Na Tum Jaanon Na Hum.....Q & A!

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Posted: 19 years ago
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How clueless can two people get in life? I think Jai and Bani Walia are two prime examples of "Complete Lost Case"!😕 They both admire, respect, adore and cherish one another, yet adamantly refuse to give a name to their feelings or to their relationship! Haila, inki problem kya hai?

Bani is better off, atleast she has realized what is happening to her...even if she has not acknowleded the same! Today, as she speaks to Saahil (It was a wonderful scene, btw) she tells him something very beautiful about Love and Relationships.....She says that many a times we like someone, but due to some or the other thing, we are not able to have that person as a part of our lives and that is simply because, the person was never meant to be ours...and then suddenly someone else enters our life, somone whom we never wanted in the first place, someone who never wanted to be a part of your life, but still when that person comes by, we forget everything else and that person becomes everything for us! The first reference was to Pushkar and the second was for Jai.....that indicated Bani has forgotten her past and the fact that she was once in love with Pushkar and now only Jai remains in her life...

But Jai? Oh, man....he is so out of his depth when it comes to matters of heart! Why does he keep harping that two people forced in a relationship will make a living hell out of their marriage? Doesn't he understand that he is giving a clear indication regarding his marriage to Bani.....Or maybe he doesn't! Jai is only talking in general, making a statement that it is very essential for two people to love and want one another, to make a relationship work.....but poor Bani keeps getting the wrong signals!

Do you still wonder why Bani will agree to the Divorce when the Summons come by? As far as she can see, Jai has no feelings for her and is extremely unhappy with his so-called "forced marriage".

The questions for today are:

Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?

What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?

Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?

Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?

Will be awaiting your answers.....😃

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MT

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Posted: 19 years ago
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hey mt great analysis as usual,as for the questions:

Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?
i am not certain but yes, i think they do,i agree that their should be love in the relationship, even if it comes after marriage as is the case with our favourite couple.

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?
the fact that she wanted to see her sisters happy, plus if you can recall, she did leave the house but was brought back due to mausi's arrival.she had to be the "happy bahu".

What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?
personally i think that he hasn't realized it yet and when he does he would most definitly let her know.

Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?
i think she knows something is up or else she wouldn't have said anything about it.

Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?
why not,i mean anything can happen.

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Posted: 19 years ago
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MT those were little tough ques, but i find answers for some.

Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?

Yes Both Jai and Bani , have the same perspective on marriage and Love, and that may be the reason why jai started liking bani, as she knows how to maintain relationships, like her commitment to walia family and concern for the walia family members, even though she doesnt have to, as it was a forced marriage for her .I dont know about compromise...

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?
Bani always believed that Jai was not a bad man(as he is shown to be when pia eloped)She thought by remaining in the walia family, jai would reduce his anger on pia as he abused bani in all ways, 😭 😭 😭 .I think that would be the reason to stay with jai, as she loved her sisters more.She never thought of a married relationship with Jai,untill maasi came(as per my view), only after maasi came , she started developing feelings for jai.
What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?
I think the park road thing and roshni are stopping him to express his love, otherwise he is pretty much aware of his love for bani, as, he arranged a dinner date for her and gifting bangles etc...(or may be he is in the process of realisation) 😕
Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?
I dont think roshni knows that bani has these positive feelings for jai. As far as I remember she told that bani will also leave jai one day, but roshni will not go anywhere,and thats why she came from london. 😡 .I dont think she is a positive character.
Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?
YES.May be it will take sometime.der hai andher nahi...

BTW, I love ur posts MT, read this and pls tell me ur comments.
love.
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Posted: 19 years ago
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hi MT nice questions,hope my answers are liked...

Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?
##yes we knw that frm the way bani n jai speak 2 others abt love n marriage.bani's character is like that she believes love conquers all n money is less imp than love in a relationship.the way jai spoke in yestrdys n 2dys epi he shares these veiws with bani.

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?
##bani had to save her sis plus jiggy scared her n forcd her into this.lastly its all abt reputation of both families n is cming frm a well cultured family...
bani potrays an indian ethical girl wth values deeply emmbeded in her,so cant leave the man fate has brought her to.initially wen bani wanted to divorce jai(next dy of marriage) he refused n slowly with time she has developed feeling of commitment to the family n smewhere down the line 4 jai...the marrige is nt completely loveless..there is sme bond if nt love may be respect n liking b/w the 2.frm her point of view she cares 4 jai n may b doesnt wanna get out of the marriage.and above that v can c they both r helplessly falling 4 each other even if its unrealised still love is love....

