Selfish Jagya - Page 4

Originally posted by: reshmiroy2012

I am not sure what initiated the talk, if Anandi came to jagya to suggest remarriage, then her character is inconsistent. A woman who comes crying to her husband and share her ex husband's feelings, cries on his shoulder to get assurance, she was so uncomfortable with jagya in haveli, and worried about her husband's feelings - if she goes to Jagya and initiate the talk, i cannot buy it.
Then Anandi is a grey shaded character, she does not have love or respect for shiv and taking undue advantage of his goodness. And AnSh is dead for me. since the base of their relationship is lost.
And Jagya i do not want to judge him, because i have failed to understand j, but shashank in a negative role is good, and you need a kanta in romance. So BV needs Jagya to make us ride a roller coaster.

If its a team effort the show is running, then why are all the rewards going to only one actor? I think shashank's fans should go and voice this out ,. As they are shashank's fans and would like to see that Shashank gets justice...

Originally posted by: Libra123

If its a team effort the show is running, then why are all the rewards going to only one actor? I think shashank's fans should go and voice this out ,. As they are shashank's fans and would like to see that Shashank gets justice...

Jagya phoned Anandi at night and then went to her house and told her that he is going to meet his second wife. Shiv witnessed the talk. What would he think? hmm.. this guy is a lonely soul..he is only comfortable with Anandi..he is not that much free with his family.. he wants Anandi to convey the message to his family...ok..forget it...let me sleep...

Wish we were in the times of mahabharata.😉

Originally posted by: Sheetsden

Here the main culprit is DS. Shiv suggested anandi to talk to jagya about remarriage as he knew DS would ultimately will ask him to let anandi do the task. He knows DS very well now. This old lady calls anandi late night to discuss about jagya life. Who won't get pissed off and shiv wanted to get rid if the problem and made anandi do the talking. Shiv should stop giving advances to Singh family about jagya life. Lets see who will start the conversation about remarriage with jagya tomorrow.

This is what exactly I am trying to say.

When Shiv or Anandhi does blunders everybody can read their mind and predict only positive things. when it comes to jaggiyya, people are looking for negativity in every direction. This is my opinion.

Jaggiyya is not a negative character or villain if this show.

Like any other husband, he asked anandhi to be modern and join college with him. who turned the idea down?
But then sanchi wanted modern babhi and Anandi changed herself immediately. So who is really wrong here?

Anandi never had jaggiyya as priority. She may be a good friend, good daughter in law and good human.
But, was she a good wife to jaggiyya? Absolutely No.

if only she listened to jaggiyya, he would have never turned into negative character.

Jagya did say that he do not want to erase out the beautiful past where Anandi is present. Now he is repenting for his mistakes and thinking about how beautiful was his past. Right. This is quiet natural. Anybody for that matter don't we still think about our first love(if at all we had during school or college) or first crush even after marriage. You cannot wipe out the past completely. But neither you cannot live the present in the past. His bonding with Anandi started at 8. And somehow or the other Anandi is still with him giving some emotional support. He cannot forget everything in a matter of 2-3 months. Anandi was his support right from when he was a kid. Even when he was with Gauri, Anandi was his emotional support. He had also helped Anandi in many ways. He was very close to her I had even felt he put his Anandi before his mother,Dadisa and suguna. Such was their relationship. They were very good friends. He needs to get occupied to forget those beautiful memories. Give him some space, give him a soulmate be it Gauri/Ganga or a new one. then he'll think very less of the past. So for this it is necessary that he should get married.

Now he is sad because he thinks he;s loosing his good friend. He'll realise this. He never said in the recent past(except during marriage) that he loves Anandi. He only said he doesnot want to wipe out the beautiful past. He's sad and repenting for his mistakes and he has told out his feelings openly to his friend who had always been his strength.

How awkward it would be for him also when his ex comes over to stay at his house and to hear ILU. Yes he had also done that. He has been very arrogant enough to have had SR with Gauri in the presence of Anandi, but now he is repenting for his mistakes. Here as someone else said he is being realistic.
Yes he needs to undergo the turmoil which Anandi had felt only then he can respect any future relationship. But give him space he'll overcome his past and the childhood friendship bond which he shared with Anandi will defnitely be back. He'll definetly realise that he is only missing his childhoood friend.

Originally posted by: cosmos1

Jagya did say that he do not want to erase out the beautiful past where Anandi is present. Now he is repenting for his mistakes and thinking about how beautiful was his past. Right. This is quiet natural. Anybody for that matter don't we still think about our first love(if at all we had during school or college) or first crush even after marriage. You cannot wipe out the past completely. But neither you cannot live the present in the past. His bonding with Anandi started at 8. And somehow or the other Anandi is still with him giving some emotional support. He cannot forget everything in a matter of 2-3 months. Anandi was his support right from when he was a kid. Even when he was with Gauri, Anandi was his emotional support. He had also helped Anandi in many ways. He was very close to her I had even felt he put his Anandi before his mother,Dadisa and suguna. Such was their relationship. They were very good friends. He needs to get occupied to forget those beautiful memories. Give him some space, give him a soulmate be it Gauri/Ganga or a new one. then he'll think very less of the past. So for this it is necessary that he should get married.

Now he is sad because he thinks he;s loosing his good friend. He'll realise this. He never said in the recent past(except during marriage) that he loves Anandi. He only said he doesnot want to wipe out the beautiful past. He's sad and repenting for his mistakes and he has told out his feelings openly to his friend who had always been his strength.

How awkward it would be for him also when his ex comes over to stay at his house and to hear ILU. Yes he had also done that. He has been very arrogant enough to have had SR with Gauri in the presence of Anandi, but now he is repenting for his mistakes. Here as someone else said he is being realistic.
Yes he needs to undergo the turmoil which Anandi had felt only then he can respect any future relationship. But give him space he'll overcome his past and the childhood friendship bond which he shared with Anandi will defnitely be back. He'll definetly realise that he is only missing his childhoood friend.

Wow very well said!! 👏