Arnav such a jerk - Page 37

Originally posted by: Flora3333

If he only wanted to BED her, he could've done that a long ago!!!!
It's been 6 months since they got married, but he never forced her to bed!!
He could even rape her if he was only thinking about his own feelings...but did he????

Who said he doesn't care about her feelings???
IF he didn't, he wouldn't stop immediately when Khushi asked him to stop today!!
he even arranged a saat fere on the rooftop!

When he said he loves her... that's it!!!
Can't u see how he has changed? the guy who never believed in love/feelings now says that he loves his wife!
the way he stands for khushi in front of his dadi shows his love and RESPECT for khushi!!!
The way he didn't let khushi down even after dadi came to the terrace...shows his honesty and most importantly-- LOVE for khushi!!!
it's just that...he has a different point of view than khushi!
Don't bash ASR! everything he's doing is because of his love... not for his lust!

Roger that ... 👍🏼
I sooo agree with each and every word that you wrote 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

See the scene again how she enters the room from bathroom.

She has her back towards the camera i.e Arnav, she is covering herself and he tells her "Ab tum yaha aa rahi ho yaa me waha aao" god if that is not playing with her then what is.

In india duppata is equated to dignity and it shall never be played with.

Dont you remember the scene when she slapped Arnav for holding her dupatta??

I live in india and i know what a dupatta means for a girl but why are u forgetting how he draped the dupatta on her himself? he wanted to do it. and i have already mentioned what PLAYING actually constitutes.

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

I agree. He didn't force her but the way he acted felt like he just wants to do it. At times he seemed very desperate 🤣 Don't kill me people!

🤣 kya karega bechara cant even kiss properly yaar.

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

Please rewatch she had work in two instances, one is not suppose to shout at your wife. she is not a toy

Originally posted by: sanyaksgian

Well what I noticed was something different ... She wasn't that busy to not listen to what he wished to say ..her expressions were pretty clear ... Twas evident that she was intentionally ignoring him... And he's no jerk ...
And PS- all, i'm no khushi hater ...

Originally posted by: vijji12

yeah i repeat he never forced but the fact he never took her concern too .what he did today is not equal to rape jus taking their marraige to next level but the fact he loves her so much made him forget everything he even didnt know whether she is ready for this or not?but when she refused he was annoyed but didnt force her

see thats what im saying that he might have done a lot of things and he is wrong for that but he did not force her

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

why is he acting like a jerk???

I liked the episode but

Why he shouted infront of family??

Why he wanted to bed her??

Why did he force her to change??

Why he never felt that Khushi was uncomfortable??

Why he never listens to her??

Why he forced her to take the pheras??

These all may be sidelined but it is the dignity of Khushi which is at stake...

Arnav was even ok with a live in, How many will buy the argument that "I love you" but will not give a proper wedding.

I have more questions for ASR.. if traditions don't matter to him, why wont he get his Di divorced from Shyam? Why does he support Di's decisions to hold Poojas and follow traditions?

If traditions don't matter to him why did he take her to the temple to get married, why did he not sign the contract ?

If traditions don't mean a thing to ASR, why did he get Akash legally wed to Payal?

True, when people are in love these rituals don't mean a thing.. but there should be mutual consent.. love does not mean that the guy in love should force the girl to sleep with him... that is not love...

Originally posted by: Didikisaut

See the scene again how she enters the room from bathroom.

She has her back towards the camera i.e Arnav, she is covering herself and he tells her "Ab tum yaha aa rahi ho yaa me waha aao" god if that is not playing with her then what is.

In india duppata is equated to dignity and it shall never be played with.

Dont you remember the scene when she slapped Arnav for holding her dupatta??

They've been married for nearly 6 months now.

Khushi has initiated several hugs. They think of themselves as husband and wife. Its only last coupel of days that Khushi overheard that pheras are important for a marriage - I am not a Hindu - so I don't know if that is true - then I am sure there are different beliefs even in Hindu tradition.

They smile at each other.

He is tender with her.

The next obvious step is what almost happened today.

I am sorry, I don't agree with your view-point.

As a married woman, I feel that Arnav was tender with Khushi, stopeed when she said no - treats her well now.

Its not like they are not married.

I completely disagree with your calling Arnav a jerk.

Originally posted by: ..Kirann..

I agree. He didn't force her but the way he acted felt like he just wants to do it. At times he seemed very desperate 🤣 Don't kill me people!

hey kiran, thats my main point that being desperate and forcing urself on someone are two completely different things. also, equating him to a rapist is just too much

Originally posted by: chillygirl

I live in india and i know what a dupatta means for a girl but why are u forgetting how he draped the dupatta on her himself? he wanted to do it. and i have already mentioned what PLAYING actually constitutes.