I am not at all against the fact that ASR wants to fulfil his physical urges. I'd be worried if he doesn't want to, after being with this lovely woman for 6 months. But my peeve is with the fact that everything he did tonight was for HIM and not considered for HER.
Let me elaborate. He asks her to wear the cloths so that HE can see her in them, not because she feels nice to wear them. She continued to refuse to have a Suhaag Raat but he insisted on it because HE wanted it. She stopped him from going much further because she believed this is not how this step should be taken but HE was angry because she denied HIM. That was the main cause for his anger; HE was stopped from having sex with her. Simple as that.
Now it's natural for him to get angry (especially if he was hard on but I'll stop from going further for PG13 ratings). Yet when he dragged her to the terrace was that anger justifiable? Wasn't it just so he can quickly get the whole going round the fire business done with so that she would relent to him in the bed? It's a quick easy solution, not delve too deeper into what she wants because who cares what she wants as long as he has her by the end of the night right? Did he try to understand where she's coming from? No because at that moment her opinions or decisions didn't matter to him and he was driven singularly to get the woman pacified and come to bed with him.
This fact that he didn't consider her feelings during the whole make believe pheres is what's putting me off. It was HIM, for HIM and about HIM all the way. Right from the start of his proposal of having the SG until the time he forcibly lifted her and took her around the fire, it was all about him. Nope, he didn't take her around the fire for her sanctity. He did it for him so that he can get what he wanted out of her.
As I said in another post it's not wrong to have manly urges but if he cannot control his desires until she consents whole heartedly, he's not a gentleman, hell not even a civilised human. Coupled with the fact that he was extremely selfish and didn't give a dime regarding what Khushi wanted, made me gag at the whole scene.
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