hmm this is very normal yaar, everyone goes through it..even i went through such kinds of infactuations during my school days (for certain actors in tv and cinemas) though behind my mind i know it will never materialize...so what i do, i just try to enjoy that feeling cos that feeling of falling in love with a person and u know u will never get that person is not as injurious or bad as a realistic person in ur school or college 😉, infact the feeling that u can never get that person is what makes u enjoy every moment of thinking abt that person...u wont believe, but at those times i used to be a typical introvert without any freinds and this day dreaming habit about the person i love the most used to keep me occupied and forget my lonliness as the moment i feel lonely, automatically my mind used to go into imagination of this person and then i would come back to reality only when someone talks to me or approaches me 😳 ..i used to be a typical day dreamer and absent minded, especially when the classes used to be boring, i would be looking at my teacher but my thoughts would be about this person (hehe one day my teacher asked me a question related to her explanation like how she asks every student every now and then and i was like 'uh, mam wat was ur question 😳 '...hehe that also happens but still i dint stop...
ok so now i will give u some very good tips which u can follow and not only concentrate on ur studies but also enjoy this feeling 😉 :
Though i used to day dream a lot (even before my exams), still i used to get reasonably good marks (like above 60% which was considered good in our sylabus). How i used to do it, when i sit to study, i keep a target, like "ok, if i finish studying this small topic fast, i get a chance to day dream about 'him' for 10 mins"...so like that, each topic i was able to understand and finish fast with utmost concentration, and get 10-10 mins in between to dream about my 'darling' 😳 ..and one more advantage of this is that u wont forget what u learnt so quickly as 1st of all u are giving a gap between each topic (unlike studying huge chunks of stuff at one go and in the end getting confused 😕 )..and secondly since u were thinking interesting things about ur 'darling', when u rethink about those thigns, automatically the pts u studied also flashes into ur mind...
SO IN SHORT...APNI KAMZORI KO APNI TAAQAT BANAAO 😉, AND ENJOY THIS FEELING INSTEAD OF TRYING TO ELIMINATE IT, AS IT WONT COME BACK AGAIN 😉 !!