OH Dear!! Poor Soul Stillborn & Ovi

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Stillborn Baby has no one loving or mourning for her-him besides Ovi the mother...Mother Ovi does not even know stillborn's gender, what it looked like, could not love, hold, hug or mourn for her as the birth was given...This baby is the most unlucky soul whose father, grand parents on either side, great grand parents on either side, aunt, uncles no one has conscious or heart to acknowledge her being born or death...If any one but Ovi acknowledges this baby's birth than they would have to acknowledge the death and mourn...
This uncaring family thinks they already mourned for the dead baby which Purvi let everyone believe...So the mourning is done...Purvi hogged the glory..
Now she is hogging the glory to for her so called tyaag and balidaan..
Its been written that this stillborn is in better place with god in heaven...Do we even know that for sure?? Do u think this baby got the proper goodbyes or final cremation as a hindu baby would be given? NO ...To me this baby's soul could be still in pain and not rested...Mother's pain this baby feels...They feel each other's loss..😭😭😭
I am heartbroken at CVs for totally shoving this stillborn under the rug as if that baby never happened..
How sad and cruel..
😳
My POV ofcourse..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Varsha dear,

I agree with you completely, and I have written about this time and again in over the last week.

It is dismaying that not only Arjun, but none of the Ds seems to have any interest in this poor little mite either, or any tears to shed for it.This is so earlier, when they think it is Purvi's, and now when they know it is Ovi's. Sulochana, for example, never asks Purvi about their (supposed) dead baby. And this with so many senior people around: Savita, Damodar, Sulochana.

A baby of less than 1 year is buried, as per Hindu custom, and there is a shraddh ceremony performed once (not every year as in the case of adults). I do not know what was meant when Onir tells the orderly to handle the dead baby as per the procedure for stillborns. Now, even it is taken to be Purvi's still born child, surely the husband and wife, ie Onir and Purvi, would have performed some ceremony for it and buried it? They do not show anything of that in the TV serial.

Shyamala

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

Stillborn Baby has no one loving or mourning for her-him besides Ovi the mother...Mother Ovi does not even know stillborn's gender, what it looked like, could not love, hold, hug or mourn for her as the birth was given...This baby is the most unlucky soul whose father, grand parents on either side, great grand parents on either side, aunt, uncles no one has conscious or heart to acknowledge her being born or death...If any one but Ovi acknowledges this baby's birth than they would have to acknowledge the death and mourn...

This uncaring family thinks they already mourned for the dead baby which Purvi let everyone believe...So the mourning is done...Purvi hogged the glory..
Now she is hogging the glory to for her so called tyaag and balidaan..
Its been written that this stillborn is in better place with god in heaven...Do we even know that for sure?? Do u think this baby got the proper goodbyes or final cremation as a hindu baby would be given? NO ...To me this baby's soul could be still in pain and not rested...Mother's pain this baby feels...They feel each other's loss..😭😭😭
I am heartbroken at CVs for totally shoving this stillborn under the rug as if that baby never happened..
How sad and cruel..
😳
My POV ofcourse..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sorry guys my babies came to visit 😃 so could not respond sooner..
Thanks Shyamala dear for responding..
As usual EK and her CVs are showing every serious thing in such a casual nonchallant manner..
Marriages, divorce, abortions, remarriages, depression, alzheimer, diseases of any kind, baby birth, stillborn etc shown so sadistically...No reality...All cockamime storylines..
Its not the D family members alone but Kirloskars the other paternal grand father, Karanjkars the Maternal side grand mother, Mama, mami, Aunt and uncles...What a shame for them not to acknowledge or mourn this unfortunate & unlucky grand child...No support for Ovi...
Father Manav is gung ho on protecting the criminal doc who swapped babies listening to his beautiful WIFI...And father of the baby is busy comforting the bio mom who is his ex lover..
BTW for the stillborn by hindu vidhi she would should have had proper cremetion, 13 day ritual and a one yr Varsi & all had they followed Maharashtrian culture...But NO babies are disposed off like yesterday's trash and given to wardboy to dispose off 😲😡 Would Onir had done that to his own child? Would Onir had done that if Purvi's her own child had been stillborn??? Would Purvi allow that for her own baby? Than how is it OK for Ovi and Arjun's baby??
No mourning, No cremetion for Bad Ovi's bad Stillborn that is what it boils down to..😡
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Varsha Di ,
People are feeling bad for Pari who despite being illegitimate is getting all love from everyone. The love that was of the still born's.
This is ridiculous. It's all Archana's not. Had she not adopted Purvi, ovi's life wouldn't be ruined. If Purvi wasn't there , Arjun and Ovi would be happy today (if things go according to plan)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

