sudha.s attitude...

i thought that sudha still love murli ,,,when she gave the gift to murli and ask iam very happy for you and bharti then why she goes outside the room and stand there and sad and weeping,,,,i think she 😉loves murli and about that bharti already douts at sudha... l

I think Bharti should have insisted that Sudha take Murli. Also, she should have told Murli that regardless what agreement he had w/ her dad, she does not love him, and loves someone else. I also felt really sad for Amit - he's given everything for Bharti - after all, he was under no moral obligation to believe Bharti over Prakash, which her own sasural didn't. So it was sad seeing him let down.

I do hope that in the end, Amarti and Surli are the couples we end up w/ - I don't like the Bharli jodi any more than I did previously.

Originally posted by: _Vrish_

I think Bharti should have insisted that Sudha take Murli. Also, she should have told Murli that regardless what agreement he had w/ her dad, she does not love him, and loves someone else. I also felt really sad for Amit - he's given everything for Bharti - after all, he was under no moral obligation to believe Bharti over Prakash, which her own sasural didn't. So it was sad seeing him let down.

I do hope that in the end, Amarti and Surli are the couples we end up w/ - I don't like the Bharli jodi any more than I did previously.

Hi,
i think that bharti did already a good job saying twice that sudha should make a pair with Murli (before prakash revelation and after murli proposal), i think that it's now sudha's turn to make a move. why did she keep denying? i think that it was hard for bharti because she does love murli but she went trough the trouble of trying to make him go for sudha even if murli started reacting in a bad way.
Bharti does not love amit and i think that there is only frienship between them for the moment.

Originally posted by: bavdfan

i think that it's now sudha's turn to make a move. why did she keep denying?

but how can sudha make a move and say she is in love with murli when murli is a already married man and eager in accepting his wife again out of guilt and to fulfill the promise he gave to rupesh ,to add to that sudha herself is a married woman 😒 ... even if she says now it will only spoil her relationship with murli and other lals ... there is no option left for her other than denying 😒 ... i agree with vrish that if bharti had thought she could have united surli after all if her brain is working properly she must be understanding that murli is accepting her for many reasons other than love (not like other serials where female lead sacrifices her hero who loves her and forces him to marry other girl but unite with him at the end...here murli is clearly not in love with bharti ... so i think bharti must be happy at the happiness of her love rather than her own happiness ...(not necessary to unite surli without knowing anything from murli's side but she should have denied his proposal) )

Originally posted by: bavdfan

i think that bharti did already a good job saying twice that sudha should make a pair with Murli (before prakash revelation and after murli proposal),

actually bharti should have said sudha that she is toiling hard to clear the misunderstandings between her and murli & in case murli accepts her after all the revelations she may reunite with him ..that could have send a signal to sudha that she should not encourage her feelings for murli ... instead bharti said she would move on with her business but didnt stood by what she said 🤢 ...and followed a very lame approach of asking murli to marrry sudha 🤢

Originally posted by: bavdfan

Bharti does not love amit and i think that there is only frienship between them for the moment.

i also think there is nothing more than friendship betweem amarti
(sometimes it looks like bharti is following the common principle of all boys and gals 😆 ..if good-looking then flirt with them and have them as boyfriends or girlfriends if not a pure friendship will come there 😆😆😆😆)

(okey whatever i wrote is only my pov ..not arguing or proving u wrong 😆)

Originally posted by: --jas--

so i think bharti must be happy at the happiness of her love rather than her own happiness ...(not necessary to unite surli without knowing anything from murli's side but she should have denied his proposal) )

actually bharti should have said sudha that she is toiling hard to clear the misunderstandings between her and murli & in case murli accepts her after all the revelations she may reunite with him ..that could have send a signal to sudha that she should not encourage her feelings for murli ... instead bharti said she would move on with her business but didnt stood by what she said 🤢 ...and followed a very lame approach of asking murli to marrry sudha 🤢

first of all, thanks for answering, this is all about debate and understanding each other point of view so i won't get mad if someone says i don't get something and all ^^

so here is what i think : sudha loves murli, murli loves no one, bharti used to love murli but now she don't care. (this will help later)
in first place, sudha shouldn't love murli, i mean even before bharti entrance : she is married, gaushala have been talking about murli's wife in front of sudha so she must knew something was going on.
murli doesn't love any of her but he WANTS to marry bharti (whatever his reasons are) and Bharti accepted. not because of her own hapiness but because of murli will and her mother hapiness. she is definetly not putting herself first.
about the tentative of bharti for Surli weeding : that wasn't her business. i don't care if she succes or fail, it wasn't meant to be in the first place

