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Raj Kapoor was not a nice man to know. He made a fool of himself when he was drunk. He promised Nargis that he would marry her and in the meantime he produced two more children with his wife. She was his partner in R.K. Films, but it was his role that was the focal point of all his films. In the end, in Jagte Raho, Nargis was given only 10 minutes of film time. We know he cheated on his wife, but he cheated also on his mistress. Raj Kapoor had a feudal attitude towards women. He often showed them falling at the feet of their men or taking the occasional slap. Nargis and Raj Kapoor acted together in 16 films between 1948 and 1956. He would not allow her to act opposite anyone else, especially Dilip Kumar, of whom he was intensely jealous. Mehboob Khan, who discovered her, wanted her for the lead in Aan but her lover did not allow it. In that respect, Sunil Dutt, her husband, was no better. He would not let her work opposite established actors like Dev Anand. Towards the end of her career she had to be cast opposite second-rate actors like Pradeep Kumar.You will learn this and more in Kishwar Desai's elegantly written Darlingji, The True Love Story of Nargis and Sunil Dutt. The 'Darlingji' part of the title is rather silly, while the rest of it is misleading. This book is really about Nargis, with Raj Kapoor and Sunil Dutt playing supporting roles.The most interesting part comes at the beginning. There is a hint, a subtle one, that Indira Gandhi and Nargis Dutt were probably cousins. More than a 100 years ago, the paths of Indira's grandfather, Motilal Nehru, and Nargis's grandmother, Dilipa Devi, crossed in Allahabad. They lived in the same haveli and knew each other. Motilal was married to a morbidly depressive Swaroop Rani and was unhappy. Ms Desai suggests hanky panky between the two and Jaddanbai, the mother of Nargis, was their love child. Ms Desai is walking on egg shells here, but the suggestion is unmistakable.We can settle this easily. We have two bright, young MPs, Rahul Gandhi and Priya Dutt. They should be encouraged to take a DNA test to see if they are related. But don't hold your breath. Jaddanbai was a singer by profession and a free spirit. She had three children from three men, but married only one of them. The father of Nargis was a Brahmin, Mohanbabu, without a job or a prospect of one. He called his wife Jayadevi when it suited him and Jaddanbai called him Abdul Rashid. The father of one half brother, Akhtar, was a wealthy Gujarati businessman, Bachhubhai. Anwar was the result of Jaddanbai's liaison with her harmonium player. One of the endearing things about the family was its easy swing between Islam and Hinduism. Nargis had a happy childhood but matters deteriorated rapidly after her parents died in 1948. She became the sole breadwinner in a very extended family. Nineteen of them lived in a three bedroom flat on Marine Drive. Visiting relatives were accommodated on seven charpoys lined up in the corridor outside the bedrooms. The villain of the piece was her elder half brother who used to beat her up. To quote: "She asked him how long he expected her to work, and to her horror, he said, 'Till your last breath'. According to Akhtar, she was just an actress and not suited for marriage at all."The reader will find the first half of the book, until Nargis parts company with Raj Kapoor, more interesting. The story of the Dutts, which begins when they meet on the sets of Mother India, is better, and more succinctly, told by their two daughters in another recent book, Mr and Mrs Dutt.

As for the films of Nargis, Desai relies too heavily on the reviews in Filmindia, a scurrilous magazine that disappeared when Filmfare arrived in 1952. Its editor and publisher, Baburao Patel, was a blackmailer. A film would get a good review if it was advertised in the magazine, preferably on the cover, and a bad one if it wasn't. As far as Baburao was concerned, Mehboob Khan could do no wrong. As for others like Chandulal Shah of Ranjit Movietone and Sohrab Modi of Minerva, he would write terrible things on their personal lives and films. I remember V. Shantaram's Jhanak Jhanak Payal Baaje being famously dismissed as "the mental masturbation of a senile mind".

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Nargis: star of undying bloom

Khalid Hasan

Nargis and Madhubala are two stars who remain unforgotten, though they have been gone for many years now. Madhubala, who was easily the most beautiful of the many beautiful women who lit up movie theatre screens across the subcontinent, died young and broken-hearted. The one man she loved, Dilip Kumar, treated her brutally. Her father, Ataullah Khan, not only tyrannised over her but squandered all the money she had earned on several of his failed film ventures.

