ 8

Posted: 14 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: shy2729
in one of my e.a's i even suggested that for arushi - but she didn't listen. 😭😭

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Daisy15

@Daisy15

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#12

U r correct...i think her action is justified to an extent...bt iske liye shakti se shadi karna zaroori tha? evn prats ne apna brain use nai kiya. she cud hv atleast taken pics of aman wid his wife whn she spotted them or recorded his challenging words given to her. bt akhir mein sab cvs k haath mein hain

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suk4

@suk4

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: luv_kriya

i ve got a mixed opinion in this ...

i agree dat arushi in her own way is correct in doing all these thngs ... i DO NOT support her marriage wd shakti coz as shruthi said inspite of known he s married ... n da condition of poor kesar .. she went ahaed maaryn him .... forget abt revenge .. atleast she mite hv thought one as a HUMAN dat she s destroyn sum1 else s married lyf

but arushi s anger wd pratigya ... her dislike towards her is COMPLETELY JUSTIFIED!!! ... obviously she had soooooooo many dreams of her marriage ... nd she loved aman a lot ... she still dusnt know the truth n definitely she will hv no interest in evn looking at prats forget abt listening to her side of story .... again there she is wrong in completely ignoring pratigya n turning a deaf ear towards her ... coz all know how pratigya is n she can never stand up for lie... she shd hv trust n complete faith in her sister ... arghhhhhhhhhhh i hv no clue whether arushi is ryt or rong .... all i can say is dat i DONT CARE for either of them ... i just watch to c my BABA (lolzzzzzzzzzzz)

I don't believe arushi actually loved aman, she just latched on to him cos she thought he was a good catch, lawyer, money, etc,her family approved, and mainly cos she thought he really fancied her (as they all seem to 😆) so she went along with it.

She loves herself more than anything or anyone and has no tolerance for anyone who she feels doesnt think that the sun shines out of her backside.

All i can say is please end this quickly cvs.

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Mina

@Cannibal

Explorer

Posted: 14 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: NZkiwi
Everyone is criticizing Arushi for her decision.But I think from her point of view she is justified.Just think of her position- her marriage to someone whom she loved has been ruined without any convincing proofs.No proper reasons. Many people will say marriage in not the end of life..There are so many other things to look forward in life.But ask a young girl brought up in small town.Its very tough to face a broken marriage at the wedding altar with no concrete reason even if the girl is educated.Relations,friends and neighbours are not exactly supportive or helpful.
There is gossip,comments and snide remarks which can play havoc with a young girl's mental state.

Its very easy to get on a high moral pedestal and say idealistic things but on practical level in real life people have to make weird compromises.

Getting back to Arushi she is a life saving and revenge mode.

She is marrying Shakti even though she hated him as she does not want to face the hurt of being rejected

Right now she hates Pratigya's guts as she ruined her marriage ,, she wants revenge at any cost

Finally her parents failed to save her marriage which leaves her with nothing but a bleak future..

In this whole scenario in my opinion main culprits are Prof Saxena and Pratigya because of their rigid and unpractical stands

In this situation Prof Saxena as a responsible father should have had a meeting with Aman 's Father and voiced his concerns.He should have also talked with Aman and tried to find out the true facts and not brushed everything under the carpet.All sensible parents do that for their daughter's marriage specially if its an arranged marriage.

Then Pratigya acts in most impractical ways.Her Intentions might be good but her method of actions are really most unrealistic.If she knew that Aman was a culprit there are many ways to expose him.It should have been done in a delicate tactful way not in the blunt accusing way she goes around.This is something which should never have been done in this melodramatic way in front of everyone making a spectacle of her sister's life.

There is a way to handle things in life in a sensible way.

I really dont like the way Pratigya behaves in a superior way without any consideration for any repercussuions or effects of her so called righteous actions

Arushi's anger is not justified at all...I would have understood her being upset with pratigya and not talking to her but going against ur parents when they are saying that "if you marry shakti we will forget that we had a daughter" is not justified...and if everyone become bad and in her eyes pratigya ruined her perfect love marriage then what is she doing now she is trying to ruin pratigya's marriage too so who is wrong and who is right...and let alone that she slapped her older sister in front of everyone how can anyone do that...and she has been acting like a jerk ever since she got engaged...and had been breaking rules by letting aman in when no one was home when she wasn't even engaged to him...I agree that pratigya gets into everyone's business but she knows her sister best how can u trust a guy whom u just met more than the sister u grew up with...I am sorry but her actions aren't justified at all...proof or no proof family never wants anything bad for you...

