Are Men Secure ??

Dear Friends!!!

My topic for the debate is "Are Men Secure?"

Let me explain the topic.All the times people simply debate,fight for the rights of Women.I really wonder Why the issues of men are not raised?

In somany cases Men are threatened by sexual harasment by women if they have personal grudges.May be if the Man is really good he will come out of the case but mean while imagine the mental torture undergone by he and his family members.

Please put your views.

Cheers,

Mythili

Mythili I believe the reason why we dont discuss it is because Men have held the position of power for so long that we automatically assume that there cant be anything that they are at a disadvantage for and 2 becuase they have been in power for so long even if a few of them suffer we really dont care 😆

poor men... poor pooor men... very sad... 😆

Ahh.. at last MEN.. ab pata chula na supression kya hota hai 😉 😆

I agree with Shikara, also, if compared ratio you will find of men being abused compared to women being abused will be very low.

OK...a compensation for those who were tired of getting more feminist topics at DM lately 😉 😆

shikara and sowmyaa have said it.

cant say much about them they are an enigma.

Men have always tried to more powerfull den the women and have always proved dis by being the president, scientist and even terriosts thus people dont think that even men can actually be weak, depressed or can cry. I mean if a girls cry we r all lyk dunt cry but if a man cries every1 is lyk u crying.. be strong. because men r expected to be strong. But yeah, its true, that at the end of the day, even they r human beings, n dey also go through stress and depression. they arnt exactly emotionless. Throughout the history, they have also been sexually haressed, however these cases usually end up under some files as they arnt belived. 😊

I still feel men are unsecure as women are!

Women use sexual harrassment as the reason for the vengence purpose!

See! Recently a (male) fashion designer was blamed of rape by the (female)models after somany months!

Even in companies the rule of sexual harassment is used by some worse female employees to take vegence on male employees!

I don't say this is a major issue but this is really scary issue!

Cheers,

Mythili

😆 😆 some men are definitely insecure.....they can't even digest women rubbing shoulders with them at workplace 😛 😆 ...j/k

On a serious note...I agree with you Mythili ji. But insecurity won't be the word for that....I think now a days, some men are facing reverse discrimination....based on gender. Their are some women who blackmail them to get their way. Due to society's perception of male being the hunter all these years.....it is, at times, difficult for people to digest that the hunter is bein hunted by some of the warp minded preys 😉

On top of that, some perverts have also become equal opportunity abusers 😛 ....😆 .....sorry, don't mean to be disrespectful but can't help thinking about two of the recent debates....the social murders..and the gender bias....both have some very creative excuses presented by men for defending what most of them have been doing all along....and then you put us women on defense with this thread 😆 😆

Okay....back to topic...People in power, be it male or females, should refrain from using their power to create an environment that is uncomfortable for people around them. Seriously, I am against any kind of abuse or opression against any gender....period.