What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?
##jai is bitten by the love bug bt he is nt able to put his feeling together n contemplate..he is tooo busy trying to hide the raaz frm bani.his hidding the secrect frm her nw more than ever confirms that he cares for bani(2 epi back jai shouted out loud to rosh bani shud never ever find out)moreover he is hurt in love nt once bt twice (as he thinks that was love.its difficult for him to admit that he cares 4 bani n loves her coz heartache really makes u weak...he's also nt sure of bani's feelings.i think once he thinks abt wat he feels for bani n the cloud of doubt clears off he'l cme to his senses.

Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?
#rosh is a smart gal.i think she has idea of nt just bani's bt jai's feelings too.look at her attire change...woh unn mein se nahi lagt jo andhere mein teer chodegey.

Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?
#analying frm a indian woman's point of veiw,yes...coz in india women usually fall in love wth sme1 else n hardly end up wth the same guy..as for a perfect relationship i an quoting these lines:
"love is nt abt finding the perfect person bt having a perfect relationship wth the imperfct one"
implying circumstances make 2 people cme togrther wether for better or for worse.false or true its all abt making it work.and our favorite couple wud defintly end up realising this 😃 😳 😉



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Posted: 19 years ago
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Here goes MT...your questions actually make me think 😆


Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?

i think jai does think that love needs to be present . from their speeches and attitudes towards sahils forced engagement just shows that love is the main aspect in a marriage...however bani thinks it can begin with compromise but love will grow

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?

Sometimes matters of the heart are beyond our control....we cant help who we fall for..hence the same goes for bani at first i think it was sympathy for jai...but when that grew into love we cant say...shes fallen in love with him so shes looking for any reason to stay with him..she by passes all his faults and i mean if you live with someone that long and they are that good looking who wouldnt fall for him...but come on jai isnt a bad guy 😉

What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?

i think he is scared of rejecton, hurt, so many different things...i think first or foremost he needs to acknowledge he is in love...once he overcomes that then everything else will fall into place..and even when the raaz comes out both will be able to sort it out


Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?

i think its obvious to everyone how bani feels...but what i think roshni is realising is that jai feels something to...maybe shes come to realise that jai cant be hers so shes trying to make him acknowledge his feelings for bani...you never know whats in that womans head....

Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music

both bani and jai are good hearted people.....so yeh regardless of what the other exxpected of a life partner...they are the perfect match...they have in front of them what they both yearn love, security and acceptance...sometimes we dont realise what is right in front of us...both bani and jai need to open their eyes and realise what is staring right back at them so this perfect music can flowwwwwww.

thanks hun😃

Edited by **Tinkerbell** - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Okay good that I saw your post!! Lolzz unless I wouldn't have known that you posted the Q & A analysis!! So now I have time, I'll answer your hardcore questions!!lolzz!! so here are my answers……………

Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?

By the talk of Jai, he values love more because every time the issue of sahil and raashi's marriage is raised, he always mentions that two people can't marry each other w/o having a love bond in between them, and that's why the marriage will never work out. This statement is certainly giving away bad signals to bani now, because mrs. Walia is just so nave. As for bani, she always chose love before money, but in this case, she is stuck with a man, who is rich and powerful, and more over, is being tied with her in an unwanted relationship, but then again, bani donesn't know jai's true feelings, so I suggest she doesn't make assumptions here regarding jai and her unwanted marriage. Their marriage point is so weak from my point of view, because each one passes some ironic and sarcastic comments which has to do with marriage. None of them are clear about what they want to say or what they want. They certainly want to be with each other, but I guess both of them are waiting for the other person to say something, but as we all know, things won't come out until something big struck them. Now my main point, both of them consider love to be in relationship, but at the same time, they both are making compromises with each other, because where there is love, there is always a compromise.

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?

She was forced in to marriage in the first place because of her sister. She is certainly paying for Pia's mistakes, but as time is passing by, things between jai and bani are getting better. Sometimes I feel that even bani get the vibes that jai too is starting to like her & both of them are possessive of each other. Bani feeling jealous at some points, and jai getting possessive of her at another point. No matter what the circumstances are now, we all know that them two are in love with each other, but then again, no one is ready to admit it yet, until someone comes clean first.

What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?

