Manyata's love or obsession for Akash ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: nasghar

ur right, manyata has an obsession for akash cuz the moment she saw him, she forget her maun-varat.. n started to yell AKASH! n when DS and uday spoke nicely to akash, she said sorry to DS n smiled to uday .. i mean, one minute she's mad at them for humiliating akash n the next minute she's fine with them when they start acting nice with akash.. lol she's seriously confused in his love.. but i wont say this is love, definitely an obsession like u said..

Originally posted by: jyoti06

"Love is a relationship of caring and giving. Obsession is a display of power. Love is submergence of ego, while obsession involves display of ego. Confusing obsession with love is like drinking poison when one wants to have milk."

This was my FB status I had put up last week and after watching today's episode this is exactly what I felt for Moniya's love for Akash which looks more like obsession to me 😊..

Nice lines Jyo...

Moniya is simply obsessed with the thought of being in love with Akash .Till Akash came to meet her ,she did bhookh-hartal, maun-wrath and even went to the extreme of showing disrespect to DS ...But the minute her Zid was fulfilled and she saw Akash in the Rajmahal today,she forgot everything and was over the moon just because DS and Uday had to bend down in front of her Zid and she got the upperhand ...
yeah i agree jyo but when a girl meets her boyfriend or lover after some days, precisely saying after he goes to jail and all, should a girl not feel happy and do like manyata did..?

Moniya is yet to know the true definition of love ..For her being in love with someone is equal to an achievement of power and display of ego which she did today when Akash came to meet her in Rajmahal ...All of a sudden she forgot how rudely she behaved with DS last night and dint even had the courtesy to go and say one small thanks and sorry to DS after seeing Akash in the Rajmahal ..Love is never this selfish where u forget these small basic manners and gestures towards your elders ...This is obsession because only obsession makes a person look so selfish and self-centered which at present we all r seeing in the form of Moniya 😊
She should do that but after all she is a young girl and behaves like one who will be more happy seeing his lover in front of her than thinking about all this formalities...Just my pov.. agree that she is acting selfish but who is not Jyo at this young age..everyone wants their own happiness and i think that's what manyata will get to learn after becoming princess how to live and think about others...

On the other hand even though Uday felt betrayed and humiliated initially by DS's decision ,but he never went and spoke rudely to DS or did any sort of emotional blackmailing to DS ..All he did was repeatedly kept asking DS the reason behind her decision and when DS finally spoke up ,he realised DS's POV and showed full respect to it and today we saw he is even following DS's orders without any further queries 👍🏼..This is where I find Uday's love for Manyata more genuine and not really an obsession because he has not lost his senses despite being in love ..he still knows how to show respect for his elders ...he does not mind letting go off his ego for a while in front of both Manyata and Akash for the larger interest of Manyata's future ⭐️..

Agreed Jyo but lets face it..he is prince and he had learned not to loose cool and behave like prince..whereas manayta , she have never learnt it..may be you will say she must but that's what DS is doing right? moniya is gonna learn all these things now...i don't know whether Uday's love for manyata is genuine or not but once manyata becomes princess, lets see whether she will be able to forget akash..

So what I saw today between Manyata and Akash cannot be termed as love but just being obsessed with the thought of "We r in love and noone can separate us "😆😊...
The best part is they are gonna be separate now so there's a chance that maanyata will have to spend more time with Uday and if this leads to her forgetting akash and falling in love with Uday, then of course there is no value for monash love..right?😉

Originally posted by: shali

you know Jyo...at this moment I care hoots about Moniya uff Manyata...

but coming to her obsession...is it really that... cause what I see a girl grown up without any decent education nor values...her behavior is so egocentric... she can't and refuse to think beyond herself...

so what's Akash...well he is that boy who everybody wanted to have...but she got him with her bubbly and innocent behavior...is he her love...nope he was to show off in the chawl...his current function is off a scarecrow...whom to scare away...her new fly...cause till he is around she doesn't has to be Manyata an ID everyone is forcing on to her...

so what's Moniya for Akash...she is that nice innocent bubbly gal who is giving him the best time off his life..with her around he doesn't has to think off his responsibilities and expectations everyone has...she is making him Care free...so that's why he is pampering her...and not making her grow up...

it would be wrong to say they don't love each other...cause they both do...but both with their own agenda...is this the love we belief as ultimate Nope...just look at today...Brij was standing in front off Akash with a gun...but Moniya was only blabbering...never made an attempt to stand up against this man in front off Akash...

so do I make sense🤔... stupid Q...I never do...

