How clueless can two people get in life? I think Jai and Bani Walia are two prime examples of "Complete Lost Case"!😕 They both admire, respect, adore and cherish one another, yet adamantly refuse to give a name to their feelings or to their relationship! Haila, inki problem kya hai?
Bani is better off, atleast she has realized what is happening to her...even if she has not acknowleded the same! Today, as she speaks to Saahil (It was a wonderful scene, btw) she tells him something very beautiful about Love and Relationships.....She says that many a times we like someone, but due to some or the other thing, we are not able to have that person as a part of our lives and that is simply because, the person was never meant to be ours...and then suddenly someone else enters our life, somone whom we never wanted in the first place, someone who never wanted to be a part of your life, but still when that person comes by, we forget everything else and that person becomes everything for us! The first reference was to Pushkar and the second was for Jai.....that indicated Bani has forgotten her past and the fact that she was once in love with Pushkar and now only Jai remains in her life...
But Jai? Oh, man....he is so out of his depth when it comes to matters of heart! Why does he keep harping that two people forced in a relationship will make a living hell out of their marriage? Doesn't he understand that he is giving a clear indication regarding his marriage to Bani.....Or maybe he doesn't! Jai is only talking in general, making a statement that it is very essential for two people to love and want one another, to make a relationship work.....but poor Bani keeps getting the wrong signals!
Do you still wonder why Bani will agree to the Divorce when the Summons come by? As far as she can see, Jai has no feelings for her and is extremely unhappy with his so-called "forced marriage".
The questions for today are:
Do you think that Jai and Bani both share the same perspective on Marriage and Relationships? As in both of them agree that Love should be the mainstay of a relationship and not compromise?
If the answer to the above is yes, then why do you think that Bani put up in the marriage in the first place, because her marriage to Jai was nothing but a forced decision? If Bani also belives that Love is most important in a relationship, what forced her to remain in the "Loveless" marriage with a man who doesn't love her?
What do you think is stopping Jai from expressing his love for Bani? Is it the simple fact that he is simply not in love with Bani, or is it that he is in love, but hasn't realized it himself or is it his past that haunts him and forbids his relationship with Bani to be taken forward?
Do you think that Roshni has an inkling of what Bani feels for Jai or was she just shooting off her mouth when she told Jai that one day, he won't even have Bani's love in his life and he will be all alone once again?
Jai and Bani's relationship is based on the foundation of mistrust, anger and betrayal...but still love blooms between them...Do you think that a relationship based on "False Notes" can ever make a "Perfect Music"?
Will be awaiting your answers.....😃
Cheers,
MT