Anandi is so conscious about what other pple r thinking about her that she is missing the big picture of her life...her husband and his happiness. She doesnot understand that if she reciprocates shivs love and if shiv is content and satisfied, automatically things will be fixed.. which cannot be achieved by mere wearing saree and cooking halwas. Also she should understand that instead of bothering unimportant things, she should be more precis towards more imp. things.
Anandi also committed the same mistake with jagya as far as I remember whenever jagya used to come to her room, she used to give bahanas that abhi ma bula rhi hai ya dadisa ke pairo me tel malish etc etc...Jagya used 2 get frustrated...not necessarily s*x but a mere holding hand and a lovely touch can give a boost to healthy husbnd wife relationship and it should be very frequent from both sides which lack in all the characters of BV due to privacy problem and lack of healthy s*x education...