OH Dear!! Poor Soul Stillborn & Ovi - Page 5

Originally posted by: hillydee

Excellent Post Homie👏

I am observing a moment of silence for the death of Ovi's baby.

I am still in shock that only Ovi is acknowledging the death of her baby.😔

I am trying to understand how Arjun could be this unfeeling and so consumed by his love for Purvi, that not even the death of his own flesh and blood is mentioned by him. Are the cvs saying that this is acceptable and it is okay for a man to not care about his own child just for the sake of another woman?

The family is just as horrible, as they chose to mourn Purvi's child incorrectly, yet now when it is Ovi's child that must be mourned they are silent.😡

As I mentioned b4 all 3 D, K and Kirloskars are worst family to have...Ovi feel so alone and isolated...No wonder she will run away...I would too if I had family like them..

Originally posted by: paris.hilton

Ovi is still lenient with purvi. If this happens to me, the people who swapped my baby will experience my wrath, my punishment for what they did to me will be in their memory for the rest of their lives. Sorry to sound so harsh. I just think that what happened to ovi is the most painful thing for a mother. I also can't understand why some can't understand the feeling of not having to hold or mourn for one's child before it was disposed. The baby was born in mittal's hospital so it could be possible that ovi's child was also sold for studies in medical schools as selling of human organs are part of mittal's business. It happened to the cousin of my friend. She gave birth to a stillborn, the baby was not fully developed yet when it was born and because they still owe the hospital, they were told that they can get their child only after they pay the balance. It took them months to raise the amount needed but when they went back to the hospital, they were told that the baby is no longer there and that their baby was sent to some funeral parlor but someone told them that the cadavers were sold to schools and students of medicine. The cousin of my friend had no money so they can't afford to get a lawyer and sue the hospital. She was so sad hearing that her child is nowhere to be found. She was blaming herself for what happened to her baby. If only they had money, she would have never left her child in the hospital so i imagined ovi's feelings, she can afford to give her child a proper ceremony, burial or cremation but because of purvi's stupid and disgusting sacrifice, ovi's baby was disposed like some kind of animal. I feel disgusted reading comments in the forum saying that ovi deserved all the pain she's going through for separating the two most irritating lovers of indian serials. Can't believe i'd be reading comments like that for someone who just found out about the truth of her child and the swapping. I like onir so much but this one mistake of his ruined his good character. He has to pay for his crime. What he and purvi did is so wrong. If i am ovi, i will severe ties with them. Ovi should also ditch arjun. He's a no good, cheating husband. Staying with him will only prolong ovi's agony. I'm not familiar with indian religion but in christian religion, a married man staring/looking with hidden desire at another woman is considered adultery in the new testament. So this arjun and purvi eyelock scene is disgusting in my opinion.

Originally posted by: Luv4games

in fact everyone is waiting for arjun to go back to purvi and raise pari together coz she needs both parents...I call that BS...arjun's child died and he needs sit his ass in a corner and mourn with ovi...shame on him for not even acknowledging the baby...instead of going to ovi and forcing pari on her he should sat and mourn with her the dead of their baby...

Originally posted by: .Mandy.

I know what you mean Varsha, while the family has every right to worry about Pari, they need to take in account what happened to Ovi. Ovi cannot just get past the fact her child is dead or that the child she thought was hers is actually her sister's. Its sad that her family is not seeing the bigger issue at hand here.

Originally posted by: trupat

oh gosh your post made me sad ... one of my friend had still born child and till this day she has not come out of that pain ... its a very touchy subject ... mother is first one to feel her child, so ovi knows the pain of loosing that child ... I m not going to go deep and accuse any of the character for not mourning ... the real pain is lot worst ... I always have admired ekta for different reasons but for this thing I really hate her ... its just so frustrating when they show such a sensitive issue so casually ... grrr ...

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Hinduism believes that a dead baby's soul , if not mourned properly by the parents , if not bid good bye with the proper rites , haunts the fortunes of the household it is born into for it is the cry of someone who feels unloved .

Kools I wrote the same...Stillborn's atma-soul has not gotten the closer and peace..

Purvi and Onir have done a crime . There are no two words about it , period . Varsha telling Purvi that she did a galti [ mistake] not a gunaah [ crime] is atrocious but then Varsha is known for atrocious logic and atrocious deeds and Purvi should decide whether she is the right person to give character certificates or to decide what is a gunaah or what is a galti .

