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koolsadhu1000

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I felt like applauding Krishna today for his BLUNT and INNOCENT questions. Why wud I marry u if I wanted just a friend .I have Chandu and Tunna. I wanted a WIFE . . Those questions are oh so NOT stupid as I read somewhere else , they are very very real questions and Pratigya should indeed dwell on them . . He is uncomplicated , he knows what he wants .She is the one who makes things complicated . .
My friend in the other forum said today nowdays it is the trend of serials to show girls marrying but not consummating their marraiges for a longggg time. I personally feel it is the Faaltu feminism trend...........meaning , feminism comprehended in a wrong way . These girls marry like lightning but after marraige start doing hazaar nakhras . The nakhras r

I need more time.

I am not yet ready .

Let us first be friends.

Let us understand each other in the 'real ' sense first .

These questions sound so deep , so modern , so much the IN THING nowdays. But I would like to point out that

When the guy asks how much time do u exactly need , these girls have no answer to that .They themselves don't know. In reality , the 'right' time is actually when one fine day the girl feels like 'IT" .😆 That means its wholly on HER terms and conditions , when SHE is in the mood , and the man should have no say in the matter EVER . But it is amusing to note that these same girls , if asked to wait by a MAN in the same way after marraige , if the man tells them I am not ready yet , Lets wait , GET SO ROYALLY MIFFED that they run to maayka and file for a divorce coz their feminst genes flare up .

When the girls say I am not ready , what the hell do they mean ? If they were NOT ready in the first place , why did they marry ?To marry and THEN say I am not ready ?if u were NOT ready , don't marry yaar , so simple ! 😆😆😆 Arre Cartoon log , kisne bola tha shaadi karo ?Shaadi koi gudda guddi ka khel hai kya ? I am not ready indeed !

. Let us first be friends............Really ? Who r we kidding ?When a girl has hazaar friends among boys and one of them becomes her husband , he is hat ke from other guys . She can never look upon him as a 'friend' , she looks upon him as a 'husband' . This marked diffrence remains between a 'husband' and other guys . If the husband tells such girls Hey U gotta be my friend first , these girls r perfectly capable of stomping their foot and saying I am your wife Dammit ! If u just wanted a friend , why did u go thru this farcical marraige ? . The 'Let us understand each other in the REAL sense first '............😆😆😆 Is there ever an end to it , this 'understanding' process ? Full LIfe we find Man and woman , husband and wife , still trying to 'understand' each other and yet feeling we have NOT understood each other . Marraige is one big process of understanding that has a beginning but NO END . So if all marraiges were to be consummated when the fINAL UNDERSTANDING TOOK PLACE LIKE THE DAWN OF THE REALISATION , there is a big possibility the husband wife have snow white hair and look like Chanda Mama''s parents. . But it is the trend of serial wallahs to nowdays include these Mills and Boons bookish dialogues that never jell on a real level in serials to show 'educated heroines '. . I have one question for Pratigya if CVs care to read me and put this in the serial via any character who talks to her . Had she married Nitin , what was she gonna do ? Not allow him to touch her for a year till they 'became friends ' ? Nitin wud have complied till 'she was ready '? Nitin's mommy wud have loved her for putting her son thru the 'friendship phase' even after getting married or wud have asked her 'Toh Shaadi kyu ki '? Pratigya hardly knew Nitin , he was a total stranger . Yet she was going in for an arranged marraige where she was going to hand over her life , body and soul to a man she hardly knew , just on her parents word . The question of being ready was not going to arise there at all . How come ? Does a girl feel so comfortable handing her body to a man just bcoz he is educated although she doesnt know him that well except that he is extremely well mannered and polite ? . And it seems Krishnas genuine questions are stupid ! Really ! This , from a land like India whose culture thrives on arrange marraiges where the couple hardly knows each other and yet bounce babies on their lap during their first wedding anniversaries and go on to have a long golden jubilee married life , undivorced , contented or discontented , knowing that there is NO SUCH THING AS A PERFECT MARRAIGE !

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Ashu

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well u have a point yaar but prats is still hesistant in allowing him to touch coz in her view he is still a GUNDA , n he tried to force himself upon her wich she can never forget , now dat thngs r fine , it'l take sum (hope nt dat long!) tym for her to adjust wd him

but apart frm dat , i personally hope ki all izz well vry soon for KRIYA!

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koolsadhu1000

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I think the patience that this gunda showed is indeed worth applauding ! Coz he IS indeed a gunda and no gunda on earth will put up with this ! Even a normal man wud get miffed so wud a normal woman if her husband did the same thing to her .We already see Komal maha miffed that Adarsh is showing no interest in her and it was HE who had come strutting like a peacock to ask for her hand at the Thakur doorstep .

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This marriage of Kirya was far from a normal marriage. Krishna was madly in love while Pratigya hated him back with the same intensity. So the question of consummating the marriage and its timing becomes irrelevant.

Pratigya needed to develop feelings for her husband since the hate factor is gone. Today's episode and their re-union is like starting this relationship all over again. How on earth she could just say that come on my huby i am ready considering the incidents of that very day.😕

Koolji any wife who feels that she is not ready mentally and emotionally to except intimacy needs time to develop such feeling at least, if not love. Otherwise the whole act would merely be going through the motions to appease a husband who's only understanding of a marriage is to get intimate at the first opportunity.
Tell me if this makes any sense at all??.