From my point of view, I don't think it's any of the above choice. I think that he doesn't know himself that if bani is in love with him. He is scared that bani too will leave him one day, so he is just saving himself from another heart attack. He isn't sure about what bani truly feels for him, that's why he is just passing the little hints towards her, but much to bani's reaction, she is too nave to understand why jai is doing this for her. She thinks that he is just being nice and mending his mistakes about making her life miserable. Jai very well knows deep down in his heart, that he does not want to let go off bani at any cost, but as for bani, he just doesn't know the fact if she feels the same way about him. If you remember, I even mentioned in the previous post that bani is more stronger than jai when it comes to sharing feelings! She can hide them really well, and probably the only person that can see bani's feelings for jai is either rano or aditya, but aditya can see both jai and bani's feelings for each other, but our couple are just not ready to admit it and waiting for each other 's response because they come to a conclusion.

Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?

No, I don't think that roshni knows what bani feels for jai, but she certainly knows what jai feels for bani. That is why she keeps blackmailing him about the past, which in a way is keeping jai from confessing his feelings for bani. He is scared about the fact the bani might leave him like others did, and that's roshni's advantage right there. If only roshni knew about bani's sentiments for jai, then I think she might have backed off, but then sometimes I feel that roshni is there for her own selfish reasoning and she is somehow keeping jai away from bani, but I think it might just turn the table on roshni, because knowing both jai and bani, they can't be kept away from each other.

Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?

If they are willing to compromise, then of course it can make it over the mountain. If there is a wife like bani and husband like jai, then relationships will always work out. What most is needed in a relationship to workout is good amount of patients which bani has, but jai lacks, and because of that they complete each other. To tell you the truth, that's what I've been seeing in the serial from the beginning, that only and only because of bani patience and self reliance, she is able to make it this far in her marriage with jai, and because of that fact, it even changed jai's attitude for the good.

Okay MT those are my answers, I hope they are fine😕!! I wrote anything that came into my mind😃!! Enjoy reading them! 😉

Love
khoo

Edited by khoo - 19 years ago
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?
~Yes I think that Bani and Jai believe that Love should be the basis of the relationship, but being in love also means making compromises, so as long as it is a mutual compromise not one-sided. I think that they both also believe that even if love isn't present as long as there is trust and understanding that relationship has a strong basis.

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?
~I think the reason Bani put up with the marriage at first is because she realized that by marrying Jai she hurt him and it was the least she could do to provide penance on behalf of Pia, and herself. Then as she spent time with him she began to understand him and unknowingly began to understand his pain, and like him. ALso she respects him, and she stayed to in some ways due to circumstances that forced them together at that point be it for penance, then for the debt or later for Maasi or as for now she loves him but hasn't realized it.

What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?
~I think he likes Bani, and realizes that she has somehow become a integral part but again he hasn't acknowledged his feelings completely and to some extent is afraid to accept his feelings as love, because he feels love makes you vulnerable and he's already committed that mistake by falling for Pia once and is wary to open his heart.

Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?
~ I think Roshni being an outside spectator to Jai and Bani's interactions has an inkling of Bani's feelings towards Jai. Also in terms of Bani's uncomfortability in her presence which is slightly indicative of Bani's jealousy in regards to Jai.

Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?

~ Yes as long as those "False Notes" do not stay false. What I mean is that even though the foundation due to circumstances was based on mistrust and anger and betrayal, there has been a growth of understanding and trust, and if they choose to look to their past so as to grow from it and create a better foundation, in sorts rediscover their relationship then yes they can make "Perfect Music", In Jai's and Bani's relationship the notes still need tweaking (Iin sticking with the metaphor) before it can become perfect because there is still Jai's and Bani's (The Raaz) past that stands imminently between them, but I do believe that eventually they will get there.

Thanks MT for the questions that probe both the mind and heart:)
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Posted: 19 years ago
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Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?

before i thought only bani is of that view but now a days that jai gives so much lecture on marriage i feel both of them share the same perspective on marriage

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?

thats coz some or the other way they were foced to remain in this marriage

What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?

his past offcourse he has realised a bit that wht bani is for him so its only his past which stops thier communication n in any relationship communication iis must once the communication isnt there th relationship get all confused n tangled up

Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?

yes she does i feel thats y she made jai realise abt bani's importance

Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?

any realtionship started on whatever bases survives only if there is an understanding love care concern n communication if these things arent there the relationship becomes weak n the end is end of the relationship but wht is lacking in jai bani's marriage is communication jai not telling bani the secret is irritating bani n jai not communicating with bani not telling avalid reason for concealing the raaz is irritating bani once there is a communication medium thier marriage will turn to the "perfect music"

👏very good questions

lots of love

annu

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Posted: 19 years ago
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Hey MT, always good to answer your questions..