Nargis was in love with Raj Kapoor, but he was not worthy of her. He used her talent and her money and in the end, he rejected her. She found happiness in the many years of marriage she had with Sunil Dutt, who spared no effort to save her life after she was diagnosed with cancer. He even brought her to New York where she spent time at the Sloan-Kettering hospital, but she did not make it. She lives, now and forever, in her movies, the narcissus of undying bloom.

Sunil Dutt buried her, as she had willed, next to her mother Jaddan Bai in Bombay. Her grave bears the name she was given at birth: Kaniz Fatima. Her great friend in Bombay, Qurratulain Hyder, wrote to me after Nargis died: "Yes, Nargis has left us all immeasurably sad. She was a part of the time of our growing up, a time that is itself now mythological. Her old movies, when one watches them on television now, look quite amateurish, but how romantic they seemed then! She moved ahead in life with tremendous grace and dignity. And when she died, she died as a major national figure. She was a fascinating woman who had no hang-ups about her mother's origins. In fact, the last time she met me, I recall her telling me that her mother was such an independent woman that once when the Nawab of Rampur, who was celebrating his birthday, asked her to dance on a takht-e-rawaan , a platform that moves with a ceremonial procession, she refused. She was a great admirer of her mother and it was her desire that she should lie next to her and among those who stood silently praying as she was being lowered to earth was Sunil Dutt."

Sunil Dutt, who came from Jhelum, died last year.

Raj Kapoor first met Nargis when he was trying to make his first film Aag . He needed a studio where he could shoot his movie and someone suggested that he should go and see Jaddan Bai, who owned Famous Studio. When Raj knocked at her Marine Drive flat door, it was answered by Nargis, who had been working in the kitchen. There was dough on her hands, with one of which she tried to wipe her brow, leaving some behind. Years later, Raj filmed this first encounter in his film Bobby . Raj asked if Bibiji (as Jaddan Bai was called) was home. She wasn't and though Nargis asked him to stay, he was so nervous that he left. Nargis played the lead in Aag which bombed. Raj next began what became one of the greatest hits of all times, Barsaat. The love affair between Raj and Nargis was doomed because Raj was already married and he had no intention of leaving his wife. One of Nargis' friends, who now lives in Washington, told me that the RK Studio was built with Nargis' money. Nargis also looked after her two brothers and their families. At one time, when she needed money for the treatment of the very sick wife of her brother Akhtar and asked Raj for some of what she was owed, he shot back: "What money? I owe you nothing." Her friend told me that, "Nargis walked out of the RK Studio that day, never to go back. All she took when she left were a few crystal glasses."

Raj, her friend told me, would often get drunk and abusive. He mistreated Nargis. "He wasn't a very nice person," she said, yet Nargis bore all that because she loved him. After she walked out of the RK Studio, she never saw him again. Her friend told me that when Nargis was shooting Mahboob's Mother India , her life was actually saved by Sunil Dutt – who played her son – as a fire threatened to engulf her on the set. He did so at great risk to himself, a gesture that endeared Sunil to her. It was who proposed marriage, a decision she never regretted. Nargis, her friend said, did a lot of charity work, especially for spastics. She started a school for children struck by that dreaded disease.

I asked her if it was true that Nargis could outswear any man if angered. That was quite true, her friend replied. She recalled that once Nargis, the actress Shammi, who was Nargis' great friend, and she were waiting in Nargis' car for some food to be delivered, when one of the two men passing by said to his friend in Marathi: "Look, that is Sunil Dutt's bai ." In Marathi, bai means both mother and wife. Nargis heard it and jumped out of the car, took off one of her shoes and screamed, " Haramzaday, idhar aa, mein thjhay bataati hoon mein kiski maan hoon. Mein kya behri bhi ho-gayee !" (You bas***d, come here and I will tell you whose mother I am. You think I have gone deaf!) Her chauffeur, who had been with the family for many years, kept urging her, "Baby, get back into the car, baby get back into the car." She was every inch a lady but she could take care of herself when she needed to.