Onir-Purvi has comitted a grave crime which should have put both of them in jail serving some time..It took Varsha 19 yrs to admit her mistakes...She is not qualified to make judgement on Purvi or any one that she did it out of bhalaai of her sister...She put her sister's happiness over her own..That is simply BS..😡

The other person who keeps telling Purvi she has done no mistake ...note guys that Varsha at least admits it was a mistake , Onir says it was NO MISTAKE at all...is Onir , the one who did the actual baby swap .

Doc is still saying Purvi has done no galti...Sachai is sachchai is his ranting...We all know the real sachchaii...WTH is he talking abt?

It is WRONG that only Onir is punished for doing the crime . The video clearly clearly implicates Purvi . She suggests to Onir in the video to quietly and stealthily place her own baby instead of the one that has died . The police should arrest her in a shot . She should serve jail time like Varsha . In Savdhaan India they have shown such a racket . These rackets should not be glorified as tyaags at all , its pukeworthy to mint money by glorifying crime . If Onir has hitherto been a good man , its upto the court to decide how much leniency his sentence should have keeping his social service in the past in mind . But not arresting Purvi sends a very wrong message . It must be kept in mind that the uneducated people who do menial work watch this show and if they think a woman can get away by doing any rubbish as per her whims , the responsibility lies on the CVs who glorified this .

Not sure why and how Court-judge could not see Purvi asking her husband to swap..She is even more guilty at this crime than the husband she made do the crime..She went scot free yet again.😡

The homage to the stillborn can start by Onir and Purvi admitting that they did a GUNAAH . This admission must be public with apologies to the mother from the heart . They should both pray for the dead child .

Will we ever see that? Did we see that with even Archu apologizing to her husband or their kids for what injustice she had done to them...Wishful thinking on our part as CVs will never show Trinity admitting their mistakes..or repent..

The slap is very very LESS for Purvi , she needs to be in JAIL.

The indifference of the father is BRUTAL . A big 👎🏼 for that . In their stupid bid to glorify what they tried to present as the love story of the century the CVs went too too overboard . They thought total indifference to Ovi and even her baby can be the BEST projection of ARVI love . They only succeded in butchering the characters , people are so APALLED by this ...that Purvi and Onir r so self righteous about their crime and that Arjun called the stillborn OVI'S BACHA' that they r furious with the couple .

Feelings for the dead baby should not be construed as no feelings for the living one as she is innocent .

She should stay with her father when Purvi is serving jail time and after she comes out of jail , Purvi should take the baby and go to Kolkata with Onir . He never ever had a problen accepting and loving her child as his own . Arjun can have visitation rights and they all should mutually agree on this issue .

I agree totally..Its not Ovi's problem..

Ovi should not be pressurized or even expected to look after Arjun Purvi's responsibility . They were the ones who had unprotected irresponsible sex before marraige and they shoud accept that GALTI .

Why is everyone shoving Pari down Ovi's throat??? So ridiculous and insensitive...Arjun was the worst and Manav the father asking her abt Arjun and Pari was heartless Period..Both MCPs😡

If the Kirloskars r not contacting a pundit and asking about the homage rites to their dead grandchild's soul , Manav should do it instead of doing Archana jaap all day . It should be shown in this serial that the Kirloskars r stripped of all their fortune and become penniless bhikaaris and a pundit tells them that its the dead baby's hai . That they r suffering these misfortunes coz they never paid proper homage to their own dead . Hinduism foretells this misery and insists on proper homage .

I hope Stillborn and Ovi's hai destroyes all Ds, Ks and mainly kirloskars and Dutt-As..As they started this mess and God will finish it...

Tathastu and Ameen to your last para...Thanks for a wonderful post Kools 👏

Originally posted by: hillydee

Zoya there is no deal, it has been like this since Arman no longer meant Pavitra Rishta and some of us decided to speak out against it. Now we see the same with Arjun and Purvi, so it is only obvious we would have the same views, and even more obvious that our views would be a problem.

Bottom line is I don't care about the opposing views because everyone has a right to it, even though I will debate it, but at the end of the day what I care about more is what the Cvs are writing and calling Pavitra Rishta and sanskaars/values whether for India or the world, they are all wrong and downright not even puke worthy.