Zoya doesn't need to prove her innocence. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

yes...any self respected woman would have walked out the day he manhandled her and definitely someone from here in the United States because here the rules of domestic violence are very different and it's not tolerated in any circumstances...it's a no tolerance zone and sadly Zoya has been changed into someone submissive. They are slowly killing her character.

well, falling in love is a wonderful feeling but losing ones selfrespect in the process is something an individual in love shouldn't have to experience and that to from the person who presumably loves you. Ofcourse it doesn't matter if one is from NY or a village ...women everywhere should not lose their self respect and go through a set of examination over an over again to prove themselves innocent.

Originally posted by: StonerGirL

Not only r they killin asads character but also zoyas...zoya was a spunky girl...who wud speak up for everything...she was sooo intelligent in the gudiya factory thing which was suchhh a big mystery...and this is by far sooo obvious tht tannu is evil and once again we hv a typical saas bahu melo drama happening...wasnt QH supposed to be different...the girl wasnt supposed to be a cry baby begging for the arrogant heads luv while he walks all over her like men used to do and the vamps win everything...r u kidding me??

exactly...they have turned Zoya into a submissive black and white prehistoric woman. I don't even recognize her now and it's better I don't talk about Asad because I completely despise his character after he slapped Zoya. I just cannot tolerate him. I definitely don't want this marriage to happen but to take the story forward I believe that the production house will go forward with it.

Originally posted by: AnShBV

well, falling in love is a wonderful feeling but losing ones selfrespect in the process is something an individual in love shouldn't have to experience and that to from the person who presumably loves you. Ofcourse it doesn't matter if one is from NY or a village ...women everywhere should not lose their self respect and go through a set of examination over an over again to prove themselves innocent. thanks.

Since when has proving yourself innocent whether it be to the man you love or to a random person off the street is degrading yourself or results in you having no self respect? Ease up on the girl. There's nothing wrong with her character if she chooses to give proof.

And I dont care if its my mother, father the man I love or whoever if you accuse me of something. And I dont think something adds up I WILL look for proof, go to the person, put it in their face and say "Here YOU were WRONG" Nothing degrading in that.

Originally posted by: anoo67

i dont know.when the show started she was supposed to be this educated, independent, no- nonsense kind of a girl and i was kind of impressed. my opinion changed when they started making her behave in a cartoonish way.maybe iam in a minority because the rest of the forum loves her to behave like that.but the character stopped working for me at that point.no offence to you but why do people living abroad feel that their lifestyle and belief systems are superior to the desis?just curious.

we don't believe that our lifestyle or beliefs are superior...I am sorry if you got that impression...what I am saying is that women here in general have a no tolerance attitude towards abuse. The system here works in a certain way where a man cannot just get away with man handling or even mere Eve teasing...let alone domestic violence. In United States slapping is considered as battery and it falls in the laws concerning domestic violence. In 2013 India has been voted as the worst nation in GE20 fpr a woman... In India women has the tendency to endure pain and suffering from their spouse and in laws...the reports show that women hardly complain about domestic violence ...what I strongly object to is that they are misinterpreting an American woman here...Zoya was portrayed as a strong willed independent educated woman who would stand up for herself ...going by her character as a strong American woman she cannot just continuously take this treatment from a man and since I am an American I find it offensive.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

well, falling in love is a wonderful feeling but losing ones selfrespect in the process is something an individual in love shouldn't have to experience and that to from the person who presumably loves you. Ofcourse it doesn't matter if one is from NY or a village ...women everywhere should not lose their self respect and go through a set of examination over an over again to prove themselves innocent.

Originally posted by: Drea_QH1fan

Since when has proving yourself innocent whether it be to the man you love or to a random person off the street is degrading yourself or results in you having no self respect? Ease up on the girl. There's nothing wrong with her character if she chooses to give proof.

And I dont care if its my mother, father the man I love or whoever if you accuse me of something. And I dont think something adds up I WILL look for proof, go to the person, put it in their face and say "Here YOU were WRONG" Nothing degrading in that.

proving ones innocence is absolutely not wrong...but when it turns into a pattern where a person whom you presumably love or the other way around has no trust in you and is ready to blame you at the very first chance...it's wrong then to want to prove ones innocence because the cycle never ends. It's a vicious cycle of mistrust and when a woman goes out of her way to prove her innocence she loses her self respect and dignity. Love is wonderful but it's not great then ones's identity or self respect.

Please write this in forum 32 page. I don't understand how Gul does that? She is a woman herself right? For a change why doesn't she make her female leads stronger and less fragile?
Zoya follows Asad like a puppy nowadays. She cries and obeys when Asad throws her out and follows back as soon as he gives her a ring and asks to be back. Asad humiliates and degrade her every moment and she is hell bent on proving her innocence to that brat. WTH.
Please Gul I watch QH mainly for Zoya but now after this her constant tagging along with Mr Khan( who actually treats her like a shit) has become totally unbearable. Why can't she humiliate and degrade Asad for a change please?

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

proving ones innocence is absolutely not wrong...but when it turns into a pattern where a person whom you presumably love or the other way around has no trust in you and is ready to blame you at the very first chance...it's wrong then to want to prove ones innocence because the cycle never ends. It's a vicious cycle of mistrust and when a woman goes out of her way to prove her innocence she loses her self respect and dignity. Love is wonderful but it's not great then ones's identity or self respect.

I dont see how can you say its degrading when in the same paragraph you said its absolutely not wrong. Whether its a pattern or not. Giving evidence that you are innocent is not degradation. Forgive me but I just dont see it. Of course he does not fully trust her yet. She has had a habit of lying to him.
Besides he doesn't even trust himself.