Saadat Hasan Manto, recalling his meeting with Nargis in 1946, writes: "There was something very playful and innocent about her. She would blow her nose every few minutes as if she suffered from a permanent cold. This was captured in Barsaat as one of her endearing traits." He also writes about the two younger sisters of his wife Safia, who while on a visit to Bombay, befriended Nargis. One of the sisters is Zakia, the late Hamid Jalal's wife and Shahid and Ayesha Jalal's mother. I asked Zakia Jalal some years ago what she remembered of Nargis. This is what she wrote back: "You have asked me about our meetings with Nargis. I can only tell you that when we saw her first picture Taqdeer, my sister Rafia and I just fell in love with her. The public reaction was that she would not make it to the top because of her looks. People said that she had a long face. Anyway, we sisters were dying to talk to her. We dared not ask Bhai Saadat to get her telephone number for us. We asked Agha Khalish Kaashmiri for it and he got it for us. We called her and we just clicked. We told her that it was difficult for us to visit her, so it would be nice if she could come. She agreed and the very next day, she came to Safia Apa's house with her mother Jaddan Bai. There was nothing more exciting for us, but that very day, Bhai Saadat decided to come home early. We were terrified but he was very nice to Jaddan Bai and they got along very well.

"We girls moved into the other room and honestly, it was just like young schoolgirls meeting each other. We enjoyed each other's company and that was all. She told us that she was not keen on acting and wanted to continue her studies. She also told us that Surayya's mother was talking against her, although Surayya was a top star at that time. Nargis tried to be friendly with Surayya but the mother did not approve of it. We naturally had our sympathies with Nargis and became members of her camp. . . She never told us that she had a crush on Raj Kapoor. I can only say that she was a fine human being and I miss her. We did not keep in touch with her after Partition."

Well, that was Nargis, narcissus of undying bloom.

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The Kapoor men are quiet something.
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i wish i had more.. i got it from a friend on twitter..
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i wonder what are the Kapoor men made of..all seem to be A**holes 🤢
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A GARAM ENCOUNTER WITH DHARAM

Never cross a Jat's path if you know what's good for you. That has been my dictum of survival. I don't relish the thought of lying in a hospital, plastered from head to toe. But I challenged my faith and planned to interview Dharmendra. I was surprised that he agreed for an interview. He said, "Yes, let's do it now." I almost had a cardiac arrest. But I recovered sufficiently to step in where even fools fear to tread. Read the interview to find out why Dharmendra asked our reporter to leave his house in the middle of an interview!

No interview with Dharam is complete without a mention of Hema (by popular demand of their fans).

I posed the question that everyone is asking today. Why isn't he signing any films with his professional 'Dream Girl'? After all, theirs was the hit pair that rewrote film history. Besides, even Hema is supposed to be upset about this situation. "I have been asked this question several times before," he answered patiently. "All I'll say is that we won't work together. Even she wanted to know why, but I don't feel I have to answer. I just don't want to. And it's not as if we haven't got offers. We have, but I don't want to say anything else." I didn't press further. I didn't need to. He himself had said it all!

I shifted course to his other family, and his son Bobby Deol. Apparently the youngest jat had inherited not only his father's good looks but also his devastating sex appeal. Almost all the younger heroines had already or were in the process of swooning over Bobby. And he? He is supposed to be dating the pretty, petite Neelam. Further, if rumours are to be believed, her family had gone ahead and even approved of the Deol beta. But Dharam was not amused. "I am very protective about all of my family and I don't like exposing them to the outside world by talking about them. Now if Bobby was in films, it would have been different. Then I would let him speak for himself. But Bobby is only a boy. To me he is a student and a son who is still too young to step out into the world. Let him finish his studies first. As for him being a Casanova, I don't know how far this is true. Yes, he is a good looking boy, but then she is a good looking boy, but then he is also very simple. This so-called affair with Neelam is probably a baseless rumour. If Neelam's family is all that fond of him then ask them about the affair not me. I will believe it only when Bobby comes and tells me about it. That's all I'll say for now. I'll talk more about Bobby when he joins films."

I jumped at this opportunity to ask him about the Deol son who is in films. What was his reaction, as a father, to the much talked about Sunny-Dimple affair? Even before I had completed my question, the Jat breathed fire. "I refuse to believe that Sunny and Dimple are having an affair," he fumed. "Since it is not confirmed, it will remain a rumour. And a rumour is only a rumour. It can never be news. I believe only in the news. Until I catch them red-handed I shall continue to believe that it is fabrication. However, for a further clarification you will have to contact Sunny and Dimple, not me. I am not directly involved until I see them together."

