should jagya retain his friendship with ganga?

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charuluv_SV

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Posted: 12 years ago

#81

@sec,i think u research more in love😆what is quality love and unquality love😆

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shalinii173

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Posted: 12 years ago

#82

Originally posted by: sectoreight

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But that is my question which I am repeatedly asking. Does sanchi KNOW that jagya has no feelings for her? He was hanging out with her and being nice to her, and then he accepted her proposal. She may know that he is not in love with her per se... but to say no feelings.
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<div>And only yesterday it became clear to her that she is less important to him than ganga and manu in the mangalore on the 16th discussion.

Actually Jagya never initiated anything. About hanging out with her - Jagya went to Udaipur for an official work and tried to handover the gifts to sanchi but she is the one who forced him to go to her house and made him to stay for the party. Of course he was nice with her and helped her that doesn't mean he has feelings for her. Just Being nice is not enough to proceed a marriage .

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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#83

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Here I am not talking about maturity but intensity of physical love and desires.

two words: teenage hormones 😉

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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#84

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Anandi was so sure that one day he will come back to her. This feeling is not insecurity but security.

And he came back.

Again, she was sure that he will come back to her but that is because they were already locked in the beendh - beendhni relationship -- yes it was security -- but I don't feel it was security born out of implicit trust in Jagya per se -- but security born out of their married relationship -- and anandi had no reason to believe otherwise -- her parents had a stable relationship, bapusa and maa had a stable relationship, others in the village had stable relationships.

It is only after anandi grew up that she saw cases like phooli's husband etc. where she began to realize that marriage doesn't necessarily last forever.

And yes he came back... but he didn't come back TO ANANDI ... he came back to his family ... anandi was only the conduit for him to be accepted back into the family fold. Once again he tried to use anandi to gain acceptance into the home. He didn't come back to her in a romantic sense.

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sush_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#85

Originally posted by: sectoreight

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But that is my question which I am repeatedly asking. Does sanchi KNOW that jagya has no feelings for her? He was hanging out with her and being nice to her, and then he accepted her proposal. She may know that he is not in love with her per se... but to say no feelings.

And only yesterday it became clear to her that she is less important to him than ganga and manu in the mangalore on the 16th discussion.

yes she know that he doesn't love her thats why she is trying to impress him as much as possible. Even during cake cutting , he cut the cake made by ganga.
Actually I should hit on jagya's head.. he is at fault too for accepting sanchi's closeness.. he was acting dumb when she asking those awkward questions in social.. ab keh bhi do jagdish that i am looking beautiful... does any normal girl asks this to a boy whom she knew from few weeks.. And also I am going to miss you jagdish.. when he was leaving the place..
He actually became dumb saint thinking that girl is not asking him with tht feelings... not only sanchi he thinks that no girl would like a guy like him.
If sanchi even has a lil bit of sense she must never take this realtion forward. First she should have a selfcheck too whether he loves him or likes or it is just attraction as her friends told her...

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 12 years ago

#86

Originally posted by: sectoreight

two words: teenage hormones 😉

What about shiv's teenage hormones?

Seems he still has those hormones while anandi lost it all and has become a dutiful wife giving into him. Like ok, he is desperate, let me give in and get it over so that I can think of what to cook for tomorrow.😆

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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#87

Originally posted by: shalinii173
Of course he was nice with her and helped her that doesn't mean he has feelings for her. Just Being nice is not enough to proceed a marriage .

But that is what a sensible adult will know. At Saanchi's age she might not really be able to tell the difference. Or she may assume that being nice is the first step, and the rest will unfold building upon that in the marriage.

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sectoreight

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Posted: 12 years ago

#88

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

What about shiv's teenage hormones?

Seems he still has those hormones while anandi lost it all and has become a dutiful wife giving into him. Like ok, he is desperate, let me give in and get it over so that I can think of what to cook for tomorrow.😆

Leavesandwaves,

How old are you? This is a nave question. 😲

Women lose their drive in their thirties or early forties.

I just want you to know that men have hormones well into even their seventies or eighties!! Any time at the drop of a hat.

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leavesandwaves

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Posted: 12 years ago

#89

He didn't come back to her in a romantic sense.

Then why did he do all that crying, amnesia, the painful looks etc. etc.

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champawati

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Posted: 12 years ago

#90

I know this for sure jagya has guts to talk what he feel

he spoke his heart to his family many times even before he met ganag.

he can talk to his father, tausa , dadisa that i dont feel good about marraige with saanchi , i said yes under pressure .

i want to get rid of this rishta n live my life peacefully. If sumitra still want me to get maried to saanchi, then i am sorry to say i am leaving house and will stay away in hospital campus ,

i will marry when ever i feel like or never marry again ,but definitely not when my conscious is not allowing.

this is ideal situation but jagya poor is taking disastrous decision to marry saanchi under pure pressure