Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
I agree with u .Mai's unemotional behaviour with the kids Kanha and Mukta may be offensive but her demand for a grandchild was not unjustified . She was not sexist or chauvinistic about the issue either , even a grand daughter was fine for her , all she wished to see was grandchild of her blood . At least ONE . Was that so wrong ? She is an ordinary normal woman with normal feelings . She gave permission for these kids to be brought up in that haveli . She was ready to accept them , give them HAR SUKH . She had no issues with that .But one Grand Kid according to her DIED , one was NOT HERS at all ...she was TRICKED by Tapasya , and now she was denied ANY possibility of ever seeing a Grandchild of her own .Mai was shamefully taken for granted by Icha and Veer .Woh sab AAS laga Kar baithe the . Icha shud NOT have done this . While I agree that having a baby or not is a personal decision , one must not be THIS insensitive to the sentiments of elders in a joint family .Regarding her not telling Veer ...I agree she should . But She may be afraid that Veer may say a flat NO . Veer's attitude towards Tapasya is different than Icha's . Veer is unforgiving and unrelenting towards Tapasya unlike Icha who does not mind forgiving Tapasya's hundred atrocities . Icha bears no ill will towards Tapasya and is incapable of harbouring anger for a long time . Veer may not bear ill will to Tapasya but he is capable of remaining angry for a long time to come .And he may object to this bf business as its Tapasya's kid and he simply does not want Icha to be hurt all over again . As whenever Tapasya comes in Icha's life , hurt follows .Veer will have nothing against Rathore . He may understand Icha's post partum depression and forgive her for bfing the kid too . See how he silenced Tapasya by telling her ENOUGH when she acted righteous . He told that even if Icha did mistakes , her level was different .This shows that Veer will forgive Icha's mistake . He has no animosity towards Rathod . He defo has animosity towards Tapasya .Now will he rise over this and show that he will have consideration for the KID ? Icha's dilemma will be THIS doubt .Both Veer and Rathod r decent men who love their wives deeply and love kids even more . See Veer's love for Kanha Mukta and see Rathod's love for Yuvraj .Let us hope that Veer rises above himself for the kid .Will Tapasya rise above herself for the kid is the million dollar question .Or will she allow Nani to fuel her insecurity AGAIN .
I don't think Iccha needs to be in any kind of dilemma on Veer's reaction towards Yuvraj atleast whatever has been shown on Veer so far.. ..While I'm sure Veer will forgive ichcha i & understand, iccha not confiding in Veer even now is beyond me...if she is afraid that he will say no, then its even more reason for her to tell him & convince him. She is also taking for a ride Bundela parivar's maan maryada, by visiting courts & police stations all alone for another man 😕...that too tappu's husband whom Veer hates.
You simply don't go around showing off your mahanta with least regard for your hubby's feelings & pride & ichcha has done this time & again.