Then why is he so frantically signing films opposite Sunny's heroine, Dimple? Wasn't he trying to prove a point? "So what if I'm acting opposite Dimple?" he demanded, getting slightly worked up. "If producers and people think that the pairing is good, then it's good enough reason for me. I don't tell my producers whom to sign opposite me. I just work, that's my duty. Also if I work opposite younger heroines it doesn't mean I'm competing with Sunny. Tomorrow I shall even act opposite Bobby's heroines if I get such offers," he said defiantly. "I am like the Hollywood stars who act opposite young girls even when they are 70 plus. I do what I want to do, not what others want me to do. Because I know that what I do is right," he glowered.

Singed by the blast of his fury, I decided to steer into safer waters. Like Amitabh Bachchan for instance. I asked about him (Dharam) putting in a friendly appearance at the mahurat of Bandhuva starring Amitabh, and how it felt to meet Bachchan after so long. "Just because I met him publicly doesn't mean that we didn't meet at all," exploded the Jat. "Why must people assume things all the time? We always kept bumping into each other at parties, shootings. It's only because we were recently photographed together that we've come into the public eye and it doesn't mean that we had fought or any such thing. Amit and I have always shared a very close bond of friendship. He respects me like an elder brother and whenever he meets me he bows in deference. In fact he calls me Dharam praji which is a title of honour. He is one of the greatest actors we have ever had and instead of being conscious about it he is still so humble and respectful towards his elders."

At that I bowed my head and sat quietly in respectful silence. Which he shattered with, "Your questions have upset me. I don't feel like continuing this interview today. Come back tomorrow and we'll talk on other subjects, like the state of the nation, the crisis in the industry, my films. My fans will read anything about me. It doesn't have to be personal and controversial."

The next day I decided to be a little more diplomatic with my questions. How had his three shifts-a-day schedule affected his time with his family? As a matter of fact Sunny had even gone on record to say that the only thing he held against his dad was that he was always too busy and never had enough time to spend at home.

"I think my family is very happy with me," Dharam said pointedly. "I have been working for almost 30 years now. I know my responsibilities. My children too are grown up and mature enough to realise this. In the evenings they too are tired and want some privacy. They wouldn't want me to be sitting with them all the time. I keep a balance between too much and too little display of affection. I am not one of those who hug and kiss their family all the time. They feel my warmth and my presence and they know that I am always there whenever they need me. I don't believe in preaching to my family or telling them how to behave. They have learnt the cod of conduct as I learnt it from my father and they follow it the same way. But why pick on me? Even office-goers work all day and come home in the evening. Does it mean that they also are too busy for their kids?"

Granted that he is busy working, but does he have to be excessively so? Why this compulsive obsession to make more and more money? It is being said that he demands the astronomical rate of a lakh a day and grants bulk dates to the person with the largest signing amount. "This is all rubbish," he proclaimed. "I have never given much importance to money. Get anyone who's seen me taking the money from my producers just randomly. They should go to the income-tax people before talking. The authorities know exactly how much I'm getting and how much tax I'm paying on it. All my accounts are in order. I'm not money crazy like some other people. Earlier I used to compromise on my price, sometimes even work for free. So people tried to take advantage of me. But they did it only once. They couldn't repeat it the second time. I know when I'm being used and after the first time I never did them and favours again. As for the good I do I've never boasted about it."

Do they, I wondered aloud. Sattee Shourie has been going around town saying that since she has now tied rakhi on Dharmendra's wrist, he will give her bulk dates and a discount on his price. Garam Dharam didn't like what he heard for he replied hotly, "I don't know why Sattee should say such things. A rakhi is a sacred bond whis is not to be abused. It is not tied to exploit anyone. In any case I'm not a fool. I know who is using me and who isn't."

Then will he talk about his most enduring relationship – that with the bottle? Solemly he intoned, "I know I have said it several times before but now I say it for the final time. I have given up booze for good. It is now a closed chapter in my life. I will never touch a drop of liquor again. I know that I have the will power to stick to my decision and if I can do it then why not. Even if God himself tells me to drink I will not, though I know that it is with His order and blessings that I am doing it. Don't ask me when I gave it up. Or why and how. It's just a promise I made to someone – don't even ask me who – and shall keep it," he affirms.

"Work has always been my stimulant," he continued, "but from now it shall be more so. I believe firmly in Nehru's slogan 'Aaraam hai haraam'. Since childhood, films were my dream world and today I am a major part of that world. I will never be idle. God has blessed me with strength and energy and I shall go on working. It helps in forgetting a lot of things. I shall die with my make-up on. Isn't that what all hard-working actors say?" he smiled.

