Tapasya infertile thats the reason of change in rathore ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: -ASTHA-

So rathod is in bashing list of rasya fan. Just few days back people were so impressed with rathod and his personality. Why sudden change?
I know i'm asking silly question as i know log achhe tab tak rehte he jab tak tapasya ke ungli pe nachte he. And rathod is now shouting on tapasya so obviously he is villian of the story.
@TM: Tell me 1 thing why tapasya's happiness is important? Why r u thinking only she should remain happy? If she is so much concerned about yuvraj than y she is so busy in shopping and salsa? And specially y she is busy in explaining veer her achhaiya? Ichha got chance to feed baby when he was alone? Why baby was alone.? One more thing please dont insult mother luv by calling ichha cheap as we know there is a valid reason behind ichha's attachment with yuvraj.

And there is also discussion going on ichha's servent status as jogi never adopted ichha legally. So if legal procedure is so much important than even tapasya's marriage with veer was also illegal. In mandap she was sitting in place of ichha and it was never shown tapasya and veer signing legal certi ficates. So she was illegal wife.

Originally posted by: Newveechafan

@koolFriend why r u comparing bfeeding to kidney transplant. Does mr rathore him self have to go in search of a woman for that?he doesnt have any other option. And i've never heard of an incident where a baby refused to take bottle milk and died(correct me if i'm wrong).u r saying why shd rathore go for something else when an option is easily available. But is this a practical solution for the prblm? Here the issue is not breast feeding but hiding of the matter frm the respective partners. U r saying iccha shd tell veer but rathore cant tell tapasya since she'll not understand. Why shd rathore go for somethig that'll surely create rifts in two couples lives? How long can he hide this frm tapasya?Every day he will have to send his wife out and iccha will have to find a reason to leave her house. To me it doesnt seem to be an easy solution to the baby's demand but a short cut which later will lead to bigger issues.
And is yuvaraj a supernatural kid who will take milk only once and starve for the next 24 hours till iccha maiya comes?

Originally posted by: Newveechafan

@koolFriend why r u comparing bfeeding to kidney transplant. Does mr rathore him self have to go in search of a woman for that?he doesnt have any other option. And i've never heard of an incident where a baby refused to take bottle milk and died(correct me

I can cite MANY examples . I personally know ONE woman who died after one month of delivery ...she was breast feeding baby , after she died , aunt tried to bring baby up but baby just wud not take bottle feed and started getting dehydrated and was hospitalised . They found a JHOPADPATTI woman who was feeding her own child and had plenty of milk and PAID her to feed the baby . The baby survived ...was fed for 7 months that way. Many more examples I can give but it will be THESIS . My point is ...IT HAPPENS . Most of those passing comments on Rathod seem to be males or young girls who have NOT become mothers is my GUESS , I may be wrong . Of course they have FULL RIGHT to pass comments but if one has a child its much much easier to understand Rathod . Some who have children may differ with me but no issues .

Why i compared kidney donor and finding a breast feeding agreeable surrogate lady ? Simply to point out the DIFFICULTY in finding one . They have NOTHING common in them except The DIFFICULTY IN FINDING PART . You mentioned Rathod had money and he cud find other women and All i pointed out was its not EASY as it sounds .importance to 'FEELINGS"y GUESS i'm wrong).u r saying why shd rathore go for something else when an option is easily available. But is this a practical solution for the prblm? Here the issue is not breast feeding but hiding of the matter frm the respective partners. U r saying iccha shd tell veer but rathore cant tell tapasya since she'll not understand. Why shd rathore go for somethig that'll surely create rifts in two couples lives? How long can he hide this frm tapasya?Every day he will have to send his wife out and iccha will have to find a reason to leave her house. To me it doesnt seem to be an easy solution to the baby's demand but a short cut which later will lead to bigger issues.
And is yuvaraj a supernatural kid who will take milk only once and starve for the next 24 hours till iccha maiya comes?

