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Posted: 13 years ago
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Ram,

Hope this letter finds you all shaken up. Shaken up? Yes, I really do. And I want you to be more proactive.

Even when your beloved wife was enacting a divorce drama to reveal the truth you never wanted to hear, you didn't venture to seriously find out why this was happening. You intrinsically trust people. Your friend Vikram had to literally coax you to find out who Jayesh Karekar was and why he got 2 crores. Now is the time to shed that and be alert because 5 years after your wife was reported dead, you are still being taken for a ride now by your sister-in-law and mother-in-law. Please wake up before it hurts you even more.

I love the way you have grown more sensitive to people around you and perceive your wife and her love in everything you do. But can you please put your detective hat and start connecting the dots now. Because,

Your new-found darling Peehu looks so much like you, behaves like you and shares the same tastes and has a single mom and you never saw your wife dead. Please go after Peehu and find out what her background is.

We don't know what happened in the last 5 years. You might have cleared your wife's name in that pharma fraud case and Ayesha might have helped there, but I can still not take the fact that you had to do what you did for Ayesha. For two reasons. First is that you married Priya as a compromise, but never undermined the sanctity of the institution of marriage. You had complete faith in it. The Ram Kapoor who married Priya as a compromise lets her win the ring game(koudi?) by giving her the ring to show that she is her ardhangini and has right over the household. That faith in marriage is what makes the relationship give you back much more. You got love of Priya in return. Secondly, Ayesha is the one who in the first place is the cause for your misery by falsefully testifying against your wife. Please tell me this Ayesha situation all a lie or is not what it looks like.

Oh by the way, you are so caring and loving that you send a Rakhi to your brother-in-law because Priya would be happy wherever she is, but never bothered to understand what Peehu as a child or her mom are thinking about Peehu's dad. Does it hurt you that Peehu does not have dad around? Do you realize that Peehu is not at all attached to Rajat? Just because you learnt Pooja is single (and not married as corrected by Rajat) you think she can be easily approached by Rajat? Why? You are willing to help out Peehu and her mom in their financial mess, but have you realized how insecure they might be feeling mentally? Please think and try to find out.

Finally, you deserve the best. Your unconditional, no-frills-attached love is your armour. Looks like a weakness now but it can't be. Please do not rush in helping your friend and when you encounter the truth that your wife is alive, we hope you will take a sane and strong stand to get her back. Hope your love for Priya brings her back to you.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Good Post..
We want both Ram and Priya to put their thinking caps on!..
Priya is confused and wants to avoid situations..
And Ram is way too happy and in his own-world..sad he is encouraging Rajat without even bothering to know whether Pooja would be interested,whether she has any strings attached..
Both need to come face to face and both need to give each other some earful!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Santhi!
Great letter!! While my perspective is quite different on the divorce drama, I agree interms of Pihu! But again, the intention of him to do that inspite of knowing Pooja is Priya, would be the nail in the coffin for me.
Will write my letter for Ram in this post!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pasumarthisa


Ram,

Hope this letter finds you all shaken up. Shaken up? Yes, I really do. And I want you to be more proactive.

Even when your beloved wife was enacting a divorce drama to reveal the truth you never wanted to hear, you didn't venture to seriously find out why this was happening. You intrinsically trust people. Your friend Vikram had to literally coax you to find out who Jayesh Karekar was and why he got 2 crores. Now is the time to shed that and be alert because 5 years after your wife was reported dead, you are still being taken for a ride now by your sister-in-law and mother-in-law. Please wake up before it hurts you even more.


Santhi dear, you messed up here! She is not a mere sis-in-lae. She is Ayesha Ram Kapoor, wife of Biz Tycoon, Ram Kapoor 🤢

I love the way you have grown more sensitive to people around you and perceive your wife and her love in everything you do. But can you please put your detective hat and start connecting the dots now. Because,


Yeah, can we pls have that brilliant RK back with his sharp brains who hatched a fool proof plan to save his newly-wedded wife from public humiliation, by that CREEP SICKO SLIMEBALL Ashwin??? And who planned to play to his wife's weakness of going talli, so that he could get the truth outta her??? You are a mere ghost of your former self, Mr. Kapoor and it pains to see you like this!

Your new-found darling Peehu looks so much like you, behaves like you and shares the same tastes and has a single mom and you never saw your wife dead. Please go after Peehu and find out what her background is.

