Love for a 19 yr old ?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey folks me back from my boring mundane hectic life to have a good time with u all🤗
Today my topic wont be liked by many or may be none but then i want to share my views with u all.
u know i have watched many Hindi serials b4 Navya n all of them had more or less the same kind of story only a bit change here n there in plot .In most of the shows what i saw was The guy would be a happy go lucky guy then the gal enters his life for some time it seems to the Guy Life is like a bed of roses but then again the gal makes the guy's miserable either marrying his sworn enemy /his friend brother out of some damn 'majboori' or else would hurt him knowingly unknowingly n make him cry tears of blood then after some misunderstandings enmity everything becomes rosy again .

In the other case guy wud be mean rude evil n then the gal comes in his life changes him 4 good then again deserts him when he needs her again due to some majboori' which as usual the gal wouldn't disclose to the guy even if Tsunami comes

Moral of the story so far whatever show i watched it was either of the 2 cases where eventually the guy is HURT to death n he eventually forgives n forgets .Mind u there have been exceptions too but most shows has the similar kind of storyline .i always felt y is the guy is hurt or termed as wrong doer does the gal actually deserve his love.i even loathed this fact

But after watching Navya my perception changed this show doesn't fit in either 2 brackets n thats 2 one of the reason i like this show but then again in this show the tables have turned Now its the guy who creates trouble 4 the gal like always N the gal thinks logically n for a change is much smarter than the guy(i cant believe i just said that but what to do its the truth depicted in the show) Y is Anant creating troubles 4 Navya just recollect all from the day Anant fell for Navya he has been creating troubles 4 Navya forcefully calling her to his sisters ceremony ,being adamant 4 the picnic thing .suddenly getting too touchy with her when she repulsed new emotional drama which eventually led the gal to do something that was so not her n as usual inviting more troubles then the engagement track when Navya wanted to move on he again stooped her the disappearing act then his ever petulant ways of forcing his opinions on Navya like dropping n picking her or his unexplained avoidance to Navya that landed her in princi's office n what not N today when Navya wanted to speak the truth he chickened out (i know he wanted some time n he may be right in his place) n again his impulsive n restless nature added more woes in Navya's life .

I know most will disagree would say he loves Navya doesn't wanna lose her it happens in love n some xyz reason .Today i was proud of Navya when she decided to tell everything to her mom but then again going by Anant's character he tried to stop her n even if that wasn't enough wanted to talk to her when she didn't intend to n asked him to go when she even said mom will be in her room no time so he shud cut his call .I KNOW MEETA NEEDS TO KNOW THE TRUTH I AGREE BUT DONT U ALL THINK IF HE DIDNT HAD UNTIMELY CALLED HER N PROCLAIMED HIS LOVE THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN MUCH BETTER ATLEAST HER MOTHER WONT HAD BEEN THIS HURT N SHATTERED I M SURE IF HE WOULD NT HAVE CALLED NAVYA THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN MORE CHANCES OF POSITIVE IMPACT OF NAVYA'S TRUTH ON HER MOM .what was the need to call her i know he was worried he didnt intend to hurt her or her mom but he shud have taken a lesson from his earlier impulsive n how it affected Navya n put her in troubles

i know Anant loves Navya he can never hurt her but his indecisive n unthinking attitude has already caused troubles 4 Navya . but then aagin i was a bit relieved when he actually allowed Navya to say the truth😊

sometimes i feel was Navya more happy n with lesser or no troubles b4him whatsoever shy nervous coy wud she been or Now .

till date Anant havent given me 1 solid reason to be actually be proud of him unlike Navya .i have liked him adored him but his character sketch is i guess the weakest one atleast 4 now

DISCLAIMER :- i dint intend to offend any 1 here just need to share my views if any 1 hurt then my apologies

God bless All
take care🤗
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Today i was proud of Navya when she decided to tell everything to her mom but then again going by Anant's character he tried to stop her n even if that wasn't enough wanted to talk to her when she didn't intend to n asked him to go when she even said mom will be in her room no time so he shud cut his call .I KNOW MEETA NEEDS TO KNOW THE TRUTH I AGREE BUT DONT U ALL THINK IF HE DIDNT HAD UNTIMELY CALLED HER N PROCLAIMED HIS LOVE THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN MUCH BETTER ATLEAST HER MOTHER WONT HAD BEEN THIS HURT N SHATTERED I M SURE IF HE WOULD NT HAVE CALLED NAVYA THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN MORE CHANCES OF POSITIVE IMPACT OF NAVYA'S TRUTH ON HER MOM .- i totally totally agree with ur each and every point...and i totally agree with the bold words too...even i felt the same actually...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I liked your post very much and agree to all your points but the title you chose was not at all worthy.
Is he worth the love?
Is it still doubtful? His foolish acts may have always landed Navya in trouble but that can obviously be expected from a 19 year old guy. As regards Navya's wise moves I can only say - Gals are always wiser than guys of the same age group.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: manojshonafan

hey folks me back from my boring mundane hectic life to have a good time with u all🤗

