For all my fellow HDians... - note pg.7

Hitler Didi Forum-The place which gave me the freedom to express myself,the place which made me realise that i too have a voice,the place which gave me the strength to stand firm for
what i felt right,the place which has made me considerate to the views of others,the place which has taught me to be humble enough to accept that i am wrong when i have erred and the place which has introduced me to some of the most b'ful beings in the world..Am not exaggerating when i say this.All these are the gifts of this forum to me..😃


Just like how evrytn has got its darker side,i too was exposed to the other side of this forum-the fights,the tussles,the bashings,the hurtings...The list would go on even if we dont want it to!!!.
I have not been that old a member of this forum compared to many others who are here right from the early days of HD ."Did you all ever think that one day this forum of our

@apoorva...excellent post dear 👏
Really loved d way u expressed wat u feel! 😊 and u r 100% absolutely right!! 👍🏼
I completely feel dat now v all need to b one and work together!!

I would just like to say before bashing anybody...put ur self in dat persons place and look at d situation from thier perspective...and den u will understand d other!!

Guys d love u have for an actor does not increase by trashing other actors...it increases by supporting d actor u love no matter wat others tink of them...never point a finger at another, as four fingers will point bak to u.guys by trashing u r not showing ur love for d actor but showing d weakness dat u don't hav confidence in d actor u love!!

Never let anger take control of u...but u should have control over it...anger does not create it nly destroys!!

As I always say...work as one , tink as one and b one!!

just my opinion not to hurt anybody!

Appu thank u for dis post 👍🏼

Originally posted by: aadk

Hitler Didi Forum-The place which gave me the freedom to express myself,the place which made me realise that i too have a voice,the place which gave me the strength to stand firm for
what i felt right,the place which has made me considerate to the views of others,the place which has thought me to be humble enough to accept that i am wrong when i have erred and the place which has introduced me to some of the most b'ful beings in the world..Am not exaggerating when i say this.All these are the gifts of this forum to me..😃


Just like how evrytn has got its darker side,i too was exposed to the other side of this forum-the fights,the tussles,the bashings,the hurtings...The list would go on even if we dont want it to!!!.
I have not been that old a member of this forum compared to many others who are here right from the early days of HD ."Did you all ever think that one day this forum of ours would be in the condition where it is today?".I would want a sincere reply from all of you.The answer would most definitely be a big "NO".Then why did this all happen??".When we consider places like forums which are visited by so many many people everyday,there ought to be differences in opinions.That has to happen!!.But when does this freedom of expression turn harmful for u,me and everyone??This happens only when we cross the line between standing firm on our views and mocking /bashing others' views..The line is infact a very faint one!!!.In the process of defending ourselves,we many a tyms unknowingly cross that line and then our ego takes control of the situation and it is this ego of ours which stops us from getting back to our original places.Why does our ego hold us back from asking forgiveness from someone whom we have hurt with or without our knowledge??"Love " is a b'ful four letterd word and the most b'ful ffive letterd word is "sorry"..But its just that we dont want to use this five letterd word as we believe it to be a blow over our ego!!We dont become big or small when we ask for someone' forgiveness.we just and just become more humane...We need to just try this to all whom we have hurt and belive me we wud get b'ful responses back because everyone of us has got a child in us who is innocent enough to not shy away from saying 'sorry',who has a heart big enough to forgive and who has a desire large enough to love and get loved back...Then why not all of us awaken that child in us!!! Please do try and believe me we would be the most happiest ones by doing so!!!😛
Friends,one more very important thing that i would like to share through this post is that an actor and the character that he portrays are two verry verry differet things.When a character portrayed by our favourite actor/actress does something good,we would never tire praising the character and we are not wrong when we do so..But why not the other way??When the same character ends up doing something wrong,why dont we accept that the character is indeed wrong???But no,our ability to judge just and just diminishes and by hook or crook we try to justify the character,no matter whether in the process we end up hurting so many of our fellow beings!!!!! We dont become any less fans of our favourite actor/actress when we criticise the character portrayed by him/her.Why do we behave so insensibly just because we adore some actor/actress??Lets have the dignity and strength to always choose right over wrong!!!!
There have been many peace posts made by many of my forum members ..We realise the bad condition of our forum when we read such posts and then the next day we are back to our old selves...
Friends,lets pledge to change ourselves for the better before we wish to see the change in someone else!!!!😛
I wud like to end up this post by the words of Mahathma Gandhiji- "Be the change you want to see in the world!!"😛

Hi Appu. Wow nice thoughts. Hope everyone will understand what u want to say and think about it at least for a minute.

