Manyata's love or obsession for Akash ?

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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Posted: 13 years ago

"Love is a relationship of caring and giving. Obsession is a display of power. Love is submergence of ego, while obsession involves display of ego. Confusing obsession with love is like drinking poison when one wants to have milk."

This was my FB status I had put up last week and after watching today's episode this is exactly what I felt for Moniya's love for Akash which looks more like obsession to me 😊..

Moniya is simply obsessed with the thought of being in love with Akash .Till Akash came to meet her ,she did bhookh-hartal, maun-wrath and even went to the extreme of showing disrespect to DS ...But the minute her Zid was fulfilled and she saw Akash in the Rajmahal today,she forgot everything and was over the moon just because DS and Uday had to bend down in front of her Zid and she got the upperhand ...

Moniya is yet to know the true definition of love ..For her being in love with someone is equal to an achievement of power and display of ego which she did today when Akash came to meet her in Rajmahal ...All of a sudden she forgot how rudely she behaved with DS last night and dint even had the courtesy to go and say one small thanks and sorry to DS after seeing Akash in the Rajmahal ..Love is never this selfish where u forget these small basic manners and gestures towards your elders ...This is obsession because only obsession makes a person look so selfish and self-centered which at present we all r seeing in the form of Moniya 😊

On the other hand even though Uday felt betrayed and humiliated initially by DS's decision ,but he never went and spoke rudely to DS or did any sort of emotional blackmailing to DS ..All he did was repeatedly kept asking DS the reason behind her decision and when DS finally spoke up ,he realised DS's POV and showed full respect to it and today we saw he is even following DS's orders without any further queries 👍🏼..This is where I find Uday's love for Manyata more genuine and not really an obsession because he has not lost his senses despite being in love ..he still knows how to show respect for his elders ...he does not mind letting go off his ego for a while in front of both Manyata and Akash for the larger interest of Manyata's future ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️...

So what I saw today between Manyata and Akash cannot be termed as love but just being obsessed with the thought of "We r in love and noone can separate us "😆😊...

Edited by jyoti06 - 13 years ago

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Posted: 13 years ago

i just simply lovvvee ur posts...👏👏👏👏👏. u make us think positive alwayz... really love u jyoti... 🤗

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ForeverForU

@ForeverForU

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Posted: 13 years ago

so true Jyo!!!!
she is simply obsessed with the thought of being in love...little girls I tell u...they usually get confused at that age😆
hopefully she will realize her mistake after the makeover😉

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nizza

@lakshyasss

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Posted: 13 years ago

true its just obsession not love...it was clear today...chipkoo pana

great post jyoti

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arryline

@arryline

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Posted: 13 years ago

Awesome Jyo⭐️

Moniya is obsessed and infactuated with Akash.He was the first person who sympatised and made her feel special and this makes her feel love.But then this is were she's wrong and she'll understand this in the long run.Akash today proved that he can never love Manyata he was somewhere insecure that Manyata is changing.UV was at his best today calm and composed and analysed the situation and played well along with DS.He'll surely make M the true meaning of love and she too will make him understand😳

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arryline

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Posted: 13 years ago

Originally posted by: kasturika_kashu
i just simply lovvvee ur posts...👏. u make us think positive alwayz... really love u jyoti... 🤗

She's the "Positive Queen"of the forum⭐️.In the worst of the worst episodes she has words filled with positivity😊

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Ahoy!

@ScoopTroop

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Posted: 13 years ago

Feels so great to see a positive Jyo back among us🤗 Great post!!👍🏼

Manyata's definitely not in love.. She's infactuated towards Akash, and like you said, she's obssessed with this thought and definition of love... Once she realises the true meaning of love, her blind-fold will be removed at once, and then she has to make a real tough choice

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swan20

@swan20

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Posted: 13 years ago

Bingo Jyo...👍🏼 I always thought that Moniya was in love with the idea of being IN love than actually feeling the emotion for Akash. There is absolutely no depth to what she feels for Akash. He was the first man in her life who made her feel special and she fell for it. And now she's become obsessed with this idea of love she has in her mind. I hope this 3 months of training not only grooms her to behave like a princess but also helps in developing some maturity. Right now she's just a stubborn child not willing to give up her favorite toy...🤔

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tannvi

@Badtameez_Dil

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Posted: 13 years ago

jyoti wowww i'm simply blown over by ur post today👏
110% AGREE WITH U ON EVERY WORD U SAID
she totally obsessed with the word i'm in love without realising what real love even means..the way she doing pyaar ka PDA roaming all around in the house was just diagusting...
i was keep changing my channel than come to watch a scene b/w...it was just absolute non-sense going around in whole episode...

only worth scene to watch was 1) UV gulped down his ego & hurt he was suffering from inside which was reflecting in his eyes...but still with most dignified way a true prince he said every thing to akash...just bcoz they had bigger things in hand to fulfill...that what really happens sometimes for larger interest in life we need get down with to make our things full-fill...

2) was when UV said everything to akash was M's smile she gave to UV..it was reflecting in that smile...i really don't know how to explain that :( but something more a feeling was reflecting which unable to tell in words...like yeh usko apna dushman toh nahi samjhti...apna dost...friend more than friends...that smile had some feeling to it...

3) M's make-over changing to dignfied princess is something akash is not going to digest..now it is more sure after what he said to M ..he will be unable to give a connect to M...he simply doesn't want she changes to princess...there r already seeing complication coming up in b/w them...where M was f9 with changes as she promised & he wasn't...

i totally loveddd this piece of ur post👏

On the other hand even though Uday felt betrayed and humiliated initially by DS's decision ,but he never went and spoke rudely to DS or did any sort of emotional blackmailing to DS ..All he did was repeatedly kept asking DS the reason behind her decision and when DS finally spoke up ,he realised DS's POV and showed full respect to it and today we saw he is even following DS's orders without any further queries 👍🏼..This is where I find Uday's love for Manyata more genuine and not really an obsession because he has not lost his senses despite being in love ..he still knows how to show respect for his elders ...he does not mind letting go off his ego for a while in front of both Manyata and Akash for the larger interest of Manyata's future ⭐️...

Edited by loving_bird - 13 years ago