I don't like Sudha. Never have. Still don't (and my opinion of Sudha does not reflect on Priya who plays Sudha because I know she has fans on this board and I don't want to offend anyone). I just don't like the way the writers have placed Sudha in the script.

1. She didn't have any problems falling in love - despite being an abused woman, she very easily started trusting another man. A man, who admittedly is married. She knew that. It does not matter who he was married to - the fact that he was married shows there is history there. She didn't even bother finding out whether that history is similar to her and Ram Avatar's. She didn't once stop to wonder if she was jumping out of a frying pan into boiling water! What if Murli was as abusive as Ram Avatar? He has the temper to be mentally abusive - what made her NOT think that he could be physically abusive too! And let me tell you, mental abuse is worse than physical abuse. But Sudha didn't consider it - all she saw was a handsome young man who was fighting for her, hence, he was her Krishna! (!!?)

2. She supposedly knows Bharti from her school days. When she found out Bharti and Murli were husband and wife, that alone should have made her back-off. She shouldn't have just let Bharti hand Murli over to her on a silver platter knowing full well that Bharti is still in love with Murli. But in her arrogant opinion, Sudha thought she will suit Murli better than Bharti (bah!)

3. She heard Murli made the announcement that he wanted to marry Bharti again. That alone, should have told her where she stood with him. But, she had the audacity to eaves drop on a private husband/wife conversation and butt in. Openly telling Murli she loves him and then tries to lace it with false purity about shrada and guru. Hog wosh! When Bharti told Murli that Sudha wanted to be in his life, that Sudha WAITED for minutes, waiting to see Murli's reaction before she spoke up! She is no friend of Bharti or Murli. She is a selfish woman. She waited to hear Murli's reaction. Only when he was OFFENDED that she reverted to plan B - which was, Bharti is deranged, she misunderstood my feelings for you. Really Sudha? Didn't have the guts to own up to her feelings (pyaar kiya toh darna kya right!) instead she tries to prove Bharti a lier.

4. Sudha is very selfish. She couldn't even see a husband feeding his grieving wife food. Jealousy ki bhi hadh hoti hai. And when Murli was feeding Bharti, Sudha did not know that Murli was going to re-marry Bharti but the fact that he was showing Bharti ( his WIFE) some COMPASSION (not love) - even that Sudha could not bear and had to tingle in jealousy! He was never her man to begin with.

5. Bharti and Sudha both assumed Murli would want to be with Sudha. Did anyone bother to ask the boy what he wanted from all this? Why would anyone assume that Sudha is the best choice for Murli when clearly, the irrational, pompous, arrogant, holder of volcanic anger Murli needs someone like Bharti who is sensible, rational, compassionate and kind enough to give up a husband she loves because she thinks he will never want to be with her.

If people see past the superficial norms, they will agree that a great pair is not that of who is more beautiful but rather who is more compatible. If good looks were THE ingredient in a successful marriage then Princess Diana and Prince Charles would never have gotten divorced.

Murli and Bharti should be together. Because despite Bharti's height and Murli's temper, they do indeed, complete each other. And I have been saying this long before Murli and writers said it in last week's episodes.

Bharti/Murli will always have my vote. The script supports their union.

fuz

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just only one thing ..

Originally posted by: cheznazi

She didn't once stop to wonder if she was jumping out of a frying pan into boiling water!...all she saw was a handsome young man who was fighting for her, hence, he was her Krishna! (!!?)

isnt this applicable to bharti as well 🤔

& dear.. physical abuse is always worse than mental abuse (easy to theoritically say ,difficult while experiencing it 😒) ...

Originally posted by: --jas--

& dear.. physical abuse is always worse than mental abuse (easy to theoritically say ,difficult while experiencing it 😒) ...

omg Rakhie it's you, so glad to see u on IF 🤗