yes at heart no doubt she loves evry member of family even harish she loves and can be seen clearly... but does that justify her actions...
but here mater is different...here just because nana,harish and shanky planed to patch up between adi and pankhuri ... avantika ego is hurt and she is now on war with them just to prove her point and wants them to know adi belongs to her and only her...she just bee blind for revenge and the 1st girl that poops out of her mind she grasps her and forces her own son to marry the girl...
Sorry to cut your post. Totally agree with you. It looks like it would be Latika or another dosen't matter as it's not Avantika because it's not her who choose the girl.
However I don't think she's completly mean like Adi Mami or Pankhuri Mama and I'm sure when she will know Pankhuri she will love her.