OH Dear!! Poor Soul Stillborn & Ovi - Page 2

Originally posted by: m_masti

Have fun Varsha di...

If I am in Ovi's position I would sue Purvi and Onir...

okay even if i agree the babies are swapped for good reason so called 'sabh ki balaayi'...so if Purvi considered the dead baby as her baby, then why Purvi didn't hug the stillborn baby...why Purvi never asked what gender stillborn is...why Purvi/Onir decided cremation should be done by hospital why not family...

@Waneeka,
I agree this Purvi character was associated with such a messed-up
family...but this character has lot of power to make that family the
best family...

Character Purvi could make Archu move-on with her life...

Character
Purvi knew the clear picture of ArMan separation, then she had Arjun's
pure love, if Purvi character really wanted a Parivaar ki balayi she
should have broke Archu's kasam and made ArMan reunited instead of
accepting Ovi's deal...

Di ,
But then Purvi would risk killing her mother
She wouldn't be quite the ideal daughter would she
She would rather ruin someone else's life ?one of her admire's ?

Originally posted by: Kalapi

<font color="#660000">Varsha, I am so glad that someone opened this
thread to grieve for the stillborn. The baby needs a proper cremation and
closure. The Cvs have dealt so poorly with this stillborn issue, it was
disgraceful. I feel not only Ovi, but the audience need some closure and the
poor soul needs to be grieved as Ovi's and Arjun's baby. It is also true, all
the grieving was done for the stillborn as Purvi's baby, so that is wrong too.</font>

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<font color="#660000">Besides, how hardhearted it is that no one, neither
Karanjkars, Deshmukhs nor the Kirlosjkars, were shown once grieving for the
baby, even once?? </font>

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<font color="#660000">Everyone wondering about Manav as a father to
Purvi, but never condemning Arjun, for his total lack of concern for the poor
soul lost (without a proper ritual or cremation that the baby has full right to)
or the suffering that Ovi is going through for her baby. How cruel is this?? There
were only some scattered posts here and there and that was about it. So, thanks
again for opening this thread. CVs needs to show more sensitivity and so this
was much needed..</font>

Di ,
You forgot the great motive : anyone against Purvi - bad , anyone for Purvi - good
Now is Arjun were grieving his own baby he would be selfish for not caring about Purvi
Hence the cvs did this

Awesome post👏

Agree totally.. That poor child is one that is so unlucky..😭 The mother who cries for the child cannot even hug the stillborn and tell the child just how much it will be missed while the dad is such a loser that he spares not even a few seconds for this child..

Poor child and Poor Ovi whose sorrow no one seems to understand.. 🥱 Manav atleast should know better. He went through a similar loss when he was young. Shouldn't he be the one helping Ovi properly instead of nodding his head at what his MIL and Father are both ranting about stupidly😡

Ovi is still lenient with purvi. If this happens to me, the people who swapped my baby will experience my wrath, my punishment for what they did to me will be in their memory for the rest of their lives. Sorry to sound so harsh. I just think that what happened to ovi is the most painful thing for a mother. I also can't understand why some can't understand the feeling of not having to hold or mourn for one's child before it was disposed. The baby was born in mittal's hospital so it could be possible that ovi's child was also sold for studies in medical schools as selling of human organs are part of mittal's business. It happened to the cousin of my friend. She gave birth to a stillborn, the baby was not fully developed yet when it was born and because they still owe the hospital, they were told that they can get their child only after they pay the balance. It took them months to raise the amount needed but when they went back to the hospital, they were told that the baby is no longer there and that their baby was sent to some funeral parlor but someone told them that the cadavers were sold to schools and students of medicine. The cousin of my friend had no money so they can't afford to get a lawyer and sue the hospital. She was so sad hearing that her child is nowhere to be found. She was blaming herself for what happened to her baby. If only they had money, she would have never left her child in the hospital so i imagined ovi's feelings, she can afford to give her child a proper ceremony, burial or cremation but because of purvi's stupid and disgusting sacrifice, ovi's baby was disposed like some kind of animal. I feel disgusted reading comments in the forum saying that ovi deserved all the pain she's going through for separating the two most irritating lovers of indian serials. Can't believe i'd be reading comments like that for someone who just found out about the truth of her child and the swapping. I like onir so much but this one mistake of his ruined his good character. He has to pay for his crime. What he and purvi did is so wrong. If i am ovi, i will severe ties with them. Ovi should also ditch arjun. He's a no good, cheating husband. Staying with him will only prolong ovi's agony. I'm not familiar with indian religion but in christian religion, a married man staring/looking with hidden desire at another woman is considered adultery in the new testament. So this arjun and purvi eyelock scene is disgusting in my opinion.