Varsha Di ,
People are feeling bad for Pari who despite being illegitimate is getting all love from everyone. The love that was of the still born's.
This is ridiculous. It's all Archana's not. Had she not adopted Purvi, ovi's life wouldn't be ruined. If Purvi wasn't there , Arjun and Ovi would be happy today (if things go according to plan)n

Waneeka I am no against adoption so to speak..But I am against the so called adoption by one spouse w/o the consent or acknowledgement of taking a baby in.
Adoption by a couple with complete background checking and consensus is fine..
But here Archana not only never fought for her babies or husband-marriage..She replaced her bio kids with Purvi to make her own guilt go away...feel better abt it..
Picked up a baby off the stree with no background information..Only thing Cops said parents themselves were orphans and had no relatives or family...
Not only Purvi is raised under such a screwed up and scewed up sanskars abt what is right from wrong...Mother Archana can do no wrong...Purvi can do no wrong..False sense of sanskars are branded into her brain...this girl has no clue what she is doing..
Not only Archana should not have adopted Purvi ...But Purvi would have been better off in orphanage or adopted by a sound couple who can raise her properly..
This would have completely avoided the hell Deshmukh and ArMan's bio kids especially Ovi has had to go thru...Yes by now Ovi and Arjun would have been happily married and having their family..
Purvi has been the panauti or bad Omen to ArMan's bio kids...Sorry to write this..
Though I really dont want to talk abt Purvi and Her adoption by Archana..
This topic is abt the stillborn who has not gotten her proper due when she was alive in her mother's womb nor after she died..
Edited by Dabulls23 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Archana's intentions were good
But purvis luck was bad
Who would want to be associated with such a messed up family ;)
As for the stillborn
We didn't even know if it was a boy or a girl
And the trauma of losing the baby is huge
No human being deserves a still born , not being able to mourn a baby's death :(
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I have no word 2 describe how this show is messed up
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Have fun Varsha di...

If I am in Ovi's position I would sue Purvi and Onir...

okay even if i agree the babies are swapped for good reason so called 'sabh ki balaayi'...so if Purvi considered the dead baby as her baby, then why Purvi didn't hug the stillborn baby...why Purvi never asked what gender stillborn is...why Purvi/Onir decided cremation should be done by hospital why not family...

@Waneeka,
I agree this Purvi character was associated with such a messed-up family...but this character has lot of power to make that family the best family...

Character Purvi could make Archu move-on with her life...

Character Purvi knew the clear picture of ArMan separation, then she had Arjun's pure love, if Purvi character really wanted a Parivaar ki balayi she should have broke Archu's kasam and made ArMan reunited instead of accepting Ovi's deal...
Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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double post...please see my post in previous page...

Edited by m_masti - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Varsha, I am so glad that someone opened this thread to grieve for the stillborn. The baby needs a proper cremation and closure. The Cvs have dealt so poorly with this stillborn issue, it was disgraceful. I feel not only Ovi, but the audience need some closure and the poor soul needs to be grieved as Ovi's and Arjun's baby. It is also true, all the grieving was done for the stillborn as Purvi's baby, so that is wrong too.

Besides, how hardhearted it is that no one, neither Karanjkars, Deshmukhs nor the Kirlosjkars, were shown once grieving for the baby, even once??

Everyone wondering about Manav as a father to Purvi, but never condemning Arjun, for his total lack of concern for the poor soul lost (without a proper ritual or cremation that the baby has full right to) or the suffering that Ovi is going through for her baby. How cruel is this?? There were only some scattered posts here and there and that was about it. So, thanks again for opening this thread. CVs needs to show more sensitivity and so this was much needed..

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