DOTW: A question of self confidence... - Page 2

Originally posted by: ranjitha

He Preru GR8 topic!!
Although this topic made me emotional bcoz of the things happened to me, I would love to share it , as well!!
Well, I'm dark, I've old accident scars on my face and that became a reason for my classmates and my seniors to tease me and rag me all the time in my school days!!
These things did affect me badly, to an extent that I went into depression and stopped going to school for a whole month!!
I would not go out , not talk to anyone , bcoz I was scared of another mental attack!!
Then my MOM (apna Capt.Rajveer😆😆😆) filled in so much confidence in me!!
It took her two long years to set me right and fill in the confidence in me to atleast face the world!!
Now the things are changed, but not completely!!
I'm in college now and I'm still a piece of joke to my seniors, there are same old reasons to rag me, but the only change is now,
I DON'T CARE
I think one's physical appearance really shouldn't matter and we have to give utmost importance to their inner qualities and not outer appearance!!
I think our Parents have the ability to bring in our lost confidence, bcoz I strongly feel that they understand us the best!!
But when I think about Kunal, I think not in every case U manage to get UR parent's support!!
If U R strong and matured enough to understand and face the world, then fine!!
If not??

haila beta kisne tumare saath aisa kiya😡my god ki kasam unka pata tho dena😡 ek ek ki chuttney bena kar idly dosa ke saath khaogi😡fools kahi ke🤢next time aisa kuch bhi ho then don't fear when ur net mummyjee is here😉

wow!! you guys have made me feel emotional now 😭 ...amazing replies!!! 👏

well, ok....i jus will share wid u guys one experience of mine,which really changed my life.

wen i was in class 7, i saw a drastic chnage in my frnds at skool. suddenly,deir only aim in life was 2 talk bout clothes,put kaajal, n discuss new diet trends. n i remember, after every class,wen d bell rang..dey'd rush off to d washroom 2 touch up on lipgloss. now,well..m not like dat...i cant stand make-up, nor m i "in touch" wid d latest trends in fashion or watever. 😛 i dont really care. i like books,n movies n music. but dese were d very reasons everyone started avoiding me. it was like, jus coz m nt sum1 who luks like a movie star..n dusnt care bout lukin like one....m no gud. i was really upset. i remember,one of d gurls once sed.."u dont hav a life, n ur not even interested in getting one.." n i was so sad, i went home n cried n cried.
n den, it was my mom who came n told me how dumb i was being. see, ranju..humaara situation ek sa hai.. 😉 (wats it bout moms dat makes u go mad one min coz dey keep tellin u 2 clean ur room, 😛 n next min, u jus no dey're like,ur best frnds! 😳 ) she told me dat d question is not wat ppl want u 2 be,d question is, wat u want be. if ur tastes r different frm d rest, den let it be. but me being so dumb, i sed dat dey're my frnds. n dats wen she sed, if dey're really ur frnds,dey'll accept u n like u 4 who u r...
which is y m wat i m 2day...i managed 2 face up2 wat ppl sed, n i gt back my self confidence. now i hv sum gr88 frnds at scool..n m happy..ya, ppl still say stuff bout me..but frankly..like ranju sd..i dont care!
i think self confidence is within u...u shuld no ur abilities..n no whose comments 2 take seriousely...ur family, n ur frnds..all dose ppl who luv u,n who u luv....no ur da best..n deres nuthin else dat u shuld think... 😳

You know the best thing abt each reply here is that.....everyone in this forum has opened up...maybe their deepest griefs and sadness.....most painful moments...

I have seen many online communities , groups and even other forum in If itself...but in none of them...the members bond so well...i cant explain its so touching and beautiful to see everyone confiding in each other..considering LRLf as one big family.....

Keep it up guys....

And to ranju, preru and all others....be what you are..becoz i think you'll are wonderful that way...just wonderful the way you are........

Originally posted by: lrllike

haila sheru aajkal bahut charged lag rahi ho kya baat hai 😆 nic topic yaar 👏

even i suffer from low confidence pata nahi kyu 😕 koi kami nahi hai touchwood 😭 i am too pessimistic n under estimate myself 😡 i get nervous n feel tht i can't do thg properly 😭 but we need to change n belief in our ability otherwise we could never achieve our goals in life 😃

yaar....kya karoon...xams se mind thodi der ke liye toh hataana padta hai na?😆

n tum yeh kya keh rahi ho..swati...ur one of da BESTEST ppl i no🤗...how can u say dat u suffer frm low-confidence? madam ji..touch wood chodo...u ROCK!!!😃🤗 n ya...see..u've even understood dat its important 4 u 2 be confident..(ab main lecture bhi nahin de sakti!😛)

see, we all know here...dat watever u do in life,u'll be da BEST at it!!! 👏who tops in class? whos posts make us laugh always?? n who'll succeed 2 d fullest extent in life..u!!!😃 so ab apna confidence jaldi badhaao...dont see d glass half-empty..see it half full!😃

Originally posted by: jhinuk

You know the best thing abt each reply here is that.....everyone in this forum has opened up...maybe their deepest griefs and sadness.....most painful moments...

I have seen many online communities , groups and even other forum in If itself...but in none of them...the members bond so well...i cant explain its so touching and beautiful to see everyone confiding in each other..considering LRLf as one big family.....

Keep it up guys....

And to ranju, preru and all others....be what you are..becoz i think you'll are wonderful that way...just wonderful the way you are........

thnxx souma di!!🤗

n ya,even i noticed dis...LRLF has becum like a family now...a second home...😳

Mummyjee, sullo, Preru and all others, thank U so much for all those sweet words and support!!
Yes IF brings in the best bonding among members 👏
See, it isn't easy to reveal UR personal life in a public page, but I think this bonding itself makes us do it, with no embrassments!!
Thnx Preru for th e topic!! Haila, we sail in the same boat 😆