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aadk

@aadk

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: shona90
Great post Apoorva 👏 👏

I agree with you... This is our forum, we love this place, having conversations, talks, discussions of our fav actors/actresses...!!!

I agree ther is freedom of speech and everyone here can express ther feelings...
But most important thing is respecting each other's views... When u wanna make ur point or view plzz do it but also make sure other's feelings are not hurt..!!

Thats true our actors portrays the characters in the show, and we love them for the role they play.. Ever character has many shades and the story revolve and we have our opinions accordingly..
Some like it and some does not.. And both may be right from ther pov... so wen discussing or putting ur views one has to b careful it doesn't hurt anyone's feelings..!!

I knw many get so attached to the characters so better keeping that point in mind and making ur comments or views i am sure one will surely understand ur intentions and take it in a good spirit..!!

And i believe more than ego, its the love for the actor/character..and i don wanna blame anyone, everyone has ther own views... also we should really do respect one for that and don hurt anyone...!!!

I guess it's high time, when HD as a one whole big family unite and be friendly.. And I am sure that day will come soon 😛

@ pink Yes shona, u r ryt!!!
But the attachment to any charctr must not be so much that it deprive us frm thinking what is ryt and what is wrong...it then only means dt we r just too much obsessd with the chrctr... i think we need to judge a character for what it is rather than for the person who is playing tht chrctr and dn am sure no one wud be hurt when someone criticises a chrctr for the benefit of it...😃

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Yukti

@Yukti22

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: aadk

hey wardaah!!!Yes its very much necessary that we be more open minded and accept both the good as well as the bad aspects of a character with the same spirit rather than being biased to a particular charctr...what are we trying to prove by being biased??? our love for an actor/actress?? den dis is definitely not the way to go...
i sincerely hope that everyone realises this verry soon...
And am happy that you forgave whoever hurt you and am sure they too wud have..👍🏼😛
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aadk you have been very nice to all fans of Rati...and I myself is a big fan of your POVs.😊..Hope your post doesn't turn into an attack thread on Ratians...Many a time Indira bashing topics were created in the name of critisism and surely rules were broken and moderation was highly inactive. even in the name of critisizm, Indira was compared with Silk of The dirty picture, innumerable times slangs were used for Ratians as well as for Indira, she was called characterless even which is itself a major bashing/abusive. Do you think we should support all this? Fine the character is wrong...Who is not? Which character is born flawless? No one...I have been repeating it several times that both Indira Rishi have flaws in their characters.then why always one character is critisized? I remember I made 2 or 3 posts critiszing Rishi but never used slang against him..I also wanted to hear what Rishi fans have to say in this..but no one bothered to reply except u in one of my posts. Then why others except the same from us? Surely I have a lot more affection towards Indira and I always understand her point of view. and the most important thing I'd like to say most of the InShians never come to say in defense of Indira. if we have to maintain peace, then why not compromise from both sides? Why not reduce this distance by praising and highlighting the good deeds of both characters? If the episode is boring, topics can be made of what was the only interesting part ? instead of creating negative topics why not create positive ones? Instead of coming out with predictions which generally leads to bashing of characters, why not enjoy the present and leave the rest for future? Waise bhi HD is always unpredictable..😆
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Edited by -Yukti- - 13 years ago

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-Clara-

@-Clara-

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#13

@yukti...I agree to wat u hav said! 😊 its been only one month since I hav joined...and from Wen I joined I hav seen lot of negativity in dis forum!

V all want to c positive changes in dis forum...so let's all work towards it!I'm not saying dat v should keep quite Wen others r bashing our favourite actor...v can always answer bak in a sweet way!

Trust me Wen v act positive d Person who spreads negativity will get fedup and and will not continue bashing!
I love HD and both d actors very much...Dey r d best!! 😊

If v a small group in dis forum work towards spreading positivity , v will achieve it soon!! Wether v r supported b others r not should not bother us!!

As Dey say a few drops of water create a mighty ocean!! 😉

V all can alwaz take d g first step!! 😃

just like Dey say...good wins over evil...d same way I strongly believe dat positivity will win over negativity!!

Let's all work as one!! 😃

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Yukti

@Yukti22

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Ok Shiin...I am in for this..Thank you so much for understanding my pov...and encouraging all fellow HDians for the betterment of this forum..

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aadk

@aadk

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: -Yukti-

Yukti i wud never want this post to turn into an attack thread on Ratians or Sumitians bcs ds post was made for the forum as a whole and not for any group as such...😛
@bold I AGREE that there is a huge difference when we criticise a character for the benefit of it and when we criticise just for the purpose of criticising!!!!.And i know that such behavior really infuriates the ones who truly love a particular chrctr and it really bcms difficult for the person to just keep quiet and not retaliate...We need to learn to respect evry charctr first !!!! When we are expressing anytn in a public place lyk ds we need to be careful to keep in mind the feelings of our fellow beings and also at d same tym express our views...
@orange i think even the ones who have love rishi have criticised him the day he was drunk with munna...We need to be more open lyk this !!
@pink Its just dt many dont comment many a tyms so as to avoid the outcomes followin dt...But i thnk there is ntng wrong in making ur point without hurting anyone and its necessary for the other group also to respond in the true spirit!!! we need to hear what evry1 has got to say n dn be humble enough to accept their views it they are ryt...dn am sure evrytn wil be alryt!!!😛
yes its necessary dt both the sides(its saddening to mention tht the forum is divided into sides n groups)respect each other as ntng can happen by only one side,may it be fights or compromises!!!!!😉

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-Clara-

@-Clara-

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 13 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: -Yukti-
Ok Shiin...I am in for this..Thank you so much for understanding my pov...and encouraging all fellow HDians for the betterment of this forum..

Dats d spirit yukti...don't worry v all will work as one! 😃
V will not let negativity spread...v will suppress negativity with our positivity! 👍🏼

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aadk

@aadk

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: -Yukti-
Ok Shiin...I am in for this..Thank you so much for understanding my pov...and encouraging all fellow HDians for the betterment of this forum..

👏👍🏼👏

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surbhi tyagi

@EtherealRati

Trailblazer

+ 5

Posted: 13 years ago

#18

I will write here for sure . I was thinking of pouring my heart somewhere . Right now i will say we dont examples of what has happened . We need grouping .i dont this post to be forgotten in two or three days .