For Arnav-Anjali Bond-Some Answers!! - Page 14

Originally posted by: cutebarun

@payasa

very well said dear... The problem with Anjali is not hate, bt 'insecurity'. Thats d apt portrayal i hav ever seen in a serial... When you feel 'left alone' or 'alienated' bcoz of another person in your friends' or siblings' life you are nt realy angry at the other person. Bt, angry towards yourself n d helplessness of never able to be angry at your dear one...

So far Every reaction frm Anjali is logical... Her cold behaviour towards Kushi is easily understandable. Bt, on d other hand, if Anjali went into a 'hate mode' n tried to Harm Kushi in every possible way, deliberatly, with her own will, not manipulated or trickd by anyone (like we see in other Shows), then no amount of Bro- sis bond, will justify Anjali.

Bt, here... Anjali is shown as a person torn its normal when she doesnt warm up to Kushi easily...

As for 'abortion', i wil say, it was complete emotional n mental break down.. Otherwise a woman like Anjali wont do dat. That was at a point, where she lost all hopes n didnt want another life to b in dat turmoil... Thats equal to a 'suicide'.. Perhaps more than that. Bcoz here, She was going to kill a person, whom she love more than herself n the world.

Originally posted by: reena544

loved ur post. i have always adored this loving bond. ur post is very sensible and showing great positivity which is highly needed these days..

Originally posted by: payasa

@ abby jeran n sree

saw some healthy discussion happened...good..

this post is made seeing the misunderstandings and assumptions regarding anjali's reactions to the whole situation...

the two statements made by abby-jeran-.-they can coexist.

'the bond of relationship is subjected test during the tough times..here anjali needs arnav at this difficult phase of her life. But when she sees him celebrating, what should she is supposed to feel ? happy or sad ? now everything has changed. being a sensible woman she is, now she understands she cant expect that kind of emotional support she is used to have before.so she becoming sad is justified..

The whole story concept from the beginning is based on arnav-anjali-khushi. 'so it is natural that arnav has to be torn between two ladies..

First few months they established arnav-anji bond'. now they established khushi-arnav bond..

Under the circumstances it is not difficult to understand anjali's reactions..it is very clear. Doesnt require any separate hate angle for that. i agree with the fact that she never had issues with chote loving his wife..infact anjali never disliked khushi before'now the situations are different. No one can expect her to come love or like her the way she is to do before. her reactions with khushi is bound to be reserved..if she becomes goody goody with khushi then it is questionable..

Then there is another question'

When she did not have any issue with arshi, then why did she cry with their scenes.?

Why she should not cry ?

The day before itself, such a storm has hit the family. The same family for whom anjali is the apple of the eye, especially for the brother. The same brother is decorating the house with flower carpet for the celebration..and the family is also behaving like they are in some wonderland except mami . it is the toughest phase anjali is going through. Is she wrong in expecting her ever doting brother to be on her side during her tough times ? or she should have felt happy that her brother is not unhappy n forgotten the worst incident..and enjoying with his lovely wife.?

Under the circumstances , how she should have reacted ?

So here the problem is not of anjali.

the problem lies in the treatment of ever doting brother who is lost in wooing his wife.( though wooing a wife is not wrong but the situation didnot support it ). Here the problem lies in the behavior of arnav- khushi'

A sensible viewer will not take an embrassing situation of anjali on one side and on the other hand ,romance of a brother-his annoyed wife under such circumstances who claims to sacrifice their life on the same sister.it didnot go down well with the audience.

for the same reason trp's are down.