Today my topic wont be liked by many or may be none but then i want to share my views with u all.
u know i have watched many Hindi serials b4 Navya n all of them had more or less the same kind of story only a bit change here n there in plot .In most of the shows what i saw was The guy would be a happy go lucky guy then the gal enters his life for some time it seems to the Guy Life is like a bed of roses but then again the gal makes the guy's miserable either marrying his sworn enemy /his friend brother out of some damn 'majboori' or else would hurt him knowingly unknowingly n make him cry tears of blood then after some misunderstandings enmity everything becomes rosy again .

In the other case guy wud be mean rude evil n then the gal comes in his life changes him 4 good then again deserts him when he needs her again due to some majboori' which as usual the gal wouldn't disclose to the guy even if Tsunami comes

Moral of the story so far whatever show i watched it was either of the 2 cases where eventually the guy is HURT to death n he eventually forgives n forgets .Mind u there have been exceptions too but most shows has the similar kind of storyline .i always felt y is the guy is hurt or termed as wrong doer does the gal actually deserve his love.i even loathed this fact

But after watching Navya my perception changed this show doesn't fit in either 2 brackets n thats 2 one of the reason i like this show but then again in this show the tables have turned Now its the guy who creates trouble 4 the gal like always N the gal thinks logically n for a change is much smarter than the guy(i cant believe i just said that but what to do its the truth depicted in the show) Y is Anant creating troubles 4 Navya just recollect all from the day Anant fell for Navya he has been creating troubles 4 Navya forcefully calling her to his sisters ceremony ,being adamant 4 the picnic thing .suddenly getting too touchy with her when she repulsed new emotional drama which eventually led the gal to do something that was so not her n as usual inviting more troubles then the engagement track when Navya wanted to move on he again stooped her the disappearing act then his ever petulant ways of forcing his opinions on Navya like dropping n picking her or his unexplained avoidance to Navya that landed her in princi's office n what not N today when Navya wanted to speak the truth he chickened out (i know he wanted some time n he may be right in his place) n again his impulsive n restless nature added more woes in Navya's life .

I know most will disagree would say he loves Navya doesn't wanna lose her it happens in love n some xyz reason .Today i was proud of Navya when she decided to tell everything to her mom but then again going by Anant's character he tried to stop her n even if that wasn't enough wanted to talk to her when she didn't intend to n asked him to go when she even said mom will be in her room no time so he shud cut his call .I KNOW MEETA NEEDS TO KNOW THE TRUTH I AGREE BUT DONT U ALL THINK IF HE DIDNT HAD UNTIMELY CALLED HER N PROCLAIMED HIS LOVE THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN MUCH BETTER ATLEAST HER MOTHER WONT HAD BEEN THIS HURT N SHATTERED I M SURE IF HE WOULD NT HAVE CALLED NAVYA THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN MORE CHANCES OF POSITIVE IMPACT OF NAVYA'S TRUTH ON HER MOM .what was the need to call her i know he was worried he didnt intend to hurt her or her mom but he shud have taken a lesson from his earlier impulsive n how it affected Navya n put her in troubles

i know Anant loves Navya he can never hurt her but his indecisive n unthinking attitude has already caused troubles 4 Navya .

sometimes i feel was Navya more happy n with lesser or no troubles b4him whatsoever shy nervous coy wud she been or Now .

till date Anant havent given me 1 solid reason to be actually be proud of him unlike Navya .i have liked him adored him but his character sketch is i guess the weakest one atleast 4 now

DISCLAIMER :- i dint intend to offend any 1 here just need to share my views if any 1 hurt then my apologies

God bless All
take care🤗


Hi manoj Agree wid each and every point of your post...I very happy..wen Navya decides to tell everything to her mom..She takes another strong step..

