Who will be the best Parent in KS? Q&A! - Page 3

the best mother is dadi see her with aditya a real warming relationship betw mother & son
the second good parent would be jai & bani & raashi& i am sure ranveer will completly change into positive after having a child & sure he 'll make a great father!!

the best mother is dadi see her with aditya a real warming relationship betw mother & son
the second good parent would be jai & bani & raashi& i am sure ranveer will completly change into positive after having a child & sure he 'll make a great father!!

the best mother is dadi see her with aditya a real warming relationship betw mother & son
the second good parent would be jai & bani & raashi& i am sure ranveer will completly change into positive after having a child & sure he 'll make a great father!!

Hi Rekha,

I personally feel that what makes a parent special and defining is their ability to put their child FIRST above all else. A parent who would make sure their kid is fed before them...a parent who would love their child unconditionally is to me, the ideal parent.
That being said, I personally feel that all of the above mentioned EXCEPT Reptile, would make good parents. But I feel that Bani and Jai would be the ideal parents, individually and together (I'm not being biased here but objective). Many have cribbed that Bani has failed to discipline Reptile and hence contribue Reptile's wrongdoings to Bani's upbringing. If one can contribute her lackluster upbringing (at the mere age of 16-17 when she needed a mother herself) for Reptile's actions, one can equally contribute her lackluster upbringing for the Rano turned out. Buddha also was a parent figure to Jiggy and Puskhar....Jiggy is certainly no saint and her upbringing certainly is questionable. One can also contribute Puskhar's goodness and wrongdoing (running away with Reptile) to Buddha's "upbringing." But I'm not going to indulge in that right now.
Bani will make an ideal parent this time around because her naivety is no longer there. She has witnessed the world in it's most brutal form and that has been the ultimate "How to be a parent 101" course for her. Her inante righteousness, gentleness, and caringness will never diminish and I can confidently say that she will love her lil Krishna unconditionally but reprimand her at the same time should she indulge in any wrongdoings.
Ditto for Buddha. He has experienced the world in a whole new light with the arrival of Bani in his life inspite having been mature and experienced. He will translate to the child Bani's innate characteristics along with his values. But together, they would make the ideal PARENTS.
But as of now, Dadi is the rocking parent. I would love to see Bani share a friendship type of a relationship with her Lil Krishna (PD and the lil girl Krishna) ala Dadi.

In one of your topics few days back you questioned Rano's maternal instincts/responsibilities and someone commented on Bnai being an unsuccessful mother to her sisters. I say even Jai has failed miserably.If Pia is pure evil, Jigs is no saint either. Bani has fulfilled her duty of being a mother successfully but she failed when it came to work on her fatherly duties.She gave affection but never reprimanded or punished her siblings for their mistakes, I will not blame her for it cause since the time she started developing her understanding of relationship, she has not seen her father performing any of his duties, so may be she is unaware of how exactly a father is supposed to behave. Jai also fulfilled the duties of a father but not a mother, he is not responsible also cause he too has just seen his mother living a life full of sorrows, where he had to become her support.If one was an emotional cushion, the other one became a financial cushion for his family.They both never had normal family background , both came from highly dysfunctional homes.

I think both J and B seperately will make terrible parents but together they will make up for the best parents a child can ask for.My vote for them is not because they are the main protogonist but because each will fufill the elements that the other will lack in parenting. If Bani will teach the values of relation and sacrifices, Jai at the same time will teach where to draw the line in relationships, how to be selfish to a bit? They will be doting but strict parents. The parents are successful if they have taught their chidren to differentiate right from wrong and not to judge everything in black or white,they will do it.

***Very well said Priyanka! Couldnt hv said it better 👏

hi MT according to me parenting is not only abt unconditional love but also teach the child to cherish it respect it in short disciplining the child
jai and bani have both donned the role of parent to their siblings and forcefully had to take on the responsibility hence if at some place they lacked they cannot be blamed...i think both of them wld make really goood parents together plus now bani it seems is not going to pass on the pravachan of kd and nd to her baby hence the child has a better chance ...both of them fill in where other fails hence the child will have the best of both


as for pia the child is a ticket to walia fortune....if she had not aborted pushkys baby for the weirdest reason a benefit of doubt cld be given to her ...but as per the present scenario a child is only important till munna accepts it not otherwise ...and this surely has got nothing to do with maternal instincts as jai himself put it she is naming her selfishness as concern for the child
pushky whether a good parent am not sure abt ...he is a good friend ,tried to be a good hubby ,maybe given a chance wld prove to be a good parent

sahil is a gfn loser who still holds on to his mothers pallu needs his wife to mother him in all matters and sulks like a child ..he needs to grow up,be a man ,then a husband and then a father

rano if she changed her priorities then wld undoubtly be a good parent..she respects relationships,understands them but is also practical
ranveer and rashi too wld make good parents
but the best relationship shared is adi and dadi wonderful mother son duo......more like friends its great to have a parent who is ur friend too
jigs nothing to say coz like pia she cld never commit to any relationship as daughter,wife,sister and mother given her kids upbringing...she is selfish where her children r concerened not wrong she has to be but making them ur accomplice in her crimes where exactly is she leading them

Farah, See I agree with you and may be I am wrong somewhere cause I am not a mother yet but I believe that maternal instincts are inborn in a woman and what I said for Bani is my own point.

The reason I still believe that Bani will instill faith and trust in her child is cause she is built that way.Even when she has been betrayed by two people she trusted to death and loved, she will not instill negative traits in her child. She will teach him to draw a line in trusting people , sacrifices are worth it when people deserve it, she will be a good mother. Whgsat I said is basically applicable when J and B are together .At this point where they are deeply hurt, they will still instill good values in their children but will encourage them not to go overboard with goodness

Hi Guys,

Excellent Answers! To answer you, Priyanaka...You have asked a million dollar question! Even being a Parent myself, I don't think I can say what makes a Good Parent! This is just like asking, what makes a good human being or what makes up for an ideal marriage? There surely are some said criteria's for being a good parent, but in the end, it is subjective to every individual!

But yes, as many people mentioned, the most important thing that distinguishes a good Parent is their ability to keep the child above everything else and teach them the difference between right and wrong, till they can make their decisions independently!

No, a Parent cannot be blamed for giving a bad upbringing if the child grows upto become a Criminal or commits a Crime! Every Parent in the World strives to make their child a good human being, all in their own way...But all said and done, Genetics, Atmosphere, Company, Teachings and most importantly the Home that a child grows up in makes a lot of difference! While a Parent might be able to control certain factors in a child's life, he or she cannot gurantee to shield the child from all that he or she is exposed to! And hence, a Parent will only be partly responsible for how a child grows up to be, good or bad!

I hope this made some sense!

Cheers,

MT 😃

PS: Btw, I don't agree that Single Parents don't make good Parents. Far from true!