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Agree with Sam. I think we will get mostly more light moments today, with the big showdowns left for Wed. and the aftermath for the rest of the week. Question is, what kind of aftermath?
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CVs, please hurry up and get this Arpita ka jagah, creepy birthday disguised as a fairy party over soon please, because I cringe watching Yash romance the Arpita in his mind, especially since I am now positive that all his "memories" are not even what really happened, but just his grief induced version. It's just getting yucky now, that way Yash is imaging Arpita when Aarti is in front of him. I don't mind him remembering her, but I don't like him getting the too mixed up in reality.🤢
As for Aarti's plan, I see only two real problems with it. 1) the lie to Palak. That was obviously wrong, and I think they made it quite clear by Palak's reaction to Aarti, that Aarti coming dressed as her mother made absolutely no impression. She is expecting to see the same mother that she sees in the pictures, not her new mother pretending to be the old mother. 2) Aarti should have left Arpita's stuff alone. She could have very easily got a new saree that looked like Arpita's, if she was intent on going with this stupid dress up plan, but those weren't her things to touch, period.
Other than these two problems, Aarti has really done nothing wrong. Trying to do things the way that Arpita did them is not really a bad thing, because it will show the entire family that they can continue to do these things and be happy, as well as dwell on the happy memories associated with them. The whole thing with the fudge, to me at least is a little weird. Did Arpita have a corner on her special fudge recipe? It is quite clear that Prateek knew how to make the fudge, else he would not have been able to direct Aarti how to do it. Also, Aarti was never told by Yash not to do things like Arpita to make Palak happy, so if he yells at her for any of those things, that is just his stupid thinking. I am sure that he will yell at her for the lie and the dressing up, which he should, but I do hope it isn't as painful to watch as I imagine it will end up being.
Because the episode had a sort of creepy, ghost story type feel to it (intentionally done by the CVs I believe) I don't really feel up to trying to analyze anything in particular, but since we have yet to see Palak give an outburst for not getting her promised present, I would like to talk a little bit about this. Yesterday a question occurred to me about Palak, and that is, why exactly does she want her mother back? What I mean is, what exactly makes getting her mother back the best gift? Before the party celebrations and her real bonding with Aarti, I would have said that she wants "her" mother back, because she thinks that only "her" mother can be her mother. However, now I am not so sure that is why she wants Arpita back, even if that would be what she articulated when asked.
Regardless of how old Palak was when Arpita died, she was only two or three max, which means at six or seven, six going by the CVs, she really could not have clear memories of Arpita, even if she does remember some things. Because she only had two or three years with her mother when she was a baby and toddler, all of her conscious relationship with Arpita has happened through the other family members, especially Yash. What kind of relationship with Arpita has Yash given the girls, particularly Palak? "Oh my poor betiyon, you've lost the best mother in the world. Oh, Arpita, come back and help me take care of the girls. I can't do it without you. Oh, Arpita, we lost you on this day, and our daughter is so unhappy. She's waiting for you to come back, won't you come back Arpita? No one can ever take your place, Arpita!"
I highly doubt that Palak has ever seen Yash remember or talk about Arpita in a way that doesn't clearly spell out his grief. What kind of loving daughter would she be, if she didn't want that grief to go away, and I am sure that in her mind, that grief will only go away if her mother returns. Yes, Palak missed her mother, or rather missed having a mother, but I have a feeling that that is a bit secondary to the pain she has felt over the years when she saw how much Yash was missing her mother. Once this whole scenario of Aarti's crazy plan is over, if someone where to ask Palak why she wanted her mother back as her gift (and I'm not saying they will ask, just if they did) I could imagine that her answer would be, "I wanted Papa to stop being sad and missing Mummy, so that we could all be happy again and celebrate my birthday together." This probably wouldn't happen, but I hope that something happens, so that Yash realizes that his girls can't be truly happy unless he lets go of his obsessive grief over Arpita, and I also hope that Yash is the one who explains to an angry Palak that her mother can't come back to them, but not to be mad at her new mother because she was only trying to give her the same love and care that Arpita would give if she was there. Also, I want him to explain that Arpita would be happy if Palak would accept the love from Aarti as if it is from Arpita.
Who knows what the CVs have planned, since they very cleverly gave no precap, I just hope what ever tamasha is going to go down, that is doesn't ruin Palak's fairy party, which looked pretty cool. Gosh, how will we get through this week?
Edited by laxmi2010 - 13 years ago