Zoya doesn't need to prove her innocence. - Page 3

Originally posted by: rits08

in love...when you fight and you try to clear away the misunderstandings...its not about self respect or ego... wen u r so passionate about someone, u don't really care about your ego...u keep it aside and try to clear up the misunderstandings... i understand that nobody should lose their self respect, be it the woman or the man...but i guess the rules of love are much different from all this...

It would be so much more easier for Zoya to leave and go back to NY... but deep in her heart, she does not wanna go away from Asad...and for her, instead of feeling hurt and keeping her pain to herself...she wants to prove her innocence...if she doesn't do so then the misunderstandings will increase...which will only bring distance between them...

I understand what you are saying and I guess you are absolutely right from your perspective but I cannot see or comprehend in a marriage or a relationship where a partner simply has no respect for the other person. Here Asad has no respect for Zoya...he doesn't trust her a bit even after knowing her history about her parents and her love for his family. He has time and again insulted and degraded her at the very first chance he got...he has never given her the benefit of doubt...so for me this is not a loving relationship...it's not a relationship at all. Yes...misunderstandings happen between a couple and it gets cleared by the proof of innocence but here it wasn't a misunderstanding but an accusation...Asad has once again accused her of a crime without giving her an opportunity to explain...without even thinking twice that she is not capable of doing such a thing. Can you really think of a relationship with a man who doesn't trust you ? I don't think Asad and Zoya are close enough to have a distance between them in the first place. Right at this moment they are not even close to begin a relationship. Incidentally...Ayaan has more faith in Zoya in the whole poison fiasco ...surprisingly they knew each other for a very little time.

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

I dont see how can you say its degrading when in the same paragraph you said its absolutely not wrong. Whether its a pattern or not. Giving evidence that you are innocent is not degradation. Forgive me but I just dont see it. Of course he does not fully trust her yet. She has had a habit of lying to him.
Besides he doesn't even trust himself.

i said proving ones innocence is not wrong...I no where said that it is not degrading oneself in the process...respect and trust goes side by side. He not only doesn't trust her but he has never made an effort to try to trust her even after knowing her family history and about her parents...it's funny how some think that he loves her...I cannot fathom loving a person without respecting the same person. Incidentally Ayaan had more faith in Zoya in the whole poison fiasco...he hardly knows her. Are you talking about the white lies Zoya has said some times...if that's the case how can Asad be trusted because he is blatantly lying to his mother.

Originally posted by: trina2010

Please write this in forum 32 page. I don't understand how Gul does that? She is a woman herself right? For a change why doesn't she make her female leads stronger and less fragile?
Zoya follows Asad like a puppy nowadays. She cries and obeys when Asad throws her out and follows back as soon as he gives her a ring and asks to be back. Asad humiliates and degrade her every moment and she is hell bent on proving her innocence to that brat. WTH.
Please Gul I watch QH mainly for Zoya but now after this her constant tagging along with Mr Khan( who actually treats her like a shit) has become totally unbearable. Why can't she humiliate and degrade Asad for a change please?

I will do that...thanks...but I am wondering will that make any difference...Gul is just so adamant in degrading the women characters. I am so pissed right now. Can you imagine...she has turned Zoya into this submissive woman? I think I dislike Asad more than the vamp Tanveer...she is supposed to be soulless but Asad accusing her at every opportunity is so unacceptable. I just hate to see Zoya this way.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I am appalled by the fact that the PH always tries to justify the fact that Asad had a difficult childhood and blah blah...this is like the lamest of all reasons. Honestly, I don't want to see a marriage right now. This guy does not deserve her...he is extremely judgmental and above all doesn't respect Zoya an ounce.

I'm sorry but Zoe's life hasn't been a bed of roses either. That reason is quite frankly pathetic.

Originally posted by: -Yaz-

I'm sorry but Zoe's life hasn't been a bed of roses either. That reason is quite frankly pathetic.

exactly...why does ppl forget that although Asad's dad has betrayed them...he has always had Dilshad by his and Najma's side...how could he only take the negatives of Rashid and not the positives from Dilshad. It's such a lame excuse. Zoya for heaven's sake lost both her parents and has still turned out to be a wonderful person. Asad is someone I cannot ever like anymore in the show...no amount of redemption can change that I guess. They have managed to damage the character.

I agree with you, why does she has to prove her innocence all the time, I'm tired of mr.khan and his stupid accusations.

Love can be blind but ouch! That slap sure hurt like hell!