can't forget manoj - Page 3

hamzy is toccering -no one can understand me

Originally posted by: jennymanoj

guyz i don't know why but i can't stop thnking about manoj-each time i try 2 thnk about somethng else his picture comes in my mind. i don't know what to do-please help me out-i can't even concentrate on my studies. i seriously don't know vat 2 do.

I know wht u mean😛But just try and block him out when you are studying. Study first...then think about him...I know what you mean though..

Originally posted by: dewdrops_999

hmm this is very normal yaar, everyone goes through it..even i went through such kinds of infactuations during my school days (for certain actors in tv and cinemas) though behind my mind i know it will never materialize...so what i do, i just try to enjoy that feeling cos that feeling of falling in love with a person and u know u will never get that person is not as injurious or bad as a realistic person in ur school or college 😉, infact the feeling that u can never get that person is what makes u enjoy every moment of thinking abt that person...u wont believe, but at those times i used to be a typical introvert without any freinds and this day dreaming habit about the person i love the most used to keep me occupied and forget my lonliness as the moment i feel lonely, automatically my mind used to go into imagination of this person and then i would come back to reality only when someone talks to me or approaches me 😳 ..i used to be a typical day dreamer and absent minded, especially when the classes used to be boring, i would be looking at my teacher but my thoughts would be about this person (hehe one day my teacher asked me a question related to her explanation like how she asks every student every now and then and i was like 'uh, mam wat was ur question 😳 '...hehe that also happens but still i dint stop...

ok so now i will give u some very good tips which u can follow and not only concentrate on ur studies but also enjoy this feeling 😉 :

Though i used to day dream a lot (even before my exams), still i used to get reasonably good marks (like above 60% which was considered good in our sylabus). How i used to do it, when i sit to study, i keep a target, like "ok, if i finish studying this small topic fast, i get a chance to day dream about 'him' for 10 mins"...so like that, each topic i was able to understand and finish fast with utmost concentration, and get 10-10 mins in between to dream about my 'darling' 😳 ..and one more advantage of this is that u wont forget what u learnt so quickly as 1st of all u are giving a gap between each topic (unlike studying huge chunks of stuff at one go and in the end getting confused 😕 )..and secondly since u were thinking interesting things about ur 'darling', when u rethink about those thigns, automatically the pts u studied also flashes into ur mind...

SO IN SHORT...APNI KAMZORI KO APNI TAAQAT BANAAO 😉, AND ENJOY THIS FEELING INSTEAD OF TRYING TO ELIMINATE IT, AS IT WONT COME BACK AGAIN 😉 !!

dew_drop...mind saying who that "someone" is/was?😛

Originally posted by: kiunhogayana

i know what u mean....... 😳 😳 😉
i even have another crush in my school yaar...he's my friend n i cant help but look at him.....but i know he doesnt know that i like him....but oh well...i always think abt him...
but just try to think of something else!
ANILA 😳

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww😊

I don't understand why these young people are in love with celebrities?Just makes no sense 😕 But anyway,this love disease is really bad.Try to follow dew_drop's rules.I did the same.I am living with my ex in the same house due to signing tenancy contract for a year and before that I can't move out.I also used to fantacise a lot but I know very well,there's no point since we are separated and I have to concentrate on studies.

Originally posted by: annu1611

dew_drop...mind saying who that "someone" is/was?😛

well this was back in 1995 when i was in school in 8th std (i used to study in a girls only school for 14 years!!), i used to like some tv actor (gosh i dont even remember his name now but he used to come in a seriel called karm, and then in ghar ek mandir), but more than that, i used to be crazy about chandrachur singh after seeing tere mere sapne...this craze was there for 4 years till my schooling finished...then once i joined college and started mingling with guys, crushes and infactuations shifted from television and movies to real life characters in college 😉 !!

Originally posted by: cutesweetjenni

I don't understand why these young people are in love with celebrities?Just makes no sense 😕 But anyway,this love disease is really bad.Try to follow dew_drop's rules.I did the same.I am living with my ex in the same house due to signing tenancy contract for a year and before that I can't move out.I also used to fantacise a lot but I know very well,there's no point since we are separated and I have to concentrate on studies.

oh really!! i thought u were a small girl!! how old are u!!

Originally posted by: dewdrops_999

well this was back in 1995 when i was in school in 8th std (i used to study in a girls only school for 14 years!!), i used to like some tv actor (gosh i dont even remember his name now but he used to come in a seriel called karm, and then in ghar ek mandir), but more than that, i used to be crazy about chandrachur singh after seeing tere mere sapne...this craze was there for 4 years till my schooling finished...then once i joined college and started mingling with guys, crushes and infactuations shifted from television and movies to real life characters in college 😉 !!

Oh cool!😊

Heya
Try n' explain urself dt by thinking of him ur doing urself the harm n' not any1 else. Try n' explain urself that if u don do wat u have 2... u mite suffer later ... it shud work but u have 2 make it work...
Take Care
Cyaz!!!

yaar all r all-ok guyz i tke the tips from dewdrops but as jenni said tehse young people -sorry jenni buti guess u must have a crush on celebrity too when u were at my age-think through me yaar-sorry about ur ex though.