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Posted: 11 years ago
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Just quickly wanted to point out something about today's episode while drawing parallels with my old post regards to the episode of 23rd March! If you remember, that was the episode where Saras was falsely accused by the villagers for a cardinal sin of killing a cow and Kumud had strongly voiced her opinion in front of the priest and everyone else! That episode reflected a lot about values as to how it played a role in forming one's character and personality and most importantly values instilled by their parents especially mothers. Today, it was the same situation where Kumud and Saras were being accused of something totally wrong to begin with and again the villagers failed to see the larger picture and issue at hand! And again we saw interesting portrayal of values instilled by the mothers of these characters!

A)Dukhba - Motherly figure to Kumud whose values were apparent in Kumud's act of treading along the right path! Knowing the reality of Pramad, she supported Kumud to give him another chance as a dutiful wife but not at the expense of risking her life or losing her self respect. She always told Kumud that doors of their house and their hearts are always open for her incase she was to return back to them! Very rarely we see that happening as often girls are taught to stick through thick and thin of her marriage and never return to her parents' house! But Dukhba had clearly stated that for Kumud, that should not be a deterring factor, rather she should come back to her family for support like herself and her brother (Vidyachatur) had supported her! Today, when Pramad crossed all the limits, this is when Kumud raises her voice to defend herself, to defend Saras, and most importantly her father whose values were questioned! Like Kumud rightfully mentioned, it was her father's values that she had been trying for all this time to give Pramad another chance!

B) Saras's deceased mother- It is evident that her values are very much alive and intact as Saras's actions have always upheld that notion! He would never do something that would go against her teachings and will never break promises given to her! She is that one person who deeply affects Saras despite her not being physically present! Saras had promised her mother that he would set things straight in Kumud's life and in her in-laws but not as his lover! His sole purpose to stay in Kumud's in laws was to protect Kumud and to make things smooth between her and Pramad promising that he would leave the day Kumud is safe. He stood by his promise and never we saw him eyeing Kumud in a manner that would taint their relationship or cause trouble in her married life! He was there for her every step of the way and yesterday was no exception and Kumud pointed that out brilliantly!

C) Saubhagyavatidevi- I have NO words for this woman; the one who is blinded by the wrongs of her son and failed to see the rights of her own daughter, how could one expect her to stand up for daughter-in-law! Since day 1, she has been acting like a hypocrite pendulum and today it was the same when she questioned Kumud and later asked her to not to file complaint against her son! She did not teach Pramad to be the way he his but her constant support of her son in his wrongs is not any less either! Even Pramad knows that despite his 100 wrongs, he would be able to coax his mother into believing anything as if she isn't blinded already! Despite having everything out in the open, she chose to stand with her son which makes me question her own values and morals!!! By constantly supporting Pramad, she becomes guilty by default!!!

And for so called Agni Pariksha, Kumud slammed the answer on everyone's face perfectly! If she was impure, she would have been burnt alive yesterday and if Saras had such ill intentions and it wasn't for his values, he probably would have crossed his limits while staying under the same roof as Kumud in her in-laws! And what a "perfect" punishment announced by the villagers who failed to see that Kumud had already given Agni Pariksha and for them, Pramad's imprisonment became bigger punishment than what they had in mind for Kumud only because she, being a woman, chose to exercise her rights!

** Special mention to Jenny for powerful and flawless performance in today's episode! **
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Posted: 11 years ago
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👏👏Just speechless!!! Just a wonderful analysis!😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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wow hatss off to u for this wonderful post loved it...
agree with u in all points
hats off to jenny
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Posted: 11 years ago
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loved kumud's answer to villagers...

nice post
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Great post with beautiful analysis 👍🏼. CVs covered three different mothers' PoVs. Jennifer is too good today 👏
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Very nice post and analysis !!👍🏼
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Superb post Amii 👏 my thoughts ditto 😛
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What a beautiful post ...👏
A mother-child relationship requires the most intense love from the mothers side yet the love must help the child grow into a compassionate,loving and fearless human being
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awesome post loved ur analysis.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Very well said

Would like to mention Saras does the promises but never goes blind and stubborn like Kumud to fulfill it any cost ,even though that promise turns out to be a wrong and irrelevant .I appreciate this characteristic in him as it ia a sign of an educated mind .

Kumud on the other hand is one of those who when once takes a promise is ready to fulfill it at any cost .In case of Pramad too i was appaled to see how the lady took all his crap in name of promises to keep to her parents and to her in laws .It took her Saras and his constant day night lectures to actually realise that she was doing it at the cost of her own self respect and rights as woman.

I wont blame Kumud for the way she is as she very rightly said that she has her proud parents upbringing and yes , I agree unfortunately most of Indian parents to teach the same.

Here I applaud dukhbaa for giving kumud a differentiated advise to come back rather then crucify herself.Woman like Dukh baa r mostly not seen respectably in society ,thanks to woman like Saubhgyawati Devi who think otherwise .

The society desperately needs woman like Alak and Dukh Baa who at least support and understand woman like Kumud Sundari rather then question and malign them like Saubhagyawati Devi


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