After reading such a long post this is the best I could do sweetoo🤗

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Dabulls23

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Kools good topic...Wonderful Q by Krishna..For most this is my first ever post in Pratigya section...I dont watch this show...Only caught few episode in Dec 2009 during my trip to So. India...So I know what happened in initial part of serial...No clue in what is going on right now...But but but as this topic is abt Krishna's Q on marriage and Consummation of marriage here is my answer Kools...

These days it is a fad in Indian serials to get married be it love, arranged or forced anykind to not to consummate marriage until the girl decides to sleep with the dude...Again (Sex) a major-imp part of marriage is not discussed or agreed between the two b4 marriage...It just happens that girl decides not to sleep with the guy for some silly reason...

This is happening in PR, YMGGK and Pratigya...

Why the heck do these girls get married if they know they are not going to consummate marriage than just say NO to marriage...Be friends yaar..Many of these serials show premarital sex and pregnancy but no sex after marriage...WTH is wrong with these CVs??? Am I missing something? I dont think so...We had to get married so we can consummate our marriage and enjoy what comes with it..🤣

NO Offense to Pratigya fans..I think her marriage is one of those forced ones so may be I can understand it but overall what is being shown on serials these days is bunch of BS and not reality...

My 2 paise...Take it or leave it...😛

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koolsadhu1000

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Originally posted by: Dabulls23
Kools good topic...Wonderful Q by Krishna..For most this my first ever post in Pratigya forum...I dont watch this show...Only caught few episode in Dec 2009 during my trip to So. India...So I know what happened in initial part of serial...No clue in what is going on right now...But but but as this topic is abt Krishna's Q on marriage and Consummation of marriage here is my answer Kools...

These days it is a fad in Indian serials to get married be it love, arranged or forced anykind to not to consummate marriage until the girl decides to sleep with the dude...Again (Sex) a major-imp part of marriage is not discussed or agreed between the two b4 marriage...It just happens that girl decides not to sleep with the guy for some silly reason...

This is happening in PR, YMGGK and Pratigya...

Why the heck do these girls get married if they know they are not going to consummate marriage than just say NO to marriage...Be friends yaar..Many of these serials show premarital sex and pregnancy but no sex after marriage...WTH is wrong with these CVs??? Am I missing something? I dont think so...We had to get married so we can consummate our marriage and enjoy what comes with it..🤣

NO Offense to Pratigya fans..I think her marriage is one of those forced ones so may be I can understand it but overall what is being shown on serials these days is bunch of BS and not reality...

My 2 paise...Take it or leave it...😛

They marry to take rounds around the holy fire and put on lovely clothes . Anddd jewellery . They want ALL the perks coming with the marraige except consummating it .But God forbid if HUBBY takes such a stand they want to slaughter him as it becomes a question of Atma Samman .😃😃😃 Btw Varsha I take ur two cents aur jatan karke rakhoongi . So shud otheres who read ur post .

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Thanks Kool aap mere 2 paise se saath saath mujhe bhi aapke dil ke paas rakhana 😆 🤗

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koolsadhu1000

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This marriage of Kirya was far from a normal marriage. Krishna was madly in love while Pratigya hated him back with the same intensity. So the question of consummating the marriage and its timing becomes irrelevant.

Pratigya needed to develop feelings for her husband since the hate factor is gone. Today's episode and their re-union is like starting this relationship all over again. How on earth she could just say that come on my huby i am ready considering the incidents of that very day.😕

Koolji any wife who feels that she is not ready mentally and emotionally to except intimacy needs time to develop such feeling at least, if not love. Otherwise the whole act would merely be going through the motions to appease a husband who's only understanding of a marriage is to get intimate at the first opportunity.
Tell me if this makes any sense at all??.

After reading such a long post this is the best I could do sweetoo🤗

or I will marry and then be friends for years [ Varsha in Pavitra Rishta] ...........kisne bola tha shaadi karne ko ? Ears were closed or what about what they were Entering into ?It was SHAAADI not a Dating PHASE ! In Pratigya now Enemity Part is over , Now Friendship Part is starting !🤣 With that jagmohans family how she was behaving ?Coming meekly down the stairs dressed in gararas shararas ...............That lady , that Jagmohans wife wud have turned into sumone WORSE than AMMa had she known Pratigya was being friends with Nitin for a year or so !😆😆😆😆

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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

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No way optimistji .

Completely aware of the circumstances and Still not agreeing with Pratigya.

One day u too will realise I dont bash characters for the heck of it..............I did not find ANY premise of this gal as Sane so I dsee nothing to applaud her with .Yesterday in ur post I gave her credit where it was due but

Marrying a man she thought was a stalker .....In my mind desrves no applause

Deciding to 'teach ' the stalker a lesson clearly when she is in no position to do in is in my mind STUPID and DANGEROUS

Slapping a dangerous Gunda who was threatening to RAPE her sis was foolhardy

Running around at midnight in the rain , drenched , without telling anyone is again dangerous and thoughtless

Optimistji she has to behave really sensibly at least ONCE to gain some admiration fromm ME at least . Telling the Biradari people off was a sensible move [ they r conveniently in this now for elections alone] And I hope many more follow,

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