Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
The controlling streak in Ira is so much that she HAD to take control of Anandi being 'allowed' to RE visit the Singhs
and that is the reason i don't find the fake apology an apology at all . I find it a mere egoistic attempt to save face and regain slipping power . Even Shiv has no voice when Ira decides ...whether its disallowing Anandi or allowing her to keep relations with Singhs .
It is so shameful . Anandi is an adult and Shiv is a Collector .
Same dominant streak Saanchi has . She looked absolutely unrepentant .
For Daddu the swift flip flop continued . Just as he had said Jagdish is the only true one for Saanchi and immediately changed colors when the apology was not accepted he changed again today .
Actually nobody changed . They all behaved within character .
Many say Dadisa rocked . But i saw the same partiality to Anandi ...she chose not to take offence at Anandi's saasra for Anandi , she was more happy that Anandi could resume relations than at Jagya's freedom ...while Ganga who saved the day with her resourceful recording stood silently ignored in a corner , Dadisa was gushing over Anandi .
She was indifferent to Saanchi and she is indifferent to Ganga . Her bias is Anandi .
Even later on she was indifferent whether Ganga was allowed in the haveli by Sumitra or not ...she preferred brushing it off and laying the onus on Sumitra's shoulders , she didn't really care .
She chose to forgive those who were out to destroy her grandson for Anandi's sake ...for more than the grandson , Anandi mattered .
Jagya shouldn't have gone so soon to the haveli . This was what i felt when i saw the episode ...i felt Jagya devalued . Actually Anandi had no need to go to the guesthouse ...she should have gone home with Shiv as they had to talk . A LOT . It was actually Ganga's moment there . I felt it was a total devaluation of JAGAN . I also don't like what they have done to Jagya's character ...and i may drop the following tracks .
Nice POV, but I would not criticize DS for behaving so..
There was a time DS had been absolutely nothing but blind towards her laadesar Jagya.. She favored him over Anandi, approved his studies whereas Anandi used to be shit-scared to be caught by DS while studying.. If Jagya and Anandi do the same mistakes, Anandi used to be rebuked by DS, not Jagya.. Even in clearcut scenarios where Jagya was wrong in childhood, Anandi was the one who was held responsible for not taking care of her beend..
And after all these, Jagya had been nothing but mean to her If DS is changed today, there are two reasons - Jagya's ungrateful behavior to all her favors/laad pyar and Anandi's goodness and care towards DS's family.. Jagya failed to value DS's affection.. Whereas Anandi resorted to even DS's cruelty..
Over time, DS has realized whom she should value more.. Yes, Jagya is changed man now, but it's not easy for a 70/80 yr old lady to have heart-broken by the person who meant the most to her, and now within few months or a year, to trust the same person again with same depth.. In fact, it's not even about age anymore, for some person like DS, it's not easy to trust someone as deeply as that once he had broken it ..
I am happy at least in the later stage of her life, DS is getting a chance to overwrite her mistakes.. She can't undo the biased unfair love towards Jagya, so she is repaying it to Anandi by being same biased towards her now..
True that two wrongs don't make a right, but for sometime, let it be, yeah ! đ
Waiting for the time when Jagya will be able to gain his DS back FULLY ! âď¸
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