That's difficult Santhi. He has much time upon himself to give love tips to Rajjo bhaiyya but no sense to actually probe or atleast show some inquisitiveness regd the sweet-n-strange bond he shares with Peehu!!

We don't know what happened in the last 5 years. You might have cleared your wife's name in that pharma fraud case and Ayesha might have helped there, but I can still not take the fact that you had to do what you did for Ayesha. For two reasons. First is that you married Priya as a compromise, but never undermined the sanctity of the institution of marriage. You had complete faith in it. The Ram Kapoor who married Priya as a compromise lets her win the ring game(koudi?) by giving her the ring to show that she is her ardhangini and has right over the household. That faith in marriage is what makes the relationship give you back much more. You got love of Priya in return. Secondly, Ayesha is the one who in the first place is the cause for your misery by falsefully testifying against your wife. Please tell me this Ayesha situation all a lie or is not what it looks like.


You said it all in the BOLD Santhi. I bet he himself is unaware of his marital status with Conda. Mitu is still undecided.. shez waiting for the TRP result. Will decide on the go. 😕

Oh by the way, you are so caring and loving that you send a Rakhi to your brother-in-law because Priya would be happy wherever she is, but never bothered to understand what Peehu as a child or her mom are thinking about Peehu's dad. Does it hurt you that Peehu does not have dad around? Do you realize that Peehu is not at all attached to Rajat? Just because you learnt Pooja is single (and not married as corrected by Rajat) you think she can be easily approached by Rajat? Why? You are willing to help out Peehu and her mom in their financial mess, but have you realized how insecure they might be feeling mentally? Please think and try to find out.

Again a valid point!! How can RK be so insensitive to coax Rajat to pursue Pooja, just coz she is a single mother?? Without gauging what Pooja thinks about all this... he is piling on Rajat Khadoos on her!! Did you, Mr. RK, by anychance pledge "Pyaar baan te chalo..." after Priya's 'death', in her loving memory, as a service to this hatred filled world?? Are you role playing the ATLAS here??? *Bakwaas*

They have butchered his character like anything to turn him into a love guru *PUKE*!!!!

Finally, you deserve the best. Your unconditional, no-frills-attached love is your armour. Looks like a weakness now but it can't be. Please do not rush in helping your friend and when you encounter the truth that your wife is alive, we hope you will take a sane and strong stand to get her back. Hope your love for Priya brings her back to you.


Oh I have given up on this couple Santhi!! They are into a Self-Destruction mode, battery operated by CREATIVE Didi and team! No one can redeem them now! BALH is So OVER!

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Posted: 13 years ago
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awesome post
"Secondly, Ayesha is the one who in the first place is the cause for your misery by falsefully testifying against your wife. Please tell me this Ayesha situation all a lie or is not what it looks like."

I still can not digest ram Ayehsa marriage in the show, really the day they announced that I was heart broken, I have no interest left in balh anymore, and now I heard mamaji is back, I mean how it is possible... why he did not fire him after all what he did to priya with NIharika.. it is really nonsense. even his role is the show is like a second lead, WT***** I mean seriously, I can not tolerate this shit anymore, I am just reading the updates for the sake of our love for the original story of RAYA .I am completely disappointed.. 😕😭😡
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Punya there we go, ranting about Ram and Priya. Thanks again for your thoughts. Feel a little better after this.



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice post Santhi.
And most important part of all this, he is letting his MIL live with her daughter inspite of the fact that his FIL is still in shock. 5 years and he is still unaware of his FIL's condition.
His Choti is being humiliated by his so-called wife and MIL and he was the same man who made earth hell when his Choti was allegedly kidnapped. I won't tell u to act ragefully but atleast tell ur MIL to behave properly with his Choti.
I hated that he bought a hi-fi car to that Anaconda. Remember he just wanted Priya to share Niharika's car.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hi shanthi..
this open letter to Ram Kapoor is as necessary as the one angie has penned to ms..whatever she wants to call herself/sharma, kapoor. I really wonder if the idiot CVs are aware that these 2 characters have been unequivocally accepted as representative of the modern middle aged Indian couple by audiences across the board!!!
If I may, i too shall write a letter to Ram..