Originally posted by: Newveechafan

@koolFriend why r u comparing bfeeding to kidney transplant. Does mr rathore him self have to go in search of a woman for that?he doesnt have any other option. And i've never heard of an incident where a baby refused to take bottile milk and died. (correct me if i'm wrong).u r saying why shd rathore go for something else when an option is easily available. But is this a practical solution for the prblm? Here the issue is not breast feeding but hiding of the matter frm the respective partners. U r saying iccha shd tell veer but rathore cant tell tapasya since she'll not understand. Why shd rathore go for somethig that'll surely create rifts in two couples lives? How long can he hide this frm tapasya?Every day he will have to send his wife out and iccha will have to find a reason to leave her house. To me it doesnt seem to be an easy solution to the baby's demand but a short cut which later will lead to bigger issues.
And is yuvaraj a supernatural kid who will take milk only once and starve for the next 24 hours till iccha maiya comes?

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Rathod can ask same question to Tapasya . Why cannot she be a mature adult for once and prioritise baby over her so called great feelings .

Since when have PERSONAL feelings like HATE , ANGER , JEALOUSY become more important than BABIES .

Who is complicating WHOSE life here . By giving importance to personal feelings like ACCEPT ME WITHOUT THE BABY ONLY THEN I WILL BELIEVE YOU LOVE ME , Tapasya foolishly LOST her baby ...Rathod's baby once . The Poor Man buckled before her and accepted her that way , later ran out to find his baby had GONE .

Hamesha WHY should he do this . Why is it so hard for young girls of today to hear sensible dialogues like PUT A LID OVER UR FEELINGS FOR ONCE AND SIMPLY PRIORITISE THE BABY .

Why is such an issue of FEELINGS done . This is SPOILT behaviour on Tapasyas part .

When child is not taking feeds she is doing salsa and shopping . Well leave it to the Dad then to take the best decision he deems fit .

Ideally Rathod shud have told Tapasya but she clearly gave him a CHOICE between ICHA and Herself . When she constantly turns EVERY ISSUE into a choice between HERSELF and ICHA , without understanding even ONCE that others r BORED and BUGGED with these stupid choices she gives them , and that maybe ...just maybe for others OTHER things matter more than the STUPID FEUD she has with Icha ...That maybe for others a BABY matters more than the fight between her and Icha ...when she SIMPLY does not understand it , Why the hell should Rathod not set about IGNORING it and doing what HE feels is best for his baby for a change .

Tapasya shud be LAST person to throw a tantrum that Rathod LIED , RATHOD was NOT HONEST , Rathod BACKSTABBED as she herself has done these things in plenty before .Infact SHE lost Rathods child ...SHE . She better not expect him to be slack regarding THIS child too . She HAS to lump it whether she likes it or not . Its HIGH TIME .

Everyone has LUMPED it ...Rathod lumped his babys loss over her ZID , Icha lumped her babys loss as Nani stole her baby , its hi time Tapasya learns to lump a few things . She has everything ...wealth , doting husband who is not even blaming her for losing his child , love from him , all she has to do is keep her personal feelings aside for baby to get milk for few months ...whats the bloody problem , why cannot she do it ?

She had pulled herself together and gone to invite Icha to Namkaran although she hates Icha . it was HER IDEA .Not Rathod's . WHY ? How she cud become a mature adult then ? Why not NOW ?

When Biwi is NASAMAJH and threatens to break marraige for issues like this , men become helpless and are FORCED to lie .

My full sympathies with Rathod and his stand . Tapasya shud not DARE to make issue of his lies as she has lied MANY TIMES in her life . At least he is doing for GOOD CAUSE .

Regarding Yuvraj the super man baby surviving with just one feed ...Ask CVS that . They show many such faltoo unreal discrepancies . I Don't even bother to use my head there . The CVS r stupid . What else to say .

But What I debate about is the CORE ISSUE being shown . And in this debate , I am fully on Rathods side /.