Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC
Well how easily every one accepted the return of Krishna to P and his apologies, right. No one cared that what went through her mind all the time when her husband slapped her with a murder plot, suspected her, blamed her by saying " tum hamre sath khella khelti rahi", let the police drag her away in his presence and not even cared to look at her and finally divorced her.
Yet every one wanted her to forgive K in the blink of an eye and leave for TN as if nothing had happenš.Hey P - not everyone!!! Some of us like you are a bit more pragmatic than that!!!!...this is Pratigya after all...she is no pushover at the best of times!!!!š
Today we saw a dignified woman š šš¼ , she spoke her heart out, she was well within her rights to explain her take on the seriousness of what had happened to her and why she is taking this stance, She even told him that he shouldn't apologize, as she understand the whole fiasco. There is no doubt that she still loves him and wish him no harm, but she also wants him to realize that if he really loved her, he wouldn't have treated her like a criminal.
I have no idea if youre in a relationship or not - but what I can tell you from my own ripe old age is that relationships are not black and white but many complex hues of grey...
What K did was wrong - he knows
What P is doing is for the right reasons - K knows this too I'm sure
Men more so than women are probably more likely to "over step the mark" of the invisible boundaries of a husband-wife relationship...
However dont forget, P wants her relationship with K to endure and survive - she wants to be with him...
P is taking a huge gamble if she decides to test that love...and although its good that she clearly has faith in K going purely by the update and her past actions - she doesnt present it well.
She could have just as easily said as much to K - as in "I have faith in you that you will do the right thing..."!.it would have been more open and honest. But as usual she always keeps K in the dark about her real thoughts and keeps her cards close to her chest, and to her Papa. Some may believe she is justified, but in my opinion she is doing again what is so annoying and that is calling the shots...making me regard her as yet another puppet master for K in place of Amma..K puppet ka puppet hi reh gaya...
P would have been equally justified to say yes to being back with K but no to going back to Haveli and no to leaving Mayka unless and until K earns and has a roof of his own...but she didnt
P too has a lot to learn - she doesnt know as much as she thinks she does...
Edited by kEEnkEEn - 14 years ago