Originally posted by: ...Binny...

Jyoti.. just love your posts..

Manyata is obsessed not only with Akaash but with clinging to her old life as well..she believes that changing even for the better will somehow take her identity/individuality away from her... her love for Akaash is her childish infatuation that keeps her connected to her past.. as long as she has this apprehension of accepting reality her world will remain to be revolved around Akaash..

As for Akaash his love is limited to Moniya he will never be able to cope with Manyata the princess nor will he be able to connect with her.. he has absolutely no confidence in their relationship if he truly believed in their love his fear would not be so evident when he sees Moniya gradually changing or accepting her family.. talking to UV.. that is the difference between him and UV he is ready to accept every aspect of Manyata although he must first understand the true meaning of love along with Manyata..

Originally posted by: AnjanaYYZ

Hmmm - reflecting on Akash as you suggested.

What does he see in Moniya? FREEDOM from being a GROWNUP - living life sans responsibility. He was so focused on "work" that he forgot to "live" and now he wants to "LIVE" with Moniya ... But, life is a about balance. Monia is making him unbalanced. He's falling for her not rising! When she told him to surprise her, he did something - Monialike not something Akashlike. If he had thought for himself then he would found a more respectable and proper way to meet up with her. Climbing ladders outside a girl's bedroom while romantic is childish👎🏼 Its what teenage impulsive Romeoish act. Not that of a responsible adult. He wants to freeze time - keep Moniya as she not see her grow - maybe because he doubts his ability to grow with her? In the long run, if Moniya rejects him as Manyata then he may get an inferiority complex. I can see him going the Sunil Shetty route a la Dharkan with J egging him on.

UV's ego is his worst enemy - but, he is besting his ego for Manyata. So far he has fallen in love - getting Akash arrested/fired. Now he has to rise in love. Whereas Akash may stagnate or fall without Manyata to direct him.

Originally posted by: gohem123

yeah i agree jyo but when a girl meets her boyfriend or lover after some days, precisely saying after he goes to jail and all, should a girl not feel happy and do like manyata did..?

I dont hv issues with her being happy seeing Akash in the Rajmahal ..but a small sorry to DS for her extremely rude behaviour last night ,wont hv hurt much na 😳

She should do that but after all she is a young girl and behaves like one who will be more happy seeing his lover in front of her than thinking about all this formalities...Just my pov.. agree that she is acting selfish but who is not Jyo at this young age..everyone wants their own happiness and i think that's what manyata will get to learn after becoming princess how to live and think about others...

The point here she was genuinely happy or she was trying to show off with her PDA all around the rajmahal with Akash ? because if u r genuinely happy ,then u will go and spend some good time with Akash and talk to him in private rather than going all around rajmahal with him and showing people ,look I won ,he is with me now 😆...I agree its her young age and because she lacks maturity ,..,and thats what I tried to point out in this post that in this age what she feels for Akash is not love but a kind of obsession with the thought of being in love 😊

Agreed Jyo but lets face it..he is prince and he had learned not to loose cool and behave like prince..whereas manayta , she have never learnt it..may be you will say she must but that's what DS is doing right? moniya is gonna learn all these things now...i don't know whether Uday's love for manyata is genuine or not but once manyata becomes princess, lets see whether she will be able to forget akash..

Well if u see the chawl wali Moniya ,she knew to respect her elders ..so I sort of disagree with this point of yours ..she might not know the mannerisms of a princess but she knew that one needs to respect the elders while talking even if they r not fully right ..remember Moniya's gyaan to J when she misbehaved with Komal ? ..and then same Moniya goes and does the same thing with DS what J did with Komal ..so where has her so called gyaan of respect gone now ??

The best part is they are gonna be separate now so there's a chance that maanyata will have to spend more time with Uday and if this leads to her forgetting akash and falling in love with Uday, then of course there is no value for monash love..right?😉

Well even if she starts falling for Uday ,still she will remain in denial becuase of her commitment towards Akash ..so here even Uday has to show his sacrificing side to Manyata and allow her to go back to Akash so that Manyata can differentiate the love of both Akash and Uday and decide whom to opt for ...😳