Dear Ram Kapoor,

This is one of your most ardent fan writing to you to find out if you still are the same man I fell in love with a year and two months and fifteen days ago' When I saw you in the conference room blitzing Narang for being a bad businessman.. I was like ' finally a guy who knows what he is talking about and not just acting like a tycoon' you were THE Ram Kapoor in full form' then within a matter of minutes you changed from tycoon to responsible son and loving brother and the change was so seamless that you made me your ardent bhakt at that moment' By the end of one week of seeing you show emotions ranging from wonder, anger, introspection and blind brotherly love, I fell in total, stupendously implicit love with you. As the weeks went by and you displayed that you were just like any other guy with all the faults and foibles that make guys up, I was steadily getting entrenched in your life' Your marriage to Priya and the subsequent adjustments that you made and the slow realisation of your love for each other was a journey that I enjoyed incredibly. The way you stood by her at real times of distress and the support you provided to her and her family endeared you to my heart like nothing else did' really I did not think that any one other character has so impress me. Another fact that made me think of you as an ideal human was your ability to apologise if you realised that you were wrong' you had an ego but that never ever came in the way of you being a good man. When you changed to become the man your wife wanted you to become but still maintained your business persona I was greatly impressed at the balance you were able to maintain. All that changed within a span of weeks and suddenly you were beset with problems galore which still confound me'

Over the past few months I have seen you struggle with grief, despondency and betrayal and you have tried to come to terms with what life has dealt you. I have understood that you have taken the lessons of love that Priya taught you to heart and that you have decided to make everybody the recipient of that love. All that is well but this is where the identity of the character that I fell in love with has gotten lost' I do not understand why you are behaving the way you are doing' and most importantly I do not understand the decisions you have taken in the name of your love for Priya.

My primary question to you is about your supposed marriage to your sister in law- Ayesha. How do you justify the decision of marrying her? Your half- baked explanation that you wanted to provide her with the protection of your name and that it also saved you from the pressures of your family to remarry' Please will you tell me if YOU believe in what you said' did you really think that your family would have pressured you to remarry knowing full well that you still love Priya whole heartedly?? And since when have you taken upon yourself the mantle of "MAHANTHA" ' Are you so nave that you cant see that your goodness is being taken advantage of' What was Priya's final drama all about? She wanted to show you that your family were taking advantage of you and that your implicit belief in them was misplaced ' right. And you have allowed not only your family but Priya's family too to leech off you?? What is really wrong or is there some other equation that misses my comprehension!!

If your life in Mumbai is a mystery to me and your relationships there are puzzling, I do not understand what the equation of your relationship with one Mr. Rajat kapur is ' You want him to have a great life and experience love like you did with Priya and that wish is very understandable given your genial nature now. But you have not met the elusive Ms Pooja sharma have you? So how have you decided that she is the perfect partner for Mr Kapur? Do you think that all single women are out to get married or that they are on the constant look out to hitch themselves again? Do you think that a child like pihu will be happy in the care of a person like Rajat kapur? Maybe you do not know this because the khadoos has not displayed it in front of you, but he is a man who looks after his ex lover's children so that they remind him of their mother's betrayal.

These are the two issues that are rankling in my brain and refusing it to settle down in acceptance of your new avatar. There are a few others too but they pale in to insignificance in the face of these two. So please will you explain your present standis loci and put me out of my misery.

PS: I love the old ram Kapoor' still do ... he was a person and also kindly note that "MAHANTHA" does not suit you at all. You look awesome but you are presenting a shell, I want to see you whole!!!



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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandinimp

hi shanthi..

this open letter to Ram Kapoor is as necessary as the one angie has penned to ms..whatever she wants to call herself/sharma, kapoor. I really wonder if the idiot CVs are aware that these 2 characters have been unequivocally accepted as representative of the modern middle aged Indian couple by audiences across the board!!!
If I may, i too shall write a letter to Ram..
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If you may? Write it please. Just pour it out.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ChitaRK

Nice post Santhi.

And most important part of all this, he is letting his MIL live with her daughter inspite of the fact that his FIL is still in shock. 5 years and he is still unaware of his FIL's condition.
His Choti is being humiliated by his so-called wife and MIL and he was the same man who made earth hell when his Choti was allegedly kidnapped. I won't tell u to act ragefully but atleast tell ur MIL to behave properly with his Choti.
I hated that he bought a hi-fi car to that Anaconda. Remember he just wanted Priya to share Niharika's car.


In short lot s of loose ends 2 be dwelt with---Ha ha ---

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