Since we were back to 'acting', I casually mentioned his critics' comment that behind a humble and modest faade Dharam hides a shrewd mind. His image, they say, is just one big act. "If people think badly of me then what can I do? It's their opinion," he shrugged. "As long as my mind and heart are clear I don't care what my critics say. If they are lying then it will weaken them. In any case I don't have time for them."

Never a truer word was spoken! I thanked God for having come out of this interview with limbs intact and unscathed.

Status Update

Dharmendra is one of the most acclaimed and reputed actors in Bollywood currently. He has two sons — Sunny Deol and Bobby Deol and two daughters — Vijayta Deol and Ajeeta Deol for his first wife Prakash Kaur. Later, Dharmendra got married to Hema Malini and has two daughters — Esha and Ahana Deol. Esha recently got married to businessman Bharat Takhtani. Coming to Sunny Deol, he married Pooja Deol and has two sons — Rajiv and Karan.

Sunny is still working actively in films. Whereas Bobby's alleged affair with Neelam didn't see the light of the day. He married Tanya Ahuja and has two sons. Talking about Dharmendra and Hema Malini, only to dismay of the fans, we still wait to see the day when the super Jodi will reunite together on-screen after Jaan Hatheli Pe, which was almost three decades ago.


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This article was published before Rekha and Amitabh's affair.

Rekha and her Men


SHE was just a fifteen - year - old with an enviable bust line (read forty-two), when she first landed in Bombay fresh out of the starched uniform of some convent school in Madras.

It was in the winter of '68 that Mohan Segal signed Rekha for her first Hindi movie opposite Navin Nischol: The name Sawan Bhadon. A party was thrown to introduce her to the press.
Most newcomers are shy and hesitant. Not Rekha. Her answers to all questions were bold and spoken out. And as the intake of pegs by our brethren of the Fourth Estate increased, so did their questions grow bolder. Yet Rekha was never at a loss for the quick retort.

By the time that party was over no doubts remained that she had won the journalists completely over. They had never encountered anyone, new or old, who was as frank and fearless as this brash, young girl-woman. Could this outspoken fifteen-year-old have been coached to say the boldest things? I doubt it. The girl had apparently seen life raw and lived it to the full even before catching that plane to Bombay. She knew how to speak for herself.


Sajid Khan

The Sawan Bhadon unit did not immediately leave for location shooting in Poona. In the meantime, Mohan Segal had put up Rekha and her mother at a posh hotel in Juhu. Rekha was given tuition to perfect her Hindi diction, and her dancing.
It was during this period that Sajid Khan had just returned from the States after making a big name for himself there.

Rekha spotted him one morning at Mehboob Studios.It was the blast-off for her first serious friendship,I remember Rekha's words clearly when she set eyes on him, because I was around then and saw what occurred."Oh my God!" this was said with awe and reverence. "That's Sajid Khan? He's my favourite! I'm in love with him! I have collected every photograph of his!"She scrambled out of the van in which she had driven into the studio compound and ran straight up to Sajid Khan. And that was that!

There followed a rapid succession of midnight rendezvous; midnight-to-hell drives; and nine o'clock pairs to parties. Sajid was the more experienced of the two-I mean, he'd been in permissive America and all that. Rekha accompanied him everywhere he went. How can you blame a poor girl who finds herself face to face with the idol of whom she's dreamed for nights without end? Their dosti went on strong until Rekha had to go to Poona for a month-long location-shooting of Sawan Bhadon. Sajid obviously couldn't tag along, nor was Rekha a big enough star to demand that the unit take her boy-friend along, as well.
So exit Sajid Khan and enter Navin Nischol.




Navin Nischol

Poona and Sawan Bhadon brought Rekha face to face with the handsome, sleek and suave Navin (he'd just that year finished at the Poona Film Institute). Rekha was bowled over.

Two things, however, apparently deterred Navin from Rekha. Firstly, his wife was present on location. And secondly, this brash girl was apparently more crude and earthy than the suave connoisseur's tastes would permit. And her behavior was too school-girlish. Rekha, always a frank and forthright, made it clear that she liked him a lot. But Navin coolly resisted all invitations in Poona, at least. Location shooting over, Navin and Rekha returned to Bombay where our heroine again took up the old continuity with first flame. Sajid, who had earlier once confessed that she was more than he could handle, now started to cling to her in the hope that she might be good for his career.

The second stage of Sawan Bhadon now commenced-the indoor shooting stage. So again, enter Navin and exit Sajid. Every arrow in Cupid's bow was shot at the new target, Navin, who had first resisted but now relented.

