Does anyone know the Meaning of Selfish?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am tired of so many posts bashing Ayaan, hating him, he is not the only person at fault here. I agree that it is idiotic of him to go to Asad and ask him to give Zoya, but he has a reason he has to save Nikhat's life. He makes a stupid mistake and comes home to see that his silly mistake will cause his sister to attempt to hurt herself. Ayaan didn't think through he just acted impulsively and thought the first solution was to pretend he is married to Zoya till she gets married. He is not selfish just impulsive. Why are we forgetting that Zoya is equally responsible for this, so she can help Ayaan, he is not asking to make this marriage valid, just pretend.
When Zoya left her marriage to protect Najma she was showing her love for her nanad (SIL) and if Ayaan is doing something he is being selfish really?
All characters are showing their flaws in this track, Ayaan's impulsive, Zoya making silly mistakes, and Asad seriously he is supposed to be the intelligent person, he knows how to toggle Hasseena bhi instead of using his own ways to handle the situation he is taking Zoya to SM.

Bright Side of this track: AsYa love will pass yet another test,
Zoya and Gaffur track, I really want them to have more scenes.
Zoya and Humaira bonding, Although I want Humaira to support Zoya, but still ignore Ayaan, because he was dumb enough to not even consider Humaira before deciding to bring Zoya to SM.
Razia's reaction to having Zoya in the same house.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Dont discus character .whole show become utter crap
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Selfish meaning:
Ayaan
Ayaan
Ayaan.. I'll tell it even infinity time..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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selfish meaning AYAAN AYAAN AYAAN
i hate him😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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He is and he isn't.

Yes he was thinking about Nikhats happiness. Good.

Yes he was thinking of a solution to the problem. Good.

But no. He didn't think of Zoya's feelings once. Bad.

He didn't hesitate to ask his brother for his dhulan. Bad.

He didn't try to come up with another idea to fix the problem. Bad.

He didn't EVEN talk to Humeira before coming to this decision. BAD.

He is thinking of his sister. And feels for his bhaijaan. But in the end, he's being impulsive, and is going with the obvious choice, that will hurt more people in the long run, for one person's happiness.

BAD BAD BAD.
Edited by mochhug - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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selfish practical example = AYAAN😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: mochhug

He is and he isn't.


Yes he was thinking about Nikhats happiness. Good.

Yes he was thinking of a solution to the problem. Good.

But no. He didn't think of Zoya's feelings once. Bad.

He didn't hesitate to ask his brother for his dhulan. Bad.

He didn't try to come up with another idea to fix the problem. Bad.

He didn't EVEN talk to Humeira before coming to this decision. BAD.

He is thinking of his sister. And feels for his bhaijaan. But in the end, he's being impulsive, and is going with the obvious choice, that will hurt more people in the long run, for one person's happiness.

BAD BAD BAD.


👏 well said 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I never vouched for Zoya's stupidity, and I won't vouch for Ayaan's.

Sure, he is trying to look out for his sister. And that in itself is not selfish. However, the fact that he is willing to simply overlook all other aspects of the issue and just focus on Nikhat... that is selfish.

He knows that his brother loves Zoya. He knows they were about to get married. And he also knows that he is perfectly capable of guilt tripping his older brother. And he has used that to his advantage. He plays the sautela card time and time again, knowing its profound effect on Asad.

Not only is that selfish, it's also manipulative. And that shade of negativity doesn't look good on anyone.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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No one is selfless in this world Ayan is not perfect character who is idol he is selfless or selfish as per situation and right now he doesnt know what is he doing. His way is wrong i dnt support him bt i dnt hate him. He would have been selfish if he asked zoya bcoz he loves him but he ask for his sis and he still leave decision asad
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Jazzy-

I never vouched for Zoya's stupidity, and I won't vouch for Ayaan's.


Sure, he is trying to look out for his sister. And that in itself is not selfish. However, the fact that he is willing to simply overlook all other aspects of the issue and just focus on Nikhat... that is selfish.

He knows that his brother loves Zoya. He knows they were about to get married. And he also knows that he is perfectly capable of guilt tripping his older brother. And he has used that to his advantage. He plays the sautela card time and time again, knowing its profound effect on Asad.

Not only is that selfish, it's also manipulative. And that shade of negativity doesn't look good on anyone.


👏 EXACTLY 👏

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