For all my fellow HDians... - note pg.7 - Page 6

Thanks for this post apoorva..I hope this time it works. I just wanted to clear some false accusations which were made by a member a few days back due to which I can't concentrate in my college and I had also cried due to those false accusations. It's just that I don't show it off not even to my friends.

This is for those people who had targeted me and I just want to clarify. I could have PMed that person but the person had made these false accusations in this open forum so,i was left with no choice but to post here.

1. I am so rude : I am never rude to anyone. I never talked rudely to anyone in this entire forum. This can be asked to any member. I never take part in bashing posts too.

2. I try to create wedge between forum members : if I wanted to create a wedge between forum members I would have always stepped in every Sumit bashing topic, every indira bashing topic n would have fought. I never provocate people by liking objectionable comments nor try to be a peace messenger after disturbing peace.Also, it is very easy for me to create wedge if I wanted I just have to take the names of the people who opened posts to bash Sumit in HD forum, called Sumit feminine and had asked permission to do so calling that freedom of speech n choice due to which first war had started. Mods are witnesses..I also know what goes on outside the forum..Rishi toh chodo SUmit is always bashed.He is called pukeworthy,monkey. If I/we would have wanted we would have brought all these outside forum issues in forum long back..but still even knowing all this we talk to them.

3. I am not neutral to Rati fans : If I am not neutral to Rati fans I would have never complimented yukti,radha for their creations, nabi for her AVIs. Wouldn't have been good with nikhi..nikhi is a very good friend of mine even though she is a die-hard Rati fan. I would have never made a siggie for Surbhi's birthday. I don't think these all say being a die-hard Sumit fan makes me anti-rati fans.

4. I do groupism : groups are already formed..i do not need to do anything..and I never use ratians, sumitians words which say I do groupism.

5. I come in groups to attack others : I don't come in groups but the thing is my friends n I have similar thinking. That's why we end up posting in the same post. as simple as that.

I have talked about Sumit bashing only. Because I myself don't remember how many times Rishi is bashed. So, better not to talk about character bashing.

Advice to everyone especially new members in this forum : When we say bad things about others or other's favorites we should be ready to take it back also..not everyone keeps quiet..and If we abuse others and the person in front of us gives back our own medicine n we get hurt then its our fault. Not that person's.

One more thing we should start from ourselves, so, if anyone feels only I am always targeted n all better to do self analysis first.No one should tell anyone what to post what not. If its inappropriate mods will lock that post themselves. And moreover if we ourselves don't like others telling us to do this n that even if we bash the actor, then we should not tell others what to post what not. We ourselves have to be the change we wanna see..

Never pass sarcastic comments..This is a very important thing. This only starts fights.

I just wanted to clear these things apoorva because many would have misunderstood me due these false accusations n I didn't want that. Thank you for this post. Through your post I could clear these things.

P.S. : Intention of my comment in not to target anyone but to just clear some things n answer some questions. The names which are taken in this post are not to target them but just to tell the truth. Please don't misunderstand. Please don't quote. I have given enough clarifications for everything. I don't owe anymore explanations to anyone. I cleared these things for the sake of new members.