A man's a man, after all! They met mostly after shooting (most of the indoors of Sawan Bhadon were done at Roop Tera Studios) in Navin's car parked in nooks and crannies of the Western Express Highway. They also had to attend premieres and film-functions together. One pretty air-hostess who had flown them Air-India from Bombay to Delhi told me that they were very lovey-dovey throughout the flight (under cover of an open newspaper, of course!)

Did they tire of one another? Or did Rekha realize that Navin, being a married man wouldn't be able to go far with her? Whatever be the real reason for the break-up, the fact is that one night after quite a few pegs Navin con?fessed that "she drained me." The sentence speaks for itself.

Sawan Bhadon was a thumping success. It celebrated silver jubilees everywhere. It was the first non-star cast, low-budget movie to break the stranglehold of big star-cast productions. And it propelled two newcomers to stardom's dizzy heights. Both Navin and Rekha signed up movies by the dozen.

Biswajit

Rekha now signed up with her new friend, philosopher and guide (no, not Mohan Seghal) Kuljit Paul, who had taken charge of her affairs (read business) and consequently management of her finances too. Naturally, he starred Rekha in his own movie, a pot-boiler called Anjana Safar ( later retitled Do Shikari), and Biswajit as the leading-man. It was he who gave Rekha her first kiss-her first screen kiss, I mean-by creeping up behind her, swinging her into his arms and grinding his lips on hers.

Biswajit really must have dynamite in his lips (because his are certainly not the sexiest ones around) for poor Rekha apparently fainted off right away! And, to cap it all, LIFE Magazine did a feature showing a photograph of hers in that kiss-and-faint scene!
So enter Biswajit!

Rekha went about promoting her friendship with Biswajit very quickly. She was always at his house (Biswajit's wife was always in Calcutta) while the friendship lasted, which wasn't very long. It cooled off rapidly too-perhaps because by then Biswajit's professional career had begun its sharp nosedive-and both Rekha and Biswajit became really good friends in the most innocent sense of that term!


Jeetendra

When producer B. N. Ghosh (he was Jeetendra's secretary) teamed Rekha with Jeetendra in his movie Ek Bechara in 1970, Rekha was a very popular star, while Jeetu had had flops all around him like nine pins, after his huge initial success in Farz. A smooth and fast worker is our acrobatic hero, Jeetendra. So when he started making advances to her, poor girl, she was easily fooled into thinking it was love. Rekha gives of her heart and her emotions easily. But Jeetu was in it for the publicity value of the romance, to help bolster his sagging star career. Luckily Ek Bechara was moderately successful, so Jeetu and Rekha were again teamed together by producer Kundan Kumar in Anokhi Ada.

Half-way through this movie, a sudden crack appeared in their relationship. The rift widened rapidly and noticeably until the chasm between them became unbridgeable. It is said that it was entirely the man's fault. The unit boys and invisible workers, who watch everything most observantly on all studio sets, reported in to say that he used to treat her like a doormat.

One day, while shooting on a huge set with about a hundred junior artistes also present, Jeetendra was heard to remark (unintentionally loud) to his hangers-on what he thought of her. Rekha heard that. And it hurt, badly. Like a wounded deer she fled from the sets into her makeup room, flung herself on the couch and sobbed her heart out. She never spoke to Jeetendra again, and she will never speak to him for the rest of her life.

Anokhi Ada was completed with the utmost difficulty. Whatever romance and love scenes you saw in that movie after the interval were just put-ons for the benefit of the cameras. During the shooting, after every take, they would not look at one another. That chapter in her life was closed for ever. The end of the Jeetendra friendship found Rekha at the height of mental suffering, misery and emotional insecurity.


Shatrughan Sinha

The film industry is notorious for wolves on the prowl and Rekha was the easy victim. People who I know to be scum of the filthiest order exploited this gullible and ge?nerous-hearted girl and cheated her out of lakhs of rupees. It was inevitable that there be some reaction. There was. Rekha had a nervous breakdown, and when she surfaced Shatrughan Sinha was there to give her a consoling arm. It is to the credit of Shatru that though a blabber-mouth by nature, he kept very quiet about Rekha and himself, even though he needed the publicity very, very badly at that time. That news of it broke out subsequently was no fault of his.

