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Shirin

@-Ayeshi-

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: _srija_

Oh Dear Not a scope to think like that . Now that All the situtation has come out from her Hands. 🤢 Its Decided she did a Big scary drama by Breaking a Pot. Saying " ur Bhabo has Not Dreamt Like that " 🤢 If Any Happens she has to Melt Herself in knowing its Not wrong Deed in Making Sandhya to Let her Dream Fulfilled Like the Rest of her Family Members dreams are Making a way 😳

Ya... Thats what make me understand Sandhya... That she is still very young and she is a brave girl but somehow bhabo made her scared this time with all these breaking pot drama... She is forgetting her dream I understand but bhabo even made her accept to have a kid...!!!

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_srija_

@_srija_

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: ayeshi_101

Ya... Thats what make me understand Sandhya... That she is still very young and she is a brave girl but somehow bhabo made her scared this time with all these breaking pot drama... She is forgetting her dream I understand but bhabo even made her accept to have a kid...!!!

I could not either Blame Bhabo or Suraj or Sandhya

Bhabo is in her Ways to make her DIL get tied with Family , Children and House Work

Suraj - cant take it anymore his Wife Missing Most important Meaning of her Life

Sandhya - Cant take any dramas on her Family or either on Suraj , Harsh Words on Suraj from his Family for Her supporting her ...

This is Like a DeadLock Situtation in a Family 😕 , Everyone want to be Happy But sandhya and suraj are Suffering in this Process to see themselves having a Meaningful Life 😕

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Saibal Routh

@SAIBALROUTH

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+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Nice letter to Sandhya and you have raised some valid and right questions dear. I too was feeling the same after watching the episode and you have significantly raised some good points, like she is hurting Suraj by trying to change herself and Suraj catching it quite easily.

I too feel that by trying to fulfill Bhabo's wish, she is deviating too far and forgetting that her own hubby had already taken a vow to fulfill her dreams and will never relent until the task is done.

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.Ami.

@.Ami.

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: ayeshi_101
@Ami di... Thank you...!!! Spark in my writing skill...!!! ⭐️ Are wah...!!! 😃
Muuuaahhh... muaaahh... muaaahh...!!! 🤗 🤗 🤗
Thank you sooo much...!!!
Me too loved rowdy-dabang avtar of Sooraj... 😎
Btw BPA matlab ???

@ JAM... thanks 4 clearing many of my doubts...!!! Thats how I am keeping my mind cool u know... That she is a young girl n making mistake is nothing impossible...!!!

BPA= Bombat Paranoid Aunty = JAM.... You're heartily welcome..Muwaah!🤗

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Saibal Routh

@SAIBALROUTH

Inactive

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#55

Originally posted by: June_Anne_Mary
wonderful post Shirin. Hats off to you for daring to be different.

Sandhya has only Sooraj. Only Sooraj (its very imp). So she cant bear even a sand that drops over him. But Sooraj has a family. Only Sooraj is Sandhya's family. So how could she think about getting him hurted because of her, when she loves him so much?

Remember, she never wanted to be a reason that could worry him. Now in Rathi Bhoot Banglow, all have raised hands against Sooraj. Every time Sandy, tries to live her dream, he is being questioned, abused and bashed. As his wife, how can she suffer it? She cannot.

So in her eyes, all are blaming Sooraj because he tries to fulfil her dream. So if she leaves her dream, he will not get taunted and harazzed by others. In that case, only not to see him hurted, she sacrificed her dreams. In fact, she sacrificed herself for him, in his love. Not for any other ghost from Rathi Bhoot Banglow. Thats all.

Nice Viewpoint from Sandhya's end JAM ⭐️ ⭐️ Loved it 😳 😳

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LovePraja

@LovePraja

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Wow Ayeshi. A really fab post😃. U've said all d right things in a right way. In fact u've said everything dat we are all thinking. Wish we cud have Sooraj say all dat u've written 2 Sandy😊. These words wud have more effect on Sandy if they come 4rm Sooraj himself😳. Tell her dat her sacrifice is nt worth anything or anyone. Hope we get see that dis in d coming episodes😎.

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Shirin

@-Ayeshi-

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#57

@ Saibal... Thanks 4 ur comment... Ya she is somehow misunderstanding Suraj... She is not realizing that her dream became Suraj's dream too.. And no matter how hard she tries Suraj wont give up his determination to fulfill her dream...!!! So it will be wise to be with him rather than denying n pretending to be changed...!!! I just hope 4 one time Sandy raise her voice n seek permission from her own n tell everyone in the house that I want to fulfill my dream... I want to be a police officer and I am not ready to be a mom at present...!!! ⭐️

@ Infan... Thanks dear...!!! Ya Sandy needs a little push this time... But Suraj doesn't know everything... How bhabo is trying to manipulate her... Hope he will find out and ask her to be more strong n confident towards her dream...!!!

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-Liebe-

@-Liebe-

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: ayeshi_101
Oye Sindu... Thanks 4 ur comment...!!! 😊 BTW.. Suraj is not happy at all with what Sandy is doing... Suraj's mom always distrusted Sandhya in every single matter in the past when Suraj did know how honest Sandhya is... She interfered their personal matter b4 and asked why they dont have physical relationship like normal couples... Wo bhi in front of everyone...!!! 😲 But Suraj never stooped respecting bhabo 4 all that... I dont think he will be surprised if he found out bhabo is pressuring Sandy to forget her dream n for having a kid... Its nothing new in bhabo's nature...
U r happy with whatever Sandy is doing...!!! She is pain yaar...!!! I want my enthusiastic Sandhya back...!!! Cant see my chhora n bindni in pain yaar...!!! 😭 😭 😭

yup shirn suraj is not happy bcz of sandy...but he understood wt sandy is...and that bhabo😡...hate her to the core...

today surya sbs moments...waiting for it to hire...

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coolmausam

@coolmausam

Voyager

Posted: 13 years ago

#59

She is Kept in the web of Emotional Black Mails

This situation is Like her Marrigae situation , under circumstances she Accepted Marriage by Brother Emotional BlackMail , Dnt She say that will Alone persue Her studies in India , she appealed him that she can alone complete studies in India , Wasnt She confident that time ? No She was But it was Heck of Life BlackMail ankur put on Sandhya

The thing u want Sandy to be is confidence ..

we Cannot Expect to ask about confidence when we are wrapped by BlackMails ..

U have Beautifully Written Bt it wont Work in Reality ..

till the person who is Playing Games with Lifes wont understand it was No wrong to have a Dream. This Situation is Totally Different with 15 day Bahu Test . No comparision with that . Like Before she could Not Make Attempts to please Bhabo for IPS , this IPS is Not in Hands of Her.Its Not Even in the Hands of suraj Even , till he wont encounter his Mother with a word that He is Not going to give a Heir till Sandhya spends atleast some time with her academics , This Will again come as Bmail to Bhbo to Make Sandhya Join in IPS . This is a complex situation from any End , without getting Hyper emotional we Need to wait and Watch this crucial part of story peacefully .

Edited by coolmausam - 13 years ago

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