Why is it Anandi's fault?

Whatever happens anywhere its anandi's fault isnt it?

well, in Shiv's identity case she never pestered Shiv, or anyone for that matter to find the truth. She once didnt tell Shiv her convo with CM.
Also they both chanced upon the CCTV footage and got to know the truth.

And even if we consider that if anandi had brushed this off (which would have been morally wrong) and kept quite, then also the truth would have come out.

anandi just spoke to Shiv, not to Ira. Ira chanced upon the truth on her own. Infact it was Ira who first told everyone at home about nurse Sarla. After that when on Alok's manupulation Sarla called up Ira, Ira believed her. Anandi never pushed Ira or anyone in the family. Ira met Sarla when the latter was on death bed and truth came out in front of her.
So even if Anandi would have kept quite, still truth would have come out from Ira's end...

Now coming to why Anandi told this to Shiv, i think being his wife she needs to share everything with him, specially the truth related to his life. So she telling Shiv and going through this with him, being his pillar of strength is what she should have always done. This is how a husband wife relation should be.

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

No it is not and shiv needs a bang on head today attitude towards wife.😡

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

No it is not and shiv needs a bang on head today attitude towards wife.😡

Originally posted by: maahi11

thnks for making dis post u r rite... anandi hvnt done nythng wrong as a wife she have every right to knw nythng related to her husband... n anandi was quite aftr checking d records... it was shiv who brought the truth out of anandi...

n latter also if she dances to cheer her husband wats wrong in dat too... it's just a gesture a wife shwng her love n concern for her husband...

There is no problem in Anandi finding out the truth, but it is in the way she handles a task without thinking of its consequences. And when the storm comes she acts as if only she will be able to put the broken pieces into place.

Yes, if Shiv was being ill-treated, or if she was fighting for Meenu's rights over her first born etc, then the matter would have been different. But that was not the case.

She simply opened a can of worms to satisfy her curiosity, allowed the storm to come in and when everything is tarnished she tells Shiv, let's eat for family's sake. Really, does she realise the depth of this storm on the minds of Shiv and Ira, and also Alok & Meenu?

What has happened, to the once sensitive and sane Anandi?

Let's assume that someone else could have told Ira, and the storm would have still come. But then that would have been a different case.

The nurse telling Ira would be lot different to Anandi digging upon the matter. The nurse is an outsider, who may not know how Shekhars may react on knowing the truth, but Anandi being a family needs to consider what kind of consequences will her family face, if this truth is out.

Originally posted by: Missesha

There is no problem in Anandi finding out the truth, but it is in the way she handles a task without thinking of its consequences. And when the storm comes she acts as if only she will be able to put the broken pieces into place.

Anandi should have thought, Is there an absolute necessary to know Shiv's real identity? How would it matter to anyone or to herself, whoever's son Shiv was? Whether Meenu's or an orphan or an adopted child with all elder Shekhar's approval including Ira. To Anandi and to the world Shiv is / was Shekhar's first grand child, who was loved, cared for and given the status of eldest Shekhar child. And this reality was giving enough happiness to all Shekhars. So why did she really want to know Shiv's identity. What difference would that have made?

Yes, if Shiv was being ill-treated, or if she was fighting for Meenu's rights over her first born etc, then the matter would have been different. But that was not the case.

She simply opened a can of worms to satisfy her curiosity, allowed the storm to come in and when everything is tarnished she tells Shiv, let's eat for family's sake. Really, does she realise the depth of this storm on the minds of Shiv and Ira, and also Alok & Meenu?

What has happened, to the once sensitive and sane Anandi?

Let's assume that someone else could have told Ira, and the storm would have still come. But then that would have been a different case.

The nurse telling Ira would be lot different to Anandi digging upon the matter. The nurse is an outsider, who may not know how Shekhars may react on knowing the truth, but Anandi being a family needs to consider what kind of consequences will her family face, if this truth is out.

Brilliant !! 👏

The logic always given is - But it is the truth and the Truth must always come out !!

Really ? Well then - why did Anandi not tell a lot of the other truths that she had been privy to about Sanchi's deeds ? Then - she remembered to think about consequences in her own head and did not once think what a demon she was going to unleash on her so called "maika" ?

And here - such a hugely sensitive piece of information - that has the potential to blast in everyone's faces - madam - despite Meenu's warnings - goes and investigates and then moons about and promptly blurts it out as soon as Shiv asks.

She wasn't talking to Shiv about Mahi's or Sanchi's birth record - she was talking about Shiv's birth data being hanky panky !! Was that really smart ?

And now - to insist on food ??? I mean - I am really feeling like Sanchi now - I feel like throwing the tray as far as I possibly can if she talks to me about food when I am so upset...😡