Great post Apoorva 👏 👏

Originally posted by: shona90

Great post Apoorva 👏👏

I agree with you... This is our forum, we love this place, having conversations, talks, discussions of our fav actors/actresses...!!!

I agree ther is freedom of speech and everyone here can express ther feelings...

But most important thing is respecting each other's views... When u wanna make ur point or view plzz do it but also make sure other's feelings are not hurt..!!

Thats true our actors portrays the characters in the show, and we love them for the role they play.. Ever character has many shades and the story revolve and we have our opinions accordingly..

Some like it and some does not.. And both may be right from ther pov... so wen discussing or putting ur views one has to b careful it doesn't hurt anyone's feelings..!!

I knw many get so attached to the characters so better keeping that point in mind and making ur comments or views i am sure one will surely understand ur intentions and take it in a good spirit..!!

And i believe more than ego, its the love for the actor/character..and i don wanna blame anyone, everyone has ther own views... also we should really do respect one for that and don hurt anyone...!!!

I guess it's high time, when HD as a one whole big family unite and be friendly.. And I am sure that day will come soon😛

Shona very well said 👏 👏
As u said its time v all unite!! 😊

Koi aur is topic pe reply nahin karega kiya??😕

Originally posted by: shiin

@apoorva...excellent post dear 👏
Really loved d way u expressed wat u feel! 😊 and u r 100% absolutely right!! 👍🏼
I completely feel dat now v all need to b one and work together!!

I would just like to say before bashing anybody...put ur self in dat persons place and look at d situation from thier perspective...and den u will understand d other!!

Guys d love u have for an actor does not increase by trashing other actors...it increases by supporting d actor u love no matter wat others tink of them...never point a finger at another, as four fingers will point bak to u.guys by trashing u r not showing ur love for d actor but showing d weakness dat u don't hav confidence in d actor u love!!

Never let anger take control of u...but u should have control over it...anger does not create it nly destroys!!

As I always say...work as one , tink as one and b one!!

just my opinion not to hurt anybody!

Appu thank u for dis post 👍🏼

verryy well said clara...👏
@bold we all shud defntly try to be so!!!

Originally posted by: Warz-Barun-Rati

Apporva, Great Post!👍🏼 u wrote everything perfectly! i totally agree...🤗

@Bold Pink I Strongly agree with this one! u know this happened to me. In Feb or Jan 2012 i opened a topic saying Rishi did this wrong, he should not have done that...i was So angry that i said Indira should slap him...Many Rati Fans agreed to me.. BUT when i opnend a topic about Indira being wrong...everyone was against me...this is the thing we should try to understand that main leads do make mistakes..they are also humans...they are not perfect. we all make mistakes so that Rishi n indira did.😊

I forgave everyone...about that incident...n hoping they already forgave me too...😳

hey wardaah!!!Yes its very much necessary that we be more open minded and accept both the good as well as the bad aspects of a character with the same spirit rather than being biased to a particular charctr...what are we trying to prove by being biased??? our love for an actor/actress?? den dis is definitely not the way to go...
i sincerely hope that everyone realises this verry soon...
And am happy that you forgave whoever hurt you and am sure they too wud have..👍🏼😛
😃

Originally posted by: dhanya.r

Hi Appu. Wow nice thoughts. Hope everyone will understand what u want to say and think about it at least for a minute.

Thnx dhanya di!!!!!
"Hopes are the ropes for the future"...
so just hoping that everything wud be fyn one day!!!😛
Its enough if we think of it just for a minute bcs we verry well know where we are erring ,but it just needs a bit of strength to accept tht we are wrong and correct tht for the good of ourselves n our fellow beings!!!😛