@Bold...I know if meeta knows in sum other way rather than saw webcam convo..She understands navya easily...But anant is rgyt at his place ..as he worried about his relation and knows that problems dey have 2 face if meeta cums to now...
But i liked what ever he says to navya in convo ..he assure that he is wid her...hope wen times he proves that spcl infront of his loony family



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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: shrav05

Today i was proud of Navya when she decided to tell everything to her mom but then again going by Anant's character he tried to stop her n even if that wasn't enough wanted to talk to her when she didn't intend to n asked him to go when she even said mom will be in her room no time so he shud cut his call .I KNOW MEETA NEEDS TO KNOW THE TRUTH I AGREE BUT DONT U ALL THINK IF HE DIDNT HAD UNTIMELY CALLED HER N PROCLAIMED HIS LOVE THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN MUCH BETTER ATLEAST HER MOTHER WONT HAD BEEN THIS HURT N SHATTERED I M SURE IF HE WOULD NT HAVE CALLED NAVYA THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN MORE CHANCES OF POSITIVE IMPACT OF NAVYA'S TRUTH ON HER MOM .- i totally totally agree with ur each and every point...and i totally agree with the bold words too...even i felt the same actually...

thanks shrav for agreeing .n thanks 4 understanding i m no where belittling anant i ts just that his immature nature is getting on my nerves
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Originally posted by: manojshonafan

thanks shrav for agreeing .n thanks 4 understanding i m no where belittling anant i ts just that his immature nature is getting on my nerves



ya ya understood that...its the different case in anant's house and navi's house...in anant's house there are very less people who actually understand him but in navi's house the thing is totally different..there are people who understand her and atleast think about her decision..so i felt navya should tell it and anant should not stop her...but i can understand one more point why anant mit have stopped navi...
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Originally posted by: manojshonafan

hey folks me back from my boring mundane hectic life to have a good time with u all🤗

Today my topic wont be liked by many or may be none but then i want to share my views with u all.
u know i have watched many Hindi serials b4 Navya n all of them had more or less the same kind of story only a bit change here n there in plot .In most of the shows what i saw was The guy would be a happy go lucky guy then the gal enters his life for some time it seems to the Guy Life is like a bed of roses but then again the gal makes the guy's miserable either marrying his sworn enemy /his friend brother out of some damn 'majboori' or else would hurt him knowingly unknowingly n make him cry tears of blood then after some misunderstandings enmity everything becomes rosy again .

In the other case guy wud be mean rude evil n then the gal comes in his life changes him 4 good then again deserts him when he needs her again due to some majboori' which as usual the gal wouldn't disclose to the guy even if Tsunami comes

Moral of the story so far whatever show i watched it was either of the 2 cases where eventually the guy is HURT to death n he eventually forgives n forgets .Mind u there have been exceptions too but most shows has the similar kind of storyline .i always felt y is the guy is hurt or termed as wrong doer does the gal actually deserve his love.i even loathed this fact

But after watching Navya my perception changed this show doesn't fit in either 2 brackets n thats 2 one of the reason i like this show but then again in this show the tables have turned Now its the guy who creates trouble 4 the gal like always N the gal thinks logically n for a change is much smarter than the guy(i cant believe i just said that but what to do its the truth depicted in the show) Y is Anant creating troubles 4 Navya just recollect all from the day Anant fell for Navya he has been creating troubles 4 Navya forcefully calling her to his sisters ceremony ,being adamant 4 the picnic thing .suddenly getting too touchy with her when she repulsed new emotional drama which eventually led the gal to do something that was so not her n as usual inviting more troubles then the engagement track when Navya wanted to move on he again stooped her the disappearing act then his ever petulant ways of forcing his opinions on Navya like dropping n picking her or his unexplained avoidance to Navya that landed her in princi's office n what not N today when Navya wanted to speak the truth he chickened out (i know he wanted some time n he may be right in his place) n again his impulsive n restless nature added more woes in Navya's life .

I know most will disagree would say he loves Navya doesn't wanna lose her it happens in love n some xyz reason .Today i was proud of Navya when she decided to tell everything to her mom but then again going by Anant's character he tried to stop her n even if that wasn't enough wanted to talk to her when she didn't intend to n asked him to go when she even said mom will be in her room no time so he shud cut his call .I KNOW MEETA NEEDS TO KNOW THE TRUTH I AGREE BUT DONT U ALL THINK IF HE DIDNT HAD UNTIMELY CALLED HER N PROCLAIMED HIS LOVE THAT WOULD HAVE BEEN MUCH BETTER ATLEAST HER MOTHER WONT HAD BEEN THIS HURT N SHATTERED I M SURE IF HE WOULD NT HAVE CALLED NAVYA THERE WOULD HAVE BEEN MORE CHANCES OF POSITIVE IMPACT OF NAVYA'S TRUTH ON HER MOM .what was the need to call her i know he was worried he didnt intend to hurt her or her mom but he shud have taken a lesson from his earlier impulsive n how it affected Navya n put her in troubles

i know Anant loves Navya he can never hurt her but his indecisive n unthinking attitude has already caused troubles 4 Navya . but then aagin i was a bit relieved when he actually allowed Navya to say the truth😊

sometimes i feel was Navya more happy n with lesser or no troubles b4him whatsoever shy nervous coy wud she been or Now .

