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Originally posted by: dewdrops_999
hmm this is very normal yaar, everyone goes through it..even i went through such kinds of infactuations during my school days (for certain actors in tv and cinemas) though behind my mind i know it will never materialize...so what i do, i just try to enjoy that feeling cos that feeling of falling in love with a person and u know u will never get that person is not as injurious or bad as a realistic person in ur school or college 😉, infact the feeling that u can never get that person is what makes u enjoy every moment of thinking abt that person...u wont believe, but at those times i used to be a typical introvert without any freinds and this day dreaming habit about the person i love the most used to keep me occupied and forget my lonliness as the moment i feel lonely, automatically my mind used to go into imagination of this person and then i would come back to reality only when someone talks to me or approaches me 😳 ..i used to be a typical day dreamer and absent minded, especially when the classes used to be boring, i would be looking at my teacher but my thoughts would be about this person (hehe one day my teacher asked me a question related to her explanation like how she asks every student every now and then and i was like 'uh, mam wat was ur question 😳 '...hehe that also happens but still i dint stop...
ok so now i will give u some very good tips which u can follow and not only concentrate on ur studies but also enjoy this feeling 😉 :
Though i used to day dream a lot (even before my exams), still i used to get reasonably good marks (like above 60% which was considered good in our sylabus). How i used to do it, when i sit to study, i keep a target, like "ok, if i finish studying this small topic fast, i get a chance to day dream about 'him' for 10 mins"...so like that, each topic i was able to understand and finish fast with utmost concentration, and get 10-10 mins in between to dream about my 'darling' 😳 ..and one more advantage of this is that u wont forget what u learnt so quickly as 1st of all u are giving a gap between each topic (unlike studying huge chunks of stuff at one go and in the end getting confused 😕 )..and secondly since u were thinking interesting things about ur 'darling', when u rethink about those thigns, automatically the pts u studied also flashes into ur mind...
SO IN SHORT...APNI KAMZORI KO APNI TAAQAT BANAAO 😉, AND ENJOY THIS FEELING INSTEAD OF TRYING TO ELIMINATE IT, AS IT WONT COME BACK AGAIN !!
thats exactly what i do to concentrate😉 and guess what IT WORKS!! even i have big problem of day dreaming but doing this m getting more than 80 % in my all courses😉
thats exactly what i do to concentrate😉 and guess what IT WORKS!! even i have big problem of day dreaming but doing this m getting more than 80 % in my all courses😉
wow congrats on such high marks 👏!!...this is one of the ways to convert something as boring as studies into something that is not that bad 😉 !! actually day dreaming is good as day dreaming about things we really like helps to keep our equilibrium and takes us farrr away from all routine tensions of life into a world where everything happens the way we want, and everything is just perfect!! This really helps us to forget all our tensions, worries and bad incidents that happen every now and then in life (like bad behaviour from other ppl, fights with someone, physical illness, etc)...
actually i will tell u one more advantage of this and believe me i am not joking at all...when i used to be physically ill with pain, when my thoughts get diverted this way, trust me, i even forget my pain and illness (unless ofcourse mom comes with that stupid yucky tasting medicine 😡)
So ppl, take my advice, my experience was really positive, and believe me, u will also see the difference 😉 !!
Originally posted by: jennymanoj
i know yaar dat he's getting married anywaz its jus a fantasy being 14 yr old i thnk it must be infactuation but i can't stop thnking about him.
Its ok yaar, dont get tensed, every girl at ur age goes through all this..dont think it is a disease, its just normal...arre many of us used to have crush and infactuation on guys who were even married when they came into the film/tv industry...so its no big deal cos even if he wasnt going to marry, its not that you or we would be able to marry him anyways na...so chill and just enjoy this feeling yaar - its even better than a real relationship, trust me 😉!!
and ya, just ignore hamzy, hes just joking...hamzy, be careful or .....😉