Thendral update Wednesday Dec 14th: - Page 5

Tulasi should go where she can continue her education. Gw and Chaaru are bent on ruining that. Though she told Mm she will not come back to his house, it is Mm's duty to convince T to come back and study. Mm is a changed man after he got a dose of reality from Padma. In that house now T has more supporters. Why ! Even Padma told MM that he should have taken real good care of T,, although just to mock him and criticism him. Mm should use this opportunity. Mohan and Pavi will help.That is the only way now. In Puvi's house she has no support. Even Sudha has turned against her for a different reason. There is no need to put up with so much torture just to show that she is patient and courageous . Give TA some hard time . Let him also contribute to save their marriage. Why should it be T all the time.?Many on the board are saying T/TA love is very strong. TA may still love T and not fall for Chaaru. But he is influenced by his mother and guilt regarding Chaaru. So far after the court scene against Vel he has not supported her strongly on anything. If he did , T will not be in such a soup.for a marriage to work just strong love alone is not enough. It has to be accompanied by trust and respect and sensitivity. TA lacks all 3 towards T and he is not even aware of it. Because of his job problems and guilt.

Time for T to come out straight with TA. Now that she heard it from Chaaru's mouth about her fatal attraction to TA , she should tell everything to TA and also give an ultimatum. It is upto him ,whether to trust her or not. If his love for T is as strong as every one believes, time for him to give some consideration to T instead of torturing her. If he thinks Chaaru is still an angel, T should seek a temp separation and go to Mm until he realizes his mistake. She should also say, come and fetch me when you believe me if you still love me and want me. Until then separation stands. This is how any of us will act in real life. Why should it be any diff for T. Why should we all cut so much slack for the useless TA and his family and expect T to be "bold and courageous I taking non sense from Gw et el".