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Monamie

@monamie111

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Posted: 13 years ago

#61

i was not so angry with CM at first..but now i just can't tolerate her ..specially after watching today's episode!!!!..i absolutely agree with u...i think she does not love shiv at all..if so then why she can't be happy when shiv is happy with anandi!

i can only request to the CVs that pls don make BV a saas bahu show 😔...i know Cvs wont...bcoz so far they have handled this matter so well..hope in future too they will do justice to the show..

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@..Tangled..

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Posted: 13 years ago

#62

CM to dimag kach kach kha rahi hai! cvs stop this fuss of choti maaa. let shiv know bout cm's intentions!

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: mocking_bird

Gauri's equation with Anandi was different. Even though she married Jagya,she knew Anandi was always somewhere lurking in the mind of Jagya and despite her efforts,she was never able to completely replace anandi in Jagya's life.
Choti Ma does not have any such fear. Or does she? Is she thinking anandi will snatch her Shiv from her? That Anandi is not "nayi naveli" is something that may bother her. We can also understand that because,it is expected that some one from the family to object to this marriage.
But, she never made an attempt to know Anandi,never really tried to find what is it in her that made her Shiv fall for her.
Her reservation regarding Anandi is shrouded with jealousy and hatred I can feel it.
she is not that much worried about Shiv as she is about herself though she is not vocal about it.

At Sukanya, yes today's episode answers the above question. She definitely wants to remain the most integral part of Shiv's life and also wants to control it.

Yes, any other bride could have also snatched her Shiv away from her, but she is biased towards Anandi because not only she is snatching away her Shiv, but also she is getting second chance to live a happy which CM herself could not embrace.

I could not see today's epi as I am not well. Thanks for replying.

So this is the root cause!

Sukanya, I hope you get well soon. Today's episode is worth watching 😊

Take care!!

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happylady

@happylady

Beginner

Posted: 13 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: nniks

<div>yup they had a very happy and nomal married life with honey moon and all
jagya was crazy for anandi...he changed after going to mumbaiand got trapped in its modern lifestyle then same anandi started to look gawar.

Thank you now i hate jagya more

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anonee

@anonee

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#65

Originally posted by: mocking_bird

Did you notice the way she said to Anandi"Ab to bas sagai hui hai" in the precap. Ohh..I felt,as if the whole thing will stop here at the sagai only and not proceed further. It was the way she told this which made me think like that.

I did notice and got the full taste of her venom in today's episode. On one there was Ashima, CM's choice falling all over Shiv (not just holding hands) and insisting that he escort her where ever and on the other we have Anandi who plays by the rules with Shiv. True she was in Shiv's house - but CM made it look like it was a crime. I think CM would have broken the sagai there and then if it was in her power. Thankfully Shiv is fully vested in Anandi and vice versa so with after suffering a lot of verbal abuse from CM and Jaghead these two will finally tie the knot!!

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dixie123

@dixie123

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Posted: 13 years ago

#66

Originally posted by: Missesha

At Sukanya, yes today's episode answers the above question. She definitely wants to remain the most integral part of Shiv's life and also wants to control it.

Yes, any other bride could have also snatched her Shiv away from her, but she is biased towards Anandi because not only she is snatching away her Shiv, but also she is getting second chance to live a happy which CM herself could not embrace.

Agree Esha.. CM is afraid of losing her son. I am sure even with Ashi it would have come to this finally. But, with Anandi she is not nayi naveli also. But, I guess this is reality although I hate the saas-bahu track. There are mothers like CM who are insecure and afraid of losing their sons after the sons get married. Is that what the CVs are trying to show ? Or here are they trying to deal with 2 things at once, one the prejudice and the other insecurity ? 😕

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 13 years ago

#67

At Dixie,

I agree that in real life there are lot of Mothers who are insecured of losing their sons to their wives. Results of such possessiveness is never good. One of the three (i.e. mother, son or daughter in law) burns out and the mental peace of the family is broken.. It depends on who can resist longer.

I have personally witnessed one case myself, of my friend where due to an over possessive MIL, my friend had to take divorce in a span of 6 months of her married life.

My friend is currently re-married and has all the desired happiness in life, but her first experince was horrible. Her MIL interfered in all their matters (including personal mattes) and suffocated this girl to the extent of breaking it off.

Let's see what Cvs have in store for us with CM track. Will they shoot 2 birds at the same time?

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Sukanya

@mocking_bird

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#68

Originally posted by: Missesha
After watching today's episode one thing is clear to me. CM is jealous that someone will take her place in Shiv's life. She wants to control Shiv's life and unfortunately Shiv does not want to be pampered or controlled by CM anymore.

CM does not have a problem with A being virgin or not, her problem is that Shiv is not getting a wife of CM's choice. Moreover, Anandi is getting another chance is life, which CM could not get.

CM cannot see Shiv's happiness, beyond or above her own desire to keep being an integral part of Shiv's life. After all her control is being lost.😡

If you look closely,Missesha,she not only is jealous,she is shrewd as well.

Look at the way she changed gear thse moment she saw Shiv approaching them.

This will now be a mental game between Anandi and CM.

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Sukanya

@mocking_bird

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: aparnauma

@bold

This is exactly what I mean.Is Anandi's life is all about convincing her sasural that she is worthy enough to be thir bahu.Is it all Anandi's life about?
How is that every time she is the one who has to make adjustments?

she knows she is not liked by CM. May be after marriage she would try to know the exact reason behind CM's dislike.

Though CM may say she is worried about Jagya's presence in her life, the fact is CM is worried about her presence in Shiv's life.

Once Anandi knows this,she would make space for CM secure in Shiv' life. That way,.she will win the trust of CM and love between Shiv and her will also deepen. It will not be easy for her,but,I think it will not be the oft-repeated saas bahu saga.

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