A Girl Should Never Marry Her Rapist

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Posted: 13 years ago
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First of all...i am not at all saying it on the basis because i will not like to see sameer mandira together...i am here to talk in general...so please maintain peace and decorum ...

When a rapist offers to marry the victim, one would think it's the perfect solution. But isn't this victimization of the victim all over again?

The girl has already been wronged once. And to add to the misery, her predator neatly escapes the consequences of the crime by simply marrying the girl. You never know if this practice catches on, rapists might resort to such techniques on any girl he fancies. Ya easy method right...if u like to marry a girl...and she don't agrees...just rape her...and u will be made to marry her ...will that be right in any way ??????...can it be justified ??????...

for me atleast... A woman should never marry her rapist. Rape is a big trauma and the victim requires intensive therapy to get out of it. Some people get married because of their insecurity and the stigma that no one will marry them. But Will the girl ever be able to forgive her rapist ???...as we saw...mandira got the biggest shock...was so scared...will that scare leave her after marriage ?????...isn't it will be one more punishment for her ?????...and Moreover. Someone who can commit such a heinous crime has something incorrect in his character ). How can a woman who has been targeted leaved to such a person ......It could lead to more violence. I am totally against this idea.

Common Guys...dint we noticed today...The after marks of the incident that are so deeply etched in the girl's mind never let her get over the trauma. So how can she be handed over to the rapist only ????? Will her soul ever rest ????...will she ever be happy??????...forgetting rape isn't an easy thing...didn't we see the girl condition ...do u seriously think ...that mandira and sameer should get married ?????
just for the sake of society...a girl should forget what she went through and the person who commits crime din't even get the punishment . 😭

An unmarried woman losing her virginity is seen as bringing dishonor to her whole family...but tell me just one thing...is rape her mistake ?????...so why punishment for her ?????
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Posted: 13 years ago
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One hundred percent second you...

its not a solution..rather a compromise of sort..which shouldnt be encouraged...

and might i add...goes against everything Indira stands for...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: rahmat_123

One hundred percent second you...


its not a solution..rather a compromise of sort..which shouldnt be encouraged...

and might i add...goes against everything Indira stands for...

ya i am sure...indira will never push her sister into the well herself...she will never let sameer marry mandira...sshe will understand her sister pain and will help her to come out of it giving her a loving and caring environment...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Surbhi generally whatever you said is true...

But I want to share my POV on sameer and mandira...
from starting mandira want to marry sameer at any cost, she even blackmailed him with the indecent pics and ready to blame and tell everyone that sameer raped her...

i am not supporting sameer here, but now after what CVs has showed today and if marriage proposal comes to mandira from sameer will she reject or will she accept because this is what she wants...

still CVs didnot show that mandira character has changed... yes she cried because of what happened today but my question is her greediness for money vanished?
if she is still greedy to become diwan bahu then not only Indira no one can stop her from marrying the rapist...

I hope i am not diverting from the topic you wrote...😆

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: preethi_m18

Surbhi generally whatever you said is true...


But I want to share my POV on sameer and mandira...
from starting mandira want to marry sameer at any cost, she even blackmailed him with the indecent pics and ready to blame and tell everyone that sameer raped her...

i am not supporting sameer here, but now after what CVs has showed today and if marriage proposal comes to mandira from sameer will she reject or will she accept because this is what she wants...

still CVs didnot show that mandira character has changed... yes she cried because of what happened today but my question is her greediness for money vanished?
if she is still greedy to become diwan bahu then not only Indira no one can stop her from marrying the rapist...

I hope i am not diverting from the topic you wrote...😆

preethi ...i saw discussions happening ki ab to rape hua hain...indira should make sameer marry mandira...
my post is in general...that a girl who got raped should not be married to the rapist...and i strongly oppose this idea of getting married to the rapist...its not about what mandira is...and how she will be or what sameer is...my post is more about general ...
wait i will make some changes whichwill make you understand my post more clearly...😊
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Posted: 13 years ago
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and one more thing preethi...if rape happened than it's a big thing...it has the power to change mandira in and out...i know u understand what i am saying...a rape is horrible...
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Posted: 13 years ago
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totally agree I think that CVS have to deal with this track very careful.
I want him to get a punishment that he deserves by law.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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I really wish the CV's never had Sameer rape Mandira😡. If they wanna keep the Sameer character on the show, then they might go through w/Mandira marrying Sameer. I remember someone on the forum saying days ago that there is indication that Mandira will end up being the first bahu of the Diwan family. Raping Mandira was a cruel, disgusting act of Sameer & I really hope he eventually regrets all the crap he's done to Rishi, Indu, & Mandira. Of course, this will only happen if the CV's give him more of a conscience & him having more a conscience probably won't happen anytime soon. Don't get me wrong, I feel he deserves punishment but there have been people out there who have committed rape but then they deeply regret it afterwards & don't do it again & some of these people do end up developing feelings for whoever they raped. Ok I know what I am saying sounds kinda twisted but it's not like this has never happened in real life. Maybe Sameer will be in jail for sometime but the CV's may have him come back later & hopefully he won't come back as a cruel man but instead a guy who has learnt his lesson & after he comes back he won't be hell bent on being with Indu & he will actually do a good deed for a change. I don't know what the good deed will be. Will he eventually develop serious, romantic feelings for Mandira at some point on the show- this is a question. The CV's have freaked us out enough w/the Sameer character. If they wanna keep Sameer on the show, I really don't know how they are gonna go about doin' this after the raping incident. I am smelling controversy. Let's see what happens. I really need to get off the computer now. I hope noone throws chappals at me for this post but I understand how Surbhi feels. This is part 1 of my thoughts on this topic. I will post another reply underneath this topic later.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Surbhi123

and one more thing preethi...if rape happened than it's a big thing...it has the power to change mandira in and out...i know u understand what i am saying...a rape is horrible...


yes dear it is horrible thing... i donot know what effect it will show on mandira

but in general i really want to kill the person who commits such thing... i heard alot of cases and openly people talking "bechari now what will happen to the girl future yaar .. her life is spoiled this and that..."
god what have the girl done here to deserve such a sympathy when the guy who done the deed is roaming happily...

marry the animal like the guy is the worst punishment given to the girl... donot show sympath to the girl but punish the guy who did this send him to jail and make him rotten in hell but donot give him enjoyment to marry the girl and punish her for her life time...

Surbhi hope this time i am on track sharing my views 😊


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Posted: 13 years ago
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i hope we dont see a rishi-mandira wedding out of all this. 😕

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