In the movie industry people do get to know about each others affairs. Remember, movie land comprises of only about fifty news makers. In due course, the infatuation between Shatru and Rekha also fizzled out and today they're merely good friends-and also good co-workers. They're starring together in a couple of movies now on the floors.




Vinod Mehra

Approximately at this time the first genuine lover she's ever had entered Rekha's life -Vinod Mehra, a gentleman to his fingertips. Who spotted who is immaterial now, but neither of them could live without the other. They were seen everywhere together- holding hands, smooching, necking, driving around in Vinod's Volkswagen, having dinner in the wee hours of the morning in a cozy corner of the Shamiana. They were so close to one another that Rekha was also the unofficial hostess at Vinod's sister's marriage-and that's saying a hell of a lot!

Whenever Rekha came in for criticism, Vinod Mehra was always there to defend her, both verbally and in print.

He was the first genuine guy who loved Rekha for Rekha's sake - not for Rekha, the famous. His was the only serious concern in the vast ocean of hypocritical and money-motivated love, which lapped all around this good-hearted but foolish girl. But there was one hitch. Vinod's mother did not want Rekha as her bahu. She kept discouraging Vinod, but he was adamant. At one stage Rekha wanted him to choose -beloved or mother. I believe Vinod skirted this ultimatum by persuading Rekha to bide her time while he tried to heal the rift between mother and sweetheart.

Yash Kohli

The wait was a long wait. It appeared to stretch right up to forever-and Rekha's one hell of an impatient gal! And then suddenly this dashing young fellow called Baba appeared on the scene. He sprouted out of the Nav Ketan office one fine morning, where he had been planted by Uncle Dev Anand to look after his business affairs. Yash Kohli (for that is Baba's real name) soon became a producer and naturally -starred Rekha in his movie Double Cross. Inevitably, the Rekha-Baba romance hit sensation-hungry headlines. Yash Kohli is kind, large-hearted, ever-smiling and perfect company, and this sort of nature has always strongly appealed to Rekha.

Whenever Vinod Mehra was away from Bombay either for location shootings or to attend film premieres in other cities, Rekha could be seen with Yash Kohli at this or that restaurant, hotel, or in his black Fiat. She was soon dividing her time evenly between Baba and Vinod. Rekha must have by then given up hopes that Vinod's mother would ever agree to have her as a bahu. Rekha's outbursts against Vinod's mother continued and, as usual, Vinod maintained a discreet silence about everything and continued to defend Rekha in public. Even after that now immortal "poisoned upma" episode it was Vinod Mehra who called the press conference. Wasn't all this manifestation of the total love that he bore for her?

Did Vinod and Rekha get married secretly? Apparently they did, in Calcutta. The latest gossip indicates that they are both seeking a divorce. And the split is now final because Vinod, when he took up with Rekha, never dated anybody else. He is now occasionally seen dating Zahida, or and this or that girl. Rekha did the most foolish thing of her twenty-one years when she ditched Vinod. He was the only man who had brought some sort of stability to her stress-filled and chaotic life.

Kiran Kumar

Rekha's latest is now Kiran Kumar. He, who had once declared that he would marry Yogeeta, now took Rekha's hand in his own and her head on his shoulders. Vinod Mehra and Kiran Kumar had once been on the best of terms, so much so that each used to confide to each other about their respective loves. I do not know who the villain of the piece is -if there is one-or did Rekha on the rebound throw herself into the nearest available arms? Only time will tell.

Rekha insists that her true love was always Yash Kohli and that she had been leading Vinod Mehra on as she is leading Kiran Kumar on now. "I don't even feel anything for the boy (Kiran)," Rekha says. She just did it to make Baba jealous.

"I've lived a facade," Rekha says, "and no one is more miserable than me today."

The big question is: can Rekha ever hold on to anybody for good? Why does she feel this compulsive need to flit from man to man in search of some ultimate gratification she never seems to find? Will she ever find the perfect a man? Or will her life be one long quest-always seeking, never finding?

Rekha is a nice girl. True, she never had much of adolescence, with the spotlights beckoning her at such a tender age. No doubt, she is flying high but with broken wings, regrets and memories that will make her toss and turn through countless sleepless nights.


Credit: Cineblitz
Edited by Faberica - 12 years ago
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Sattee Shourie has been going around town saying that since she has now tied rakhi on Dharmendra's wrist, he will give her bulk dates and a discount on his price.


So Rakhi-Rakhi game is in Arjun's blood. 😆 Isn't Satee, Arjun Kapoor's naani?

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