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Posted: 13 years ago
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I was contemplating whether to bring this up or not but i finally have the courage to do it to share with everyone of my thought on today episode. Usually, i rave about anything and everything ASR does ... whether it be good or bad, i would always stick by his actions .. but today, i lost it at the end of the episode. i find that ASR is quite selfish in here. Never once did he think of her pain, how much she has to put up with him and his anger, how much she has to force herself out of the place she consider as her new home, or how much she loves his sister and most importantly, how she risked her life to saved him.

I know I'm quite bipolar these days b/c of their roller coaster love story but after what he BLUNTLY ask her 'does the contract meant nothing to you and that's why it's so easy for you?' .. For once, i put myself in Khushi's shoe. I totally agree with her when she asked him 'what marriage' b/c it really was just a deal from the start. Now, not knowing what ASR had told his sister earlier of when he falls in love with her, i would have think that he never love her once .. all those sweet moments are his ways of getting woman to fall in his arm. Everything are just goodies for him (b/c according to him, he didn't love her until they are married). It's so sad that every time they fight or try to clear things up, the contract always get inserted into the conversation/thought BUT if he thinks he can bend things easily by using the contract as an excuse then why can't she use the contract to remind him of what really is the truth - there was no marriage to begin with.

ASR is very selfish today when he tells her that he will reveal the truth to everyone ... not considering how much pain Khushi will have to go through. He's so spoil that he forget about those around him .. the suffer parent has to go through when they find out their daughter is in some marriage contract, the guilt of a spoiler sister and a good sister .. i mean, he already bring her enough shame just by thinking about this .. imagine the news break out to society, how corrupted can her life be now? I don't know about the Indian culture but if a girl spent time with a man like a married couple and thing like this happen, she is deem unclean to the society (where i came from.) I just feel so sorry for Khushi for being helpless today again when he use this .. Before I was all yay for using the contract as the last resort but after today, i find him very very selfish .. just b/c he is ASR, it doesn't mean he has the rights to everything in her life. This certainly look like a deal with the devil in the end .. no wonder she can't consider this a marriage b/c she did went through lots of loose end to filled up her duty as a wife only to find out that she was not consider one when he brought up the marriage to her face (past episode). If I'm Khushi and as stubborn as it sounds or incorrectly as some of you might find -- according to law, a deal is a deal and that is the end of it. Therefore, their marriage is nothing but just a piece of paper stating what conditions need to be reach. Poor khushi, i feel real bad for her today but I'm certainly happy that she stood up for herself and her dignity.

Whether you agree or disagree, I'd love to hear your comments.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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he is abso selfish hate him at the moment
Abommi thumbnail
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Na na..he is nt selfish re...

he struggling to get her back but he goes in business mentality but its ri8 n nice one...let her realize his luv ...

anyway upcmin there will be surprise given by ARHI to anjali hope Anjali make them feel there true luv :)

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree. After he blackmailed her yet once again I was like how selfish can this man get? Not even once did he think how she feels. What are her reasons for leaving. Why does she not wanna come back with him. What pain is she going through. All he can see is he needs her so she needs to come back. He used her family as a weapon to blackmail her. He knows she won't let them break down. The bottom line is he's taking advantage of her selfless love for his own selfish reasons! IN all this my heart goes out to Khushi who has to go through all this bullshit for no fault of hers!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I disagree, respectfully.
Arnav is a man of few words. A man who holds many fears.
First when he forced khushi marry her, he feared his sisters breakdown. He felt helpless. And so, he forced the marriage.
Now he fears losing khushi. He feels helpless. He forces her. Deals with it ASR way. This is the chracter, Arnav Singh Raizada. This is what the whole 'iss pyaar ko kia naam doin' is about.
Posted: 13 years ago
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he is not selfish bt since Khushi wont cum if he straightaway says her ILU, so he has to use his asr-ish style to get her back...
We dont c it since he is hiding bt ASR is actually hurt, n at dis point of tym he is even in a worse condition dan Khushi cuz he hs 2 balance everything widout even sharing it wid anyone!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Yaa seeing ASR reminds me of nani dialouge after wedding that you are like your father, hope he sees himself in the mirror.
Posted: 13 years ago
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Your post shows that you never ever understood ASR's character
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Posted: 13 years ago
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even i like to say his first luv is kushi

bcz he even didnt luv his sis this much (ex: when his childhood bday anjali made a surprise wish bt he didnt accept it) asr luv anjali when she is upset...

But ASR character is like loving kushi alottt...

its a love nt selfiness re...

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Posted: 13 years ago
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no..he is not selfish..he knew what he wants and what kushi wants..since last 3 days everybody are bashing arnav being so mean to kushi..but today though he is in ASR mode and being mean to her it certainly showed that how much he needed kushi in his life, how desperate he is to get her back AND when he said forget about what happens after 10 day it shows how determined he is to make everything right..and sure there will be remarriage..she will be the one happiest wife..

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