Originally posted by: Kalapi

Varsha, I am so glad that someone opened this thread to grieve for the stillborn. The baby needs a proper cremation and closure. The Cvs have dealt so poorly with this stillborn issue, it was disgraceful. I feel not only Ovi, but the audience need some closure and the poor soul needs to be grieved as Ovi's and Arjun's baby. It is also true, all the grieving was done for the stillborn as Purvi's baby, so that is wrong too.

Besides, how hardhearted it is that no one, neither Karanjkars, Deshmukhs nor the Kirlosjkars, were shown once grieving for the baby, even once??

Everyone wondering about Manav as a father to Purvi, but never condemning Arjun, for his total lack of concern for the poor soul lost (without a proper ritual or cremation that the baby has full right to) or the suffering that Ovi is going through for her baby. How cruel is this?? There were only some scattered posts here and there and that was about it. So, thanks again for opening this thread. CVs needs to show more sensitivity and so this was much needed..

I know what you mean Varsha, while the family has every right to worry about Pari, they need to take in account what happened to Ovi. Ovi cannot just get past the fact her child is dead or that the child she thought was hers is actually her sister's. Its sad that her family is not seeing the bigger issue at hand here.

Originally posted by: Luv4games

in fact everyone is waiting for arjun to go back to purvi and raise pari together coz she needs both parents...I call that BS...arjun's child died and he needs sit his ass in a corner and mourn with ovi...shame on him for not evenacknowledgingthe baby...instead of going to ovi and forcing pari on her he should sat and mourn with her the dead of their baby...

Arjun wouldn't do that. His child with purvi is the only thing that really matters to him now. How insensitive of him to even ask ovi to take care of his love child, the nerve! He's rubbing more salt as well as pouring vinegar on ovi's wound. Pari is a reminder of arjun and purvi's past. It's not easy for any wife to accept the lovechild of her husband and ex-lover. The right thing to do is for purvi to take back her child and not involve the poor baby in this mess. I just want ovi to be strong and leave arjun for good.

Originally posted by: archis_2013

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I cannot believe I am reading this! Areyouupset that a living soul is being loved over a dead one? Because the other child did not have a proper funeral?Andbecausethe childwasillegitimate that it had no right to be loved?And you would wish a innocent baby to be discarded the sameway the dead one was?

If this is love of humanity and people are applauding the sentiments, I amspeechless. I indeed must be living in a cruel world. 😡

<div>Finally, what was the adoption angle about?Arjun falling in love with Purvi had nothing to do with Archana adopting her. It was inspite of Purvi being associated to Archana and Deshmukhs.

No both babies come from the same father. It has nothing to do with illegitimate and legitimate.
Pari is NOT Ovi's baby.
Neither does Ovi want to accept Pari. Why is Pari being forced on her ?
This mother did not even see the dead body of her baby and now she is being forced to love her husband's child from another woman ?
How is that fair ?
Pari has everything. Arjun is with her. But this insensitive D family has not mourned the baby's death but is worried about Pari who has everything
No one cares about that baby
I don't understand why pari is being referred to as helpless .
Don't mothers die immediately after giving birth to a child ?
Don't fathers raise their baby alone ?
If my baby died , I was not able to see the baby I would be mad
If Archana put in proper values in her daughter as she boasts then maybe this day wouldn't arrive today

If Archana hadn't adopted Purvi , then Purvi would never work in the office .
Hence Arjun and Ovi would be happy together
And please I am not against adoption
I am against raising a baby as if they owe something to you