How clueless can two people get in life? I think Jai and Bani Walia are two prime examples of "Complete Lost Case"! They both admire, respect, adore and cherish one another, yet adamantly refuse to give a name to their feelings or to their relationship! Haila, inki problem kya hai?

I know this is not your question but I will comment this. Uncertainty....Although they both admire , love and cherish each other, for Jai it is the raaz and for Bani it is Jai's short temper that puts them back into guessing zone..just when they both inch towards each other , Jai's past makes him phsychotic and he loses his temper as he did with Bani today when she picked up his letter....

Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?

Well it is very clear from Jai's concern about Saahil that he understands Love is very imp in marriage..I am with Bani's assumption as I am not sure if he is also taunting Bani to see if she loves him or not.. Bani and Jai think alike that love is important..

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?

Bani is repenting for Pia's mistake and also cares about Mr. Walia as he was their caretaker.

What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?
definitely the past is stoping him to go forward... Also he is sure that Bani may leave him if she finds out the Raaz and that is the single most reason for his denial for Bani's Love...you know the guy has been hurt too many times before... 😭

Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?
Ohhh Roshni was just trying to play up her allegence to Jai incase he is thinking that Bani loves him ...Roshni knows that if Jai confesses his love to Bani , she will loose Jai for good so she is trying to stay put between Jai and Bani..

Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?

Affection is bound to happen when 2 ppl are joined together as Jai and Bani are.. heck even kidnapped person feels sympathy for her/his kidnapper no matter how mean he/she is.. Bani has seen first hand how hurt Jai was when Pia ditched him and her mission as a wife and as MR Walia's well wisher is to make him happy ...Since Bani is all about love the answer is whenever JAi is ready to confess his love to her she will be all his.... 😉

MT I sometimes wonder if Ekta mayi is asking you to do these Q/A's so she can decide which direction to take the story forward... 😉 😆 just my wild guess...I love you anyway... 😛
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Posted: 19 years ago
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There you go MT with the articulation! 😃 Great points raised....here's my take:

Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?
I think so. At least so it seems so far. But I think they both feel like marriage starts with a compromise (which was done by both of them) and then blooms love! Since now they are both in love they completely agree that love is necessary for their marriage to survive!

If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?
There I go again answering the questions in the previous answers! Well at the risk of repeating myself....I think Bani being Bani values the sanctity of a marriage and believes that marriages are lifelong commitments that need to be preserved through love and compromise. She stayed in the marriage initially as a repentence for Pia's wrong-doing to Jai which slowly turned into respect and care and finally blossomed into love. She prolly wasn't aware that love would creep into the marriage but there was no harm in staying in a loveless marriage so she could finally fall in love with the man she married now is there? 😉

What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?
Jai is clearly in love with Bani and he is definitely realising it one step at a time. It's taking a while but his attitude towards Bani is a lot more subdued and caring than before and I think he realises that he's changing and that his feelings are changing as well! But at the same time he is also distracted with hiding his past from Bani and from saving the family's honour which in a way also indicates his love for her. All these distractions have kept him busy enough to not immediately confess his love to Bani. However, every little action of his clearly indicates his love for her and eventually it will get to the next level but I suppose in the meantime we can enjoy a little flirting between the hot couple! 😳

Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?
I don't think Roshni had any underlying message in her monologue with Jai....however I still do think that she knows of Bani's soft corner for Jai. Being a woman she instinctively realises Bani's developing feelings for Jai but she definitely doesn't seem like she cares for it! She was definitely thinking about herself and her relationship with Jai while mentioning about Bani's exit but it worked out in Bani's favour nevertheless! So for that Roshni gets 👍🏼 from me!

Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?
What a well articulated question MT! 👏 Definitely made me think! I think the note that Bani and Jai's relationship started on was off but as time passed and misunderstandings slowly disappeared the notes started to fall in place and a tune appeared 😊 I agree that their relationship didn't have the perfect start but I also don't believe that first impressions are last impressions. Bani and Jai were given innumerable opportunities to clear the misunderstandings between them and at times they picked up on them and at times they didn't but such is life! We don't always do the right thing in life but it's the realisation that it wasn't right that keeps us going. That's what happened with Jai and Bani....the realisation that some of their opinions of each other were premature and their decision to ignore them and focus on the good in each other is what is bringing them closer to each other and making them fall in love! Hope the saga continues and that they reach the stage where they confess it all soon! 😳

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