Why Asad Think He Can't Keep Zoe Happy???

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-RohitMaxwell-

@-RohitMaxwell-

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Posted: 12 years ago

I'm really wondering as to why Asad always thinks that he can't keep Zoe happy.

He should be confident that its himself who can keep Zoe very happy.

He can love Zoe wholeheartedly and keep her happy forever <3

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pieryrose

@pieryrose

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Posted: 12 years ago

yes, but at the same time he fears that he would become like his dad and make zoya hurt..poor guy.. he is so emotionally challenged person

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Andreea

@chibi_deea

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Posted: 12 years ago

Unfortunatly, from the beginning of the show he has been under the impresion that we will be just like his father. I just hope he realizes he is nothing like Rashid and that he can make Zoya happy.

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niharika

@nihamrm

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

I guess maybe because love for him was what his parents shared
and seeing them split like that would have been painful and also must have made him believe that he would also hurt the ones he loves and this belief is so deeply rooted in him that its hard for him to overcome

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hiba

@asyavirman

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Posted: 12 years ago

well he thinks his father loved her mom but end up hurting her so thts why he is thinking this and fearing but he need someone to tell him and assure him tht he CAN keep zoya happy not every person is same so i think dilshad will make him realise this hope for the best😉

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@RosyRosh

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Posted: 12 years ago

I actually think this angle of asad's is BRILLIANT. Hats off to Gul for bringing so much DEPTH to Asad's character. As a psych major i see it in him that he fears being his father.. he tells himself that his father is nothing for him but his father gave him the biggest deception as a child. He grew up seeing two people to immensely in love.. BREAK APART.. his father being the hand in that. He can never forgive Rashid for that.. but at same time he is reminded that he is his father's son at the end of the day. What if he ever were to fall in love and do the same thing to the girl he loves?

His fears are so genuine and legitimate and so REAL -LIFE like. I admire Gul for portraying it.

Eventually Asad will realize he is not his father. His father and himself are two different individuals. Two separate human beings. But its not going to be easy for him. For any individual it takes time and THERAPY for them to overcome such truths.

I would LIKE for him to take his time in realizing . cause it keeps it REALISTIC.. and will show us a genuine story and character progression rather than a rushed concept...

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Bibliobibulus

@Bibliobibulus

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

He seems to be missing the point that his love and dedication to his ammi won't allow him to turn into his dad. He's seen what his ammi went through, and he'd never put someone else through that. Strength of character or lack thereof are not hereditary, but developed through life experiences.

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

Sparkler

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Posted: 12 years ago

LoveRosh has put it so beautifully.

Plus the fact that Rashid broke Dilshad's heart twice...it was a perfect love story...and everything that could go wrong went wrong...all because his father was slave to an emotion called love...he loved two women.

Asad fears the uncertainty of LOVE. Esp when he sees the immense power it has over him right now.

He cannot control it...what if he were to feel the same for another girl and end up hurting Zoya? What if he turned out to be another slave like Rashid and end up hurting the woman he loved?

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honeyriaz

@honeyriaz

Dazzler

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: LoveRosh
I actually think this angle of asad's is BRILLIANT. Hats off to Gul for bringing so much DEPTH to Asad's character. As a psych major i see it in him that he fears being his father.. he tells himself that his father is nothing for him but his father gave him the biggest deception as a child. He grew up seeing two people toimmenselyin love.. BREAK APART.. his father being the hand in that. He can neverforgiveRashid for that.. but at same time he is reminded that he is his father's son at the end of the day. What if he ever were to fall in love and do the same thing to the girl he loves?

His fears are so genuine andlegitimateand so REAL -LIFE like. I admire Gul for portraying it.

Eventually Asad will realize he is not his father. His father and himself are two different individuals. Twoseparatehuman beings. But its not going to be easy for him. For any individual it takes time and THERAPY for them to overcome such truths.

I would LIKE for him to take his time in realizing . cause it keeps it REALISTIC.. and will show us a genuine story and character progression rather than a rushed concept...

Right on girl!!! I totally second what you wrote! I am a counselor myself and I have come across many people like Asad who have various issues because of parents broken marriage. Being raised by a single parent isn't an easy thing. Asad's character is as real as it can be! His fears are very realistic! @LoveRosh you have written everything that explains Asad's fears..don't have much to add!!!

Edited by mbficoa1987 - 12 years ago