till date Anant havent given me 1 solid reason to be actually be proud of him unlike Navya .i have liked him adored him but his character sketch is i guess the weakest one atleast 4 now

DISCLAIMER :- i dint intend to offend any 1 here just need to share my views if any 1 hurt then my apologies

God bless All
take care🤗

Agreed with all you said. If you see some of my previous replies to other posts I questioned wherther he is worthy of her love.
They both are from traditonal strict families but the diffrence in Navya's family is the love and close bond that they all share. Papa could be strict and angry but atleast listens, mum's best friend is Navya, dadi is strict but on the birthday explained it all and said that she will try to follow with the times, brother is naughty but loving ( look how he took Navya's side during the picnic) sis is strict but loving and protective

Whereas Anant has udi baba who glares and stares a lot, even though he loves Anant a lot but it is more of a dara hua love, Papa is a banshee constantly loud and screaming, ma cannot open her mouth at all, chacha, chachi have no say, bua dadi is constantly putting other women and children down, bai is so scared of hte family and bhabi is forever scheming.
As Anant said in his speech to Renu he has not seen love, what love he has seen he copies it (when Nimi talks on the phone and Ranbir has the 10 o'clock date nite). The poor guy tries not to make mistakes but it does not work out.
I think the more time he spends with Navya and her family and friends he will realize the normalcy of the world and may change. Hope the CV's make him to be stronger too. I would like to see both on an equal footing in the show.

As usual I think I spoke too much and sorry for the long post
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Posted: 14 years ago
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hey manoj...nice to se u back with such a post...uve said the unsaid...the question u asked has been there in the back of my mind each time we see the magical Anya moments n ananth at his ziddi n high-on-candy best! for when the actual test comes, will he be able to stand up???mandhbuddhi (me stealing tanus pet word) that he is...he blindly trusts rama despite seeing the way she treated navya at the mall n mohan warning her...he has not yet actually thought abt his future with navya n thats why i loved renu di asking him those tough questions abt his career, future plans n navya in his life...
navya is one stong gal...as ananth says, she puts everyone else first n herself last, so its when u have such an adorable family like hers, u just cant be happy telling lies always n with a mother who is trying her best to connect like meeta, it wud be bad if she lied anymore...it wudbe betrayal that would ruin the lovely bond that mother-daughter (now daughters) shared all these years...
as abt ananth, we've only seen the romantic, ziddi n high-on-candy side of him...we have to see how strong he will stand when the wind blows his side...n this time around, we cant excuse him like we did last time for almost getting engaged in the name of family principles, elders or whatever ...he just stammered, stuttered n muttered...agreed it was too early to talk abt navya, but he cud have used studies/career as an excuse to avoid the roka...
now...after going so far with navya...we have to see how tall will he stand...just keeping my fingers crossed hat he will not let navya down in future...for this time, its not just navya who will be hurt if he does not stand by her, but also renu di...who has already lied to her mom n betrayed the trust meeta had in her...n most probably meeta's trust in navya...say renu will manage to pacify meeta to a certain extent after the navya-meeta talk... n being the gem of the mother that she is, meeta could give navya time...
so ananth has a lot to prove...n lets see how well he fares...n hope he sees the shitsters true colours soon n stops pouring his heart n soul out to wicked rama...
manoj, too much of my ranting...anyways looking forward to see u more often out here with nu posts...
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nice post n agree with u
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Originally posted by: mridula.shome

I liked your post very much and agree to all your points but the title you chose was not at all worthy.
Is he worth the love?
Is it still doubtful? His foolish acts may have always landed Navya in trouble but that can obviously be expected from a 19 year old guy. As regards Navya's wise moves I can only say - Gals are always wiser than guys of the same age group.

@ red well if it wudnt have been worthy u wouldnt have commented wud u 😉
anyways mridu i dint want to offend any1 dont go by the literal meaning of it i wanted to focus on his irrational behavior (anyways i have changed the title )
2 bold how long will we justify his foolish acts under the guise of his age .n to be frank it doesn't make true sense smartness or foolishness has nothing to do with age its all abt how mature i m 17 n if i were in his place there would have been many instances i wudnt have acted that stupidly as he did .As the show is abt youth so we have to be connect to it .even a 5 yr old child if pricked by a fascinating n fragrant rose wont dare to pick it again then y is a 19 yr old repeating same kind of mistakes
@ blue not true in all cases i respect ur view but i have also seen the vice versa😛

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