Pratigya you are a dignified woman

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Well how easily every one accepted the return of Krishna to P and his apologies, right. No one cared that what went through her mind all the time when her husband slapped her with a murder plot, suspected her, blamed her by saying " tum hamre sath khella khelti rahi", let the police drag her away in his presence and he not even cared to look at her and finally divorced her.

Yet every one wanted her to forgive K in the blink of an eye and leave for TN with him as if nothing had happenedšŸ˜•.

Today we saw a dignified woman šŸ‘ šŸ‘šŸ¼ , she spoke her heart out, she was well within her rights to explain her take on the seriousness of what had happened to her and why she is taking this stance, She even told him that he shouldn't apologize, as she understand the whole fiasco. There is no doubt that she still loves him and wish him no harm, but she also wants him to realize that if he really loved her, he wouldn't have treated her like a criminal.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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completely agree with u šŸ‘ rightly put šŸ‘ 😊 yes, P is a dignified woman n she knows how to guard her dignity n love n life-------------all in one go šŸ‘
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: PRAGMATIC

Well how easily every one accepted the return of Krishna to P and his apologies, right. No one cared that what went through her mind all the time when her husband slapped her with a murder plot, suspected her, blamed her by saying " tum hamre sath khella khelti rahi", let the police drag her away in his presence and not even cared to look at her and finally divorced her.

Yet every one wanted her to forgive K in the blink of an eye and leave for TN as if nothing had happenšŸ˜•.Hey P - not everyone!!! Some of us like you are a bit more pragmatic than that!!!!...this is Pratigya after all...she is no pushover at the best of times!!!!šŸ˜†

Today we saw a dignified woman šŸ‘ šŸ‘šŸ¼ , she spoke her heart out, she was well within her rights to explain her take on the seriousness of what had happened to her and why she is taking this stance, She even told him that he shouldn't apologize, as she understand the whole fiasco. There is no doubt that she still loves him and wish him no harm, but she also wants him to realize that if he really loved her,
he wouldn't have treated her like a criminal.

I have no idea if youre in a relationship or not - but what I can tell you from my own ripe old age is that relationships are not black and white but many complex hues of grey...
What K did was wrong - he knows
What P is doing is for the right reasons - K knows this too I'm sure
Men more so than women are probably more likely to "over step the mark" of the invisible boundaries of a husband-wife relationship...
However dont forget, P wants her relationship with K to endure and survive - she wants to be with him...
P is taking a huge gamble if she decides to test that love...and although its good that she clearly has faith in K going purely by the update and her past actions - she doesnt present it well.
She could have just as easily said as much to K - as in "I have faith in you that you will do the right thing..."!.it would have been more open and honest. But as usual she always keeps K in the dark about her real thoughts and keeps her cards close to her chest, and to her Papa. Some may believe she is justified, but in my opinion she is doing again what is so annoying and that is calling the shots...making me regard her as yet another puppet master for K in place of Amma..K puppet ka puppet hi reh gaya...
P would have been equally justified to say yes to being back with K but no to going back to Haveli and no to leaving Mayka unless and until K earns and has a roof of his own...but she didnt
P too has a lot to learn - she doesnt know as much as she thinks she does...
Edited by kEEnkEEn - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yeh i truely agree wid u...pratigya deserves to a a dignified women...wat she told krishna was absolutly crt...he shd understand wat pratqya istryin to say..and he ll understand for sure!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Agree.. but what i dont understand is, in that case how did she forgive arushi in 1 go.

similar circumstances of misunderstanding(actually worse cos krishna was fooled by his mother, but arushi fell for a stranger amans words against peatigyas), and when arushi asked for forgiveness she was welcomed with embrace. why dint pratigya teach her also the lesson of relationship...

