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Posted: 15 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: nikitagmc

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

#52

Not just that niki , the guys gathering is such a treat !Their comments r such a treat . Once Pratigya went to the beauty parlour and u shud have seen their comments . They didnt know a thing about why women needded the parlour and omg their bholu comments ! They r a tREAT .

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 15 years ago

#53

Kools and Hopester you both should take this asa huge compliment that some of us who dont watch this show are here because we love to read and are hooked on to Kools commentary and Hope's rambling to death...👏

Keep it coming love...

Mogg

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PS: excellent posts by many...Enjoy reading them...

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Nikita Lakhe

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Posted: 15 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: unknown18
Niki, we will b confused till we get married😆 Same here, have you heard that song, "I don't know what to do..."😉

Kool, I dont hav high expectations regarding the guy I get. I m not a perfect princess either😆 I m not at all expecting a guy like Satish. Baqi I will use my brain, not my heart, to pick the guy😆 The rest is upon God. U can do only so much.👏👏👏 Baba re, you have planned a lot. Am I the only one who hasn't thought anything (even my friends have thought a lot), and has said to Mom do whatever you want cos I won't be going for love marriage anyway?😆😆😆
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Girls shud hav long engagements nd hav a liking (love will b better😆) for the guy when they get married. Aankh bund ker k shaadi nahi kerni chahiye. There shudnt b so much love that u bcome blind nd ignore some major faults but there shudnt b no love that u make the poor guy sleep on the sofa😆

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--Hope--

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: unknown18
Kool, to b honest, I got scared by reading one post nd then felt better after reading the next one nd this cycle continued😆 (U know I m a bit scared of marriage😳 There r so many other things that I worry abt that physical relationship, which is also very important, is not my priority in the list of worries😆) Obviously there r many ppl here who hav so much experience than the young ones like I nd Niki (dont know others here😳) I dont hav any experience in this so I cannot contribute much. So I m reading nd trying to understand the issue nd also myself😆😳 Obviously I think abt this nd think I will do this or that or how the guy will behave.

This is what I posted in PR thread.

I m not getting married right now so I dont hav to think abt this right now. I wud want a longer engagement period so that I can get to know the guy better nd start to fall in love. We do hav long engagements in our family. Lets see what I will get. Differs in every case.

siddhu:

It is difficult to give advice to girls in the west as one can never tell if the younger person is more experienced sexually than you are. However assuming we are at ground zero here (I am not being crude or mocking so please bear with me), what does one say about removing a bandaid. you don't dwell over it, you just do it right. deep analysis will only result in doubts and doubts result in fears. it is easier for me to say this as I a married and stuff but you have to remember I was at ground zero too.

and the reason I thought Krishna's comments to pratigya made sense today (i.e. the comment about her hesitation and apprehension being understanable and things getting better with time) is because I received the same advice and it was correct. I won't say from whom as that is immaterial but I can tell you this much, when in doubt be brave don't just speak bravely but procrastinate like a coward from within.

Edited by stillhopeful - 15 years ago

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unknown18

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Posted: 15 years ago

#56

Kool, I do watch the show sometimes, not regularly. Mostly bcoz of the comedy😆 i love the way everyone talks in the show😆 except for Pratigya's family😆 My favourite r Komal, Sajjan Singh, Krishna, nd his mom😆 His friends r funny too😆

Varsha, u r so right!! u know I didnt even watch today's episode but the discussion going on is so interesting!

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unknown18

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Niki, I m not going for love marriage either but I dont want a blind arranged marriage😆

Marriage is one of the biggest part of life so u hav to think abt it na😆 We do discuss many things amongst friends also. nd u know I love giving lectures😆

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koolsadhu1000

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Posted: 15 years ago

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Originally posted by: unknown18
Niki, we will b confused till we get married😆

Kool, I dont hav high expectations regarding the guy I get. I m not a perfect princess either😆 I m not at all expecting a guy like Satish. Baqi I will use my brain, not my heart, to pick the guy😆 The rest is upon God. U can do only so much.

Girls shud hav long engagements nd hav a liking (love will b better😆) for the guy when they get married. Aankh bund ker k shaadi nahi kerni chahiye. There shudnt b so much love that u bcome blind nd ignore some major faults but there shudnt b no love that u make the poor guy sleep on the sofa😆

Sid even long engagements sometimes have no effect , the real nature comes out only when u stay together .Still I admit , long engagements r better .

My friend had an accident during her long engagement and the guy she was engaged to did NOT come to the hospital to see her ! By that time my friend was totally in love with him and as u said , Love blinds a person to the faults of her spouse . Her Mom , the sensible , experienced one , did not like this a BIT and said , maybe we shud BREAK this right here . Meanwhile news reached the guy that she was gonna be ok after all and so he came , strutting like a peacock , on the third day of the accident , giving some bull excuse .

Well the friend fell for his charm and suave talks and married him AGAINST her mom's apprehensions . Well what did this guy do ?Guess ! On Suhaag Raat night he somehow convinced her , with a lot of kisses and what not to hand over ALL her ornaments to HIm so he cud give it to his younger bro [ a no gooder ] for some corny BUSINESS attempt . He pawned ALL her jewels and gave the money as capital to his younger bro , whho promptly failed even in that business .

Well The gal went to Diwali Dinner at her maayka , not wearing a single piece of jewllery and her MOm was SHOCKED . When the gal Told She FIRED her saying How dare u gave him the jewllery without consulting me ?It was not jewels given by ur thug sasural , I had given u jewels with my blood money ! The Gal had no answer .The mom said ENOUGH , She said Take Divorce from him right now ! He will Fleece u ! But the foolish gal , completely besotted by him , STILL gave the marraige a chance .Well a child was Bor and She was STUCK and got BP in the twenties ! Her life SUCKS today .

Sometimes Educated monsters R worst . Real Bad men r suave and smooth talkers . And Long egagements r of no use if u fall in love and get blinded .They shud be used to detect objectively , not for becoming foolishly emotionally involved .

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 15 years ago

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There is no marriage where u know 100% abt each other...I have been married for 36 yrs (Love-Arrange marriage) and still finding something new abt my hubster....Trust, love, respect, good communication and wanting to make marriage work that passion should be there....If someone belives that sex is smaller part of it than they are kidding themselves...Sex is something that is physical, emotional and spiritual all bundled up in one...which can make marriage stronger..

Marriage has to start somewhere...There are no guarantees with anything in life...One must take some risk somewhere b/c at the end of the day there could be a huge payoff..In most cases...

This goes for Love or Arrange marriage...

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Nikita Lakhe

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Posted: 15 years ago

#60

Originally posted by: unknown18
Niki, I m not going for love marriage either but I dont want a blind arranged marriage😆

Marriage is one of the biggest part of life so u hav to think abt it na😆 We do discuss many things amongst friends also. nd u know I love giving lectures😆

Yeah I LOVE your lectures Sid!!😆 But more than that I LOVE your microscopic analysis on a certain person.😉