Edited by yo-yo - 14 years ago

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anjalisharma200

@anjalisharma200

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: yo-yo

Arushi's anger is not justified at all...I would have understood her being upset with pratigya and not talking to her but going against ur parents when they are saying that "if you marry shakti we will forget that we had a daughter" is not justified...and if everyone become bad and in her eyes pratigya ruined her perfect love marriage then what is she doing now she is trying to ruin pratigya's marriage too so who is wrong and who is right...and let alone that she slapped her older sister in front of everyone how can anyone do that...and she has been acting like a jerk ever since she got engaged...and had been breaking rules by letting aman in when no one was home when she wasn't even engaged to him...I agree that pratigya gets into everyone's business but she knows her sister best how can u trust a guy whom u just met more than the sister u grew up with...I am sorry but her actions aren't justified at all...proof or no proof family never wants anything bad for you...

well said yo-yo. I believe that actually arushi should understood her sister since they have grown-up together and they were very close, closer than takur siblings. this appears to be a sudden turn in her character and creatives trying to put AH in limelight but let's face it as much as we were critical of PG, AH does not even come close to her. so why the need to put this down our throats. but i digress...... Arushi's anger and her shattered state because of the broken marriage may be justified for a while but it is not like she is not going to find another suitor. and if she thinks pratigya was jealous of her because she was getting a better husband; whouldn't she have married even better person than aman? how does marrying shakti demonstrate that she has a better married life than hers? she married an already married, uneducated and a molester- much worse than Krishna. her vision is so short sighted, this action of hers is only going to come back to bite her. who is going to take her when she is divorced from a takur?

yes people do crazy things when they are angry and then they regret it. however, arushi does not even seem to think that she even made a mistake!

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Mitrashakti

@Mitrashakti

Voyager

+ 6

Posted: 14 years ago

#16

Her anger and the continuous way she is acting cannot be justified in any position. What she did was an utter selfish and arrogant on her behalf. She has spoiled another woman's life Kesar) and she has played a part in an illegal act as of Bigamy. So I suppose you support Bigamy? And coming to Prats pov she might sometimes acts hastily but that is the characteristics of an idealist person. Arushi never loved Aman. For a matter of fact they did not even date . She was mesmerized with his status. Getting hastily marrying a man illegally who has repeated harrassed her shows the lack of conviction in her character. Her character has no strenght and endurance. The act she commited on the contrary shows that her character is weak and self centered.

Edited by anusarkar - 14 years ago

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N_13

@N_13

Explorer

Posted: 14 years ago

#17

You are right about Pratigya's attitude. The way she entered shouting in the wedding in front of all people, in the middle of rituals was totally wrong. But at that time she thought she had solid proof, Aman's wife who will tell the people that she is his wife. Not in her dream did she expect the so called wife to back off and admit that she is Aman's sister.

So, Pratigya is also not 100% at fault. But yes I agree that making a tamasha infront of the whole Allahabad was not a right decision. She should have considered what her sister will have to go through if anything goes wrong.

And poor Aarushi, she was rejected in the middle of her wedding.

But still she should have kept her senses and used her brain and should have left the venue once Aman left. She could have married any understanding guy who is not from Allahabad. There is no justification as to why Aarushi married Shakti, a married man who is characterless and a criminal, illetrate and who beats his wife and lead her to miscarriage.

Knowing all this about a man, there is NO justification in any circumstances of taking a decision of Marrying Shakti.

She should have atleast thought about her parents. Whats the purpose of revenge with Pratigya now. Aarushi's life is spoilt. Now who will marry a woman who has illegally married a married man? What will happen when Shakti goes to prostitutes or will have an affair with another woman?

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bgayathri

@bgayathri

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#18

Even if Arushi did was correct but ultimately she has ruined her own life. She is taking revenge from Pratigya but for the rest of her life she will be called the wife of Shakti which I believe is worse than a broken marriage for an educated girl.

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bips

@bips

Sparkler

+ 8

Posted: 14 years ago

#19

i just don't get arushi ....

i can understand what you are trying to say about revenge but my question is what revenge ????????

What can she really do to pratigya ?

- be rude (can she really top the thakurs in that)
- make her do work (prats never has objected to working)
- make her touch her feet (prats is more shocked than hurt)
- make P the bad bahu (well the thakurs already think that of her)
- create rift in her marriage (our majnoo will not let that happen, and anyway prats just has to smile at him for everything to be ok)

...... So what revenge ? .... What can she do to prats that would destroy her ? ... nothing ... zero.... zilch......

its all stupid kitchen politics and parlour games ..... She basically destroyed her life for nothing with no real concrete plan ....

so besides being rude, arrogant and selfish; she is also stupid and that is just inexcusable.

Edited by bips - 14 years ago

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Sam

@Love-u-all

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: bips
i just don't get arushi ....

i can understand what you are trying to say about revenge but my question is what revenge ????????

What can she really do to pratigya ?

- be rude (can she really top the thakurs in that)
- make her do work (prats never has objected to working)
- make her touch her feet (prats is more shocked than hurt)
- make P the bad bahu (well the thakurs already think that of her)
- create rift in her marriage (our majnoo will not let that happen, and anyway prats just has to smile at him for everything to be ok)

...... So what revenge ? .... What can she do to prats that would destroy her ? ... nothing ... zero.... zilch......

its all stupid kitchen politics and parlour games ..... She basically destroyed her life for nothing with no real concrete plan ....

so besides being rude, arrogant and selfish; she is also stupid and that is just inexcusable.

@ Bips 🤗

Three cheers for you on your take on this stupid Arushi.

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