DOUBLE STANDARDS!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yeah agree with u she is dignified women..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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yup.i agree with you šŸ‘šŸ¼
but i want Pratigya to forgive him.
i know Pratigya had suffered alot but as myself a young man i want Pratigya to forgive him because these things happens alot especially to innocent man's.
well these things too happen with me,not in marriage relationshipšŸ˜†,i am talking of some other relationship.šŸ˜†šŸ˜†
i know u r a kind woman,so with respect to pratigya,u want Krishna to realise his mistakes.
but i with respect to krishna,want Pratigya to forgive him.


well i have another idea for Pratigya.

well Pratigya can forgive him infront of her family and infront of these thakurs,.but in order to realise Krishna for his mistakes,she can maintain a distance from him in their bedroom,as Krishna did with her earlier when Pratigya was eager to prove her purity.

so with that Krishna would be safe from that GANGA,though many peoples are speculating her as sajjan's wife but for safety pratigya would be around him and thus GANGA's toofan would be avoided.



Edited by Amit_Mehra - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: kEEnkEEn

I have no idea if youre in a relationship or not - but what I can tell you from my own ripe old age is that relationships are not black and white but many complex hues of grey...
What K did was wrong - he knows
What P is doing is for the right reasons - K knows this too I'm sure
Men more so than women are probably more likely to "over step the mark" of the invisible boundaries of a husband-wife relationship...
However dont forget, P wants her relationship with K to endure and survive - she wants to be with him...
P is taking a huge gamble if she decides to test that love...and although its good that she clearly has faith in K going purely by the update and her past actions - she doesnt present it well.
She could have just as easily said as much to K - as in "I have faith in you that you will do the right thing..."!.it would have been more open and honest. But as usual she always keeps K in the dark about her real thoughts and keeps her cards close to her chest, and to her Papa. Some may believe she is justified, but in my opinion she is doing again what is so annoying and that is calling the shots...making me regard her as yet another puppet master for K in place of Amma..K puppet ka puppet hi reh gaya...
P would have been equally justified to say yes to being back with K but no to going back to Haveli and no to leaving Mayka unless and until K earns and has a roof of his own...but she didnt
P too has a lot to learn - she doesnt know as much as she thinks she does...



GR8 posts @ Prags and Keenkeen...

both of you have made excellent points...

Prats had to choose between her dignity and her love and today she chose dignity...
But as Keenwa said... life is not all black and white ... and not all situations in life are the same... what may be true today may not necessarily be true tomm... Life has no guarantees... you either take it as it comes, warts and all... or let go...

K was fooled by his own mother and made to think that P had betrayed their marriage and he let go of Prats... and Prats although knowing the truth has let go of K, because of her own sense of betrayal is too deep...

Basically it is now a case of P's trust in K... she needs to know that he will not repeat his mistakes... but is putting a loved one to the test , right for any relationship...

Pyaar mein kouno souda nahin hota...


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: fruark

Agree.. but what i dont understand is, in that case how did she forgive arushi in 1 go.


similar circumstances of misunderstanding(actually worse cos krishna was fooled by his mother, but arushi fell for a stranger amans words against peatigyas), and when arushi asked for forgiveness she was welcomed with embrace. why dint pratigya teach her also the lesson of relationship...

DOUBLE STANDARDS!!!



a husband-wife relation is way diff from that of blood relations...P is also a mother figure to arushi as it has been made very clear at the start of the show...so P helped her without any thought n even forgetting her own insults n also thinking of kesar...here also P forgave K...she didn't say that she can't or won't forgive him...she forgave him, but the wound he has inflicted in her heart is far deeper than any ...n she is still thinking of him only ...wanting him to be a better man, who knows to respect n protect his love...to trust his love...not just blindly love n hating ur love based on words n speculations...here also she is thinking of him only...for his , and eventually their betterment...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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totally agree wit u ... prats has taken right decision 2 stay back... by staying bck she maintains her dignity ...
loved the way she convey... calmly & vry nice way 2 realise her husband wat he has done 2 her ...he wil surely realize his mistake & understand her ... she truly love baba & wnt her love 2 be mor stronger n ech step of life

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