Would it matter? - Page 2

Originally posted by: seraal

if the things remain the same doesnt matter nw...what matters is the relationship between ira and meenu will definitely come to a formal devarani- jethaniz sort of relation... saanchi has already fallen into the trap of ankita and her co's,,,,,,,,,shiv n mahi are both going to take her out of this and then she surely will realize the importance of blood-relations...HOPEFULLY.!

I think we need to be a little more realistic about joint families. It's not some 18th/19th century type family where responsibility of kids is shared and there's no difference between own kids and jethani/devrani's kids.

People live together yet there is a subtle difference between between one's own kids and others. The way Ira is concerned about Sanchi, she's not that concerned about Mahi. The way Meenu can communicate to Mahi and handle him with just a stern look, it's not the same with Ira or any other member (except Shiv) towards him.

Only some surface level things/duties are "shared". The line between own and cousin exists.

Sanchi is insolent and careless anyway. But she was definitely more possessive of and more scared of Shiv than Mahi. Perhaps she'll stop that now. She won't feel a need for his approval anymore. And will definitely not tolerate Anandi even the bit that she tolerates now.

I don't know if she'll feel more responsibility towards Ira or not. She may even feel that if her so called elders and wise guys were sitting on so many lies then what's the harm in her lying anyway? 😆 She has ulta-pulta mind with twisted way of drawing conclusions.

You never know if she'd use these as excuses to continue with her lame behaviour or blame Anandi for all troubles (unke aane par yeh sab hua) or start blaming both Anandi and Shiv (people who weren't her own, spoiled her life and didn't realise "her pain").

She may even poison Ira's ears against CM-Mahi-Anandi-Shiv telling her they must've trapped their Alok and gotten together to spoil their (Ira and Sanchi's) lives over the years.

She's a crazy girl. She can do anything.

Shiv is mentally too scattered to be even normal again or make sense of his relations anytime soon.

Ira's going to feel doubly ashamed of anything that Sanchi does wrong now, for she doesn't even have Shiv's glory to bask in and console herself that somewhere she's a good mother.

I think things would change ...but not because relationships suddenly got re-arranged.

Originally posted by: Skepblun

I think we need to be a little more realistic about joint families. It's not some 18th/19th century type family where responsibility of kids is shared and there's no difference between own kids and jethani/devrani's kids.

People live together yet there is a subtle difference between between one's own kids and others. The way Ira is concerned about Sanchi, she's not that concerned about Mahi. The way Meenu can communicate to Mahi and handle him with just a stern look, it's not the same with Ira or any other member (except Shiv) towards him.

Only some surface level things/duties are "shared". The line between own and cousin exists.

Sanchi is insolent and careless anyway. But she was definitely more possessive of and more scared of Shiv than Mahi. Perhaps she'll stop that now. She won't feel a need for his approval anymore. And will definitely not tolerate Anandi even the bit that she tolerates now.

I don't know if she'll feel more responsibility towards Ira or not. She may even feel that if her so called elders and wise guys were sitting on so many lies then what's the harm in her lying anyway? 😆 She has ulta-pulta mind with twisted way of drawing conclusions.

You never know if she'd use these as excuses to continue with her lame behaviour or blame Anandi for all troubles (unke aane par yeh sab hua) or start blaming both Anandi and Shiv (people who weren't her own, spoiled her life and didn't realise "her pain").

She may even poison Ira's ears against CM-Mahi-Anandi-Shiv telling her they must've trapped their Alok and gotten together to spoil their (Ira and Sanchi's) lives over the years.

She's a crazy girl. She can do anything.

Shiv is mentally too scattered to be even normal again or make sense of his relations anytime soon.

Ira's going to feel doubly ashamed of anything that Sanchi does wrong now, for she doesn't even have Shiv's glory to bask in and console herself that somewhere she's a good mother.

I fully agree with Skepblum on the reality of joint families. Cousin or nephew or niece can not

Originally posted by: hooked

Sanchi is a wacko - so I'm not sure I know how she will think. But I think Mahi wud be a little more pleased to know that the big brother he's always been so fond of - is a little more closer than before.

Maybe Mahi will be instrumental to Shiv in erasing some of Shiv's anger towards Meenu for "giving him away" - so to speak.

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If the CV's want - they cud use this incident to make Sanchi grow up and realize that she is Ira's only child and Ira is very hurt and feeling very very low and maybe Sanchi cud be a little less selfish and be there for Ira and try to cheer her up.

This wud go a long way in making Ira feel she has a sensible daughter even if she went a little astray for a while. and that she as a mother - has not lost it all.

Originally posted by: libsrocks

but if mahi's relation with ashima come sout beore that then ira may not stop taunting chotima about it 😆

...yes you are quite right'''''''''''''