"Love is a relationship of caring and giving. Obsession is a display of power. Love is submergence of ego, while obsession involves display of ego. Confusing obsession with love is like drinking poison when one wants to have milk."
This was my FB status I had put up last week and after watching today's episode this is exactly what I felt for Moniya's love for Akash which looks more like obsession to me 😊..
Moniya is simply obsessed with the thought of being in love with Akash .Till Akash came to meet her ,she did bhookh-hartal, maun-wrath and even went to the extreme of showing disrespect to DS ...But the minute her Zid was fulfilled and she saw Akash in the Rajmahal today,she forgot everything and was over the moon just because DS and Uday had to bend down in front of her Zid and she got the upperhand ...
Moniya is yet to know the true definition of love ..For her being in love with someone is equal to an achievement of power and display of ego which she did today when Akash came to meet her in Rajmahal ...All of a sudden she forgot how rudely she behaved with DS last night and dint even had the courtesy to go and say one small thanks and sorry to DS after seeing Akash in the Rajmahal ..Love is never this selfish where u forget these small basic manners and gestures towards your elders ...This is obsession because only obsession makes a person look so selfish and self-centered which at present we all r seeing in the form of Moniya 😊
On the other hand even though Uday felt betrayed and humiliated initially by DS's decision ,but he never went and spoke rudely to DS or did any sort of emotional blackmailing to DS ..All he did was repeatedly kept asking DS the reason behind her decision and when DS finally spoke up ,he realised DS's POV and showed full respect to it and today we saw he is even following DS's orders without any further queries 👍🏼..This is where I find Uday's love for Manyata more genuine and not really an obsession because he has not lost his senses despite being in love ..he still knows how to show respect for his elders ...he does not mind letting go off his ego for a while in front of both Manyata and Akash for the larger interest of Manyata's future ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️...
So what I saw today between Manyata and Akash cannot be termed as love but just being obsessed with the thought of "We r in love and noone can separate us "😆😊...
Edited by jyoti06 - 13 years ago