Posted:
if u ask me the very institution of marriage is flawed one. ok out of the show and to the real life.
in an arranged marriage even thoh the so called factors are "right" here.... age, no property dispute etc etc ........ and yet so many things are just so wrong. like treating the bahu as property, not caring about her wishes, welfare, snide comments and remarks to her and her family, ego tussels, restricting her movements, imposing their desires ....... also umpteen rituals which are simply loaded in the favour of the ladka walas.
i have found myself wondering so many times ... if woman and man are compliemntry why is this ritual so skwed.
anyway ds that make love marriage a perfect institution? it may apepar so from afar ..... yet distortions can creep in there too. so traditions are like rules passed in parliament .. most have good premise but are distorted along the way.
eventually property disputes do arise in almost eevry family ........ while it seems wrong to marry the woman just in name of property .. apparently this tadition is nto merely about it.
now comign to the show ..... gulaal was left with a choice ....... to leave the house and go.technically since the husband is dead she dsnt have any stake in the house anyway. sicne she chose to live in the house .... she had to marry her devar. i guess the tradition actually helped her here .
Ye Hai